We don't want to be loved. That's a huge misconception. We want to love. All of us would rather pick a person that we love, than a person that loves us with all their heart. We don't want to be worshipped. We want to worship. We'd all rather be murdered at the shrine of a person we love dearly, than be prayed for.
Maybe it's because we think little of ourselves, maybe it's because we think we don't deserve to be loved, maybe we think loving others gives us some form of atonement for our sins, who knows?
But the point is, when you say you want love in your life, don't lie and say that you wish someone would love you.
me irl
I wrote something.
And made my friend sing it.
And well, here it is.
The lyrics go:
Akhan mila ke akhan us da bana de mainu
Make our eyes meet, and make me hers
Khud nu zameen te te usnu arshan te rakha
I promise i'll be on the ground and keep her in the sky
Usnu meri jaan te usda bana de mainu
Make her my life my soul and make me her's
Nahi kuch karna te likhna sikhade mainu
And if you won't do anything, then just make me a poet
Mannya mai mainu eh mohabbatan da vall ni
I know, i'm not "experienced" and an "expert" in love
Meriyan ibadatan di usnu khabar ni
But she doesn't know or understand my devotion
Sidhi jahi gall e rabba os da bana de mainu
Look, God, I'm telling you, just make me her's.
Nahi kuch karna te likhna sikhade
And if you can't just make me a poet, then.
who cares, do better, move on
Could be worse.
Tony Hoagland, from “Peaceful Transition”, What Narcissism Means to Me
باغ بہاراں تے گلزاراں بن یاراں کس کاری ؟
یار ملے دکھ جان ہزاراں شکر کہاں لکھ واری
Baagh baharaan te gulzaraan bin yaaraan kis kaari Yaar milan dukh jaan hazaraan, shukr karan lakh vari
–Mian Muhammad Bakhsh
What effect of this spring, of these garden, without my friends?
When friends meet, share the griefs, I offer gratitude thousand times
Lang Leav
It is weird.
I'm just made up of all the people I fell in love with.
not evil anymore i want to be loved now
-What are you?-To define is to limit. They call me voltage. Because I've got a lot of potential, but I'm mostly negative.
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