You Did So Well, Kim Jonghyun.

Surgery For Aiden

https://www.gofundme.com/surgeryforaiden

This is Aiden. The cutest, most lovable, and loving cat. 

A cat that hopefully will have many, many years left because of this surgery.

From his gofundme page: “I found out that a mast cell tumors that he had to have surgery to remove from his ear last year are back, and there are more of the tumors along with it.  He has to have another surgery to remove the tumors on his ears, a pinnectomy, where they will remove the part of his ear where the tumors are to make sure it cannot spread any further.  He also has to undergo other tests to be sure there are not more tumors.  During the checkup the doctor said she saw a mass deep in his left ear and the right ear drum was opaque which they will evaluate better when he is under anesthesia.  The doctor wants to order a CT scan prior to the surgery to get the best pictures so they can remove what they need to. Every tumor removed will be biopsied and hopefully none of them are cancerous.  It is unclear at this point what will happen and what the prognosis will ultimately be.  We are just taking it one step at a time.  The surgery needs to happen as soon as possible so these cells/tumors can stop spreading further down his ear. The CT scan has been schedule for July 12th and the surgery on July 16th. “

 There is more info on his gofundme page.

Any shares, reblogs, donations are much appreciate by Aiden’s family.

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This is super important!!!!

this is important !

i’m really disgusted by people continuing to hurt, disrespect and insult idols, who literally work their ass off to satisfy us and make us happy. and that includes invading their personal space, which is something that’s simply not okay to do, along with so many other things that have happened.

to start this post off;

s/o to the rats entering nct’s tour bus and going through their stuff

or the one who went to johnny’s house the day he was visiting his family for the first time in 3 years

people calling them bts, interviewers not being able to tell apart nct dream and nct 127….

however there’s a lot more than just the recent incidents with nct:

a fan once told tzuyu to “shut up” during a fan event when she was giving her final greeting. others joined in and told her to keep her mouth shut which resulted in her asking jeongyeon to do it for her.

aoa’s mina was cussed out by a ‘fan’ who told her that “a singer needs to be good at singing. use the time to care for your fucking face to practice singing.” which brought her close to tears.

during a seventeen fan meeting, a joshua stan was upset about something he had supposedly done and decided to express her anger by throwing some papers (and a pen) at him. luckily she was taken out from the meeting by security.

pristin’s kyla got rejected by fans at yet another fan meeting when she had some one-on-one time with them. instead of taking pictures of her, most of the cameras in the crowd turned away from her to shoot pics of the other members.

there was another time when monsta x held a fan meeting and minhyuk was leaning closer to jooheon to tell him something. a fan decided to stick her hand into his face to basically push him away from jooheon. (I don’t think she touched his face but the gesture alone is too much.)

during a got7 fan meeting, the fans had a chance to get partnered up with one of them for a game. youngjae picked a yugyeom fan, and she basically told him that she wanted to be partnered with yugyeom instead of him. he told her “you want yugyeom? go, it’s okay.” he kept saying that is was alright when clearly, it wasn’t.

some comments on an article about p.o’s mother passing away were about other groups. for example: “bangtan oppas will have a comeback in february please support them a lot.” ; “since this news isn’t fun, give us at least news about bangtan’s comeback.” ; “give us news about exo’s recent update. these kind of news are boring.” //// I’m getting so angry only writing about this

a lot of incidents happen during live streams - fans telling them to speak english when they’re clearly not comfortable in doing so. or asking for another member is simply disrespectful.

during one of nayeon’s livestreams, she read a few comments out loud which were downright cruel. some called her a grandma, others called her stupid when she didn’t know a word/term (I guess it was something trendy at that time). she played it off by saying “you guys are too much. onces (fandom name) are so cruel.”

.. or at the airport:

when exo-m and shinee arrived in korea, luhan was knocked down by a crowd of fans, and could’ve gotten swept away in the crowd if baekhyun hadn’t grabbed him.

another fan shoved t.o.p out of the way at the airport to get to daesung.

there’s also a lot of people calling idols ugly while hiding behind their twitter (or any other sort of social media) account.

y’all suck and I wish you nothing but bad luck for the rest of your life. may someone disrespect you the way you disrespect them and their privacy.

thank you for listening to my ted talk. feel free to add to this post.

Monsta X in Atlanta

I'm not very far from Atlanta and I would love to go and greet Monsta X at the airport. Does anyone know anything about that?

Dear Jonghyun, Today it’s been 3 years without your beautiful smile, your beautiful voice, your beautiful words, the beautiful you. I miss you everyday and I will cherish all the beautiful words, music and memories you gave us forever. You did well, you worked the hardest ♡

Ok, I barely dip into the Twice and Suju fandoms

But oh. My. Word.

You are all accusing Heechul of being a predator??? For dating another consenting adult???

YOU. DON'T. KNOW. THESE. IDOLS. PERSONALLY.

By calling Heechul whatever disgusting names the internet loves to use, you are questioning Momo. You all claim to love Momo and want to protect her when you automatically assume that she can't possibly be dating Heechul because, I don't know, HE'S A GOOD GUY who is famous for how respectful he is to women?! And you automatically assume a bunch of sexual stuff and not that he's dating her because he LIKES HER? You are questioning Momo's ability to think for herself and be a grown working woman making adult choices.

I have seen countless young girls go full on crazy over male idols. I've heard 14-year-old girls say sexual things about idols who are almost 30. Several of the people crying over Heechul and Momo have said these things themselves. Also apparently Heechul admired her "when she was a teenager" - you're leaving out the fact that she was 19 - AN ADULT.

And to all the people sobbing about how they're both actually gay and it's a coverup, you disgust me. You actually disgust me. These idols sexualities are none of your business. Oh, and throwing shade to someone because they're not the sexuality you wanted them to be? That's not only a million times creepier than anything you claim Heechul has done, but is hateful and contradicts everything you supposedly stand for - which is supporting people no matter their sexuality.

Momo and Heechul are both adults with their own private lives who don't owe these bratty, selfish, so-called "fans" anything. I've seen people giving Heechul DEATH THREATS. Which is in fact illegal (their relationship is not).

In short - Heechul and Momo deserve all the love and happiness in the world. You're allowed to be uncomfortable as I know many people have had bad age gap experiences but please PLEASE for once just realize that not everyone has the same experiences as you.

And to everyone accusing Heechul of horrible things and to everyone who's so concerned for Momo's safety - I sincerely hope you can get a life and stop infantilizing women as well as stop assuming the worst about a man simply because he is a man. Oh wait - this is your life. I don't hate any of you - I'm sorry for you. You must feel so bad about yourself that you feel the need to try to ruin innocent people's lives that you have no involvement in because for some reason you've decided it's bad.

Stop treating idols like they're fictional characters who must adhere to your headcanons and ships. Stop infantilizing grown adult women making their own life choices. Stop threatening men on completely baseless accusations. This is the most disgusting thing I've seen in a long time. I sincerely hope you all learn from this and stop acting like the terrifying cross between Puritans and Radfems that the internet seems to breed so prolifically.

most romantic songs ever written

when you look me in the eyes - jonas brothers

To whoever, and I mean WHOEVER comes across this I'm begging you to share it.

If you're on Twitter please report this account. This is literally the worst thing I've ever seen show up from an incident like this. A beautiful life was lost and people are being rude a disrespectful towards the artists themselves, the people who loved these said artists as well as the fandom they claim to be apart of but are clearly doing it to start fan wars.

Of all the horrible things I've seen in response to this heartbreaking event, this by far has to be one of the worst. I'm out of words and have no way to express how I feel about this because I'm filled with a million different emotions.

I'm sorry to all f(x) fans for your loss and although I'm not apart of your fanbase, I know that she was an amazing person who gave more love than she received. I'm also sorry that people create and share these kinds of things while dragging other fandoms into the dirt. You do not deserve this disgusting response.

It brought me so much sadness seeing all the negative replies about this and how others are using it as a "promotional period" for their own artists (yes I've seen people actually do this)

I don't know if reporting them will work but if done multiple times their acc will be checked out and hopefully banned.

My deepest condolences to all those who loved her, fan or family.

This also serves as a crucial reminder that your words, written or said do have impact. No matter how small your account or how large the platform, thinking "They won't see it" will not prevent them from seeing it.

Please always be kind. Be mindful of your words towards others and always check up on those you love. One second of your input could change a lot.

All fan wars should be put aside and forgotten because this is more important then that. These issues are more important then who got what awards or who topped which chart.

A fandom lost an angel today. A group lost a sister. So please out your hate aside and spread the love everyone needs.

Like my previous post, I apologize in advance for the unrelated tags.

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CHEN IS GETTING MERRIED !!

"Hello, this is Chen.

I have something to say to my fans, so I wrote this letter. I don’t know how to start, so I am very nervous. I wanted to be the first one to tell my fans who I love so much, so I am leaving this post even with my lacking sentences.

I have a girlfriend who I want to be with for the rest of my life.

I was worried and concerned with what would happen with my decision, but I wanted to let everyone know early so my members, the company, my agency, and especially my fans who are proud of me wouldn’t be surprised by the sudden news, so I talked it out with my agency and the members.

During that time a blessing came to me. I was shocked because I wasn’t able to take part in the plans that I had made with the members and the company. But, this blessing gave me the strength and courage. I thought about how and when I should reveal the news but I didn’t want to wait any longer so I am carefully revealing it to you all now.

I am grateful to my members for genuinely supporting and congratulating me and to our fans for always showering us with insurmountable love. I will always be grateful for all of you and will continue to do my best in the position I am in.

Thank you always." - Chen