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types of healthy coping skills

1. self-soothing

comforting yourself through the 5 senses

Touch: stuffed animals, stress balls, taking a bath, a soft blanket

Hear: music, audio book, guided relaxation

See: snow globe, glitter, calming images, art, anything that pleases you visually 

Taste: tea, mints, gum

Smell: lotion, candles, incense 

2. distraction

removing your focus from the stressor for a period of time

puzzles, art, crafting, reading, movies, gaming, exercise, being social

3. opposite action

doing the opposite of the impulse that aligns with a positive emotion

affirmations, inspiration, lighthearted and encouraging focus

4. emotional awareness

identifying and constructively expressing what you’re feeling

journaling, listing emotions, using a emotional identification chart, drawing, therapy

5. mindfulness

centering and anchoring yourself to the present moment

meditation, guided relaxation, yoga, breathing exercises, candle gazing, going for a walk

6. ask for help

this is important to do when you feel like your coping skills are not enough or they are too negative and detrimental  

therapy is ideal for helping a person create a healthy coping strategy and incorporate it into their life 

*a coping skill is considered healthy if it helps you to deal with stress more positively, does not hinder your progress, and isn’t harmful physically or mentally. A coping skill can become negative when it is used to completely avoid dealing with the stressor. 

It sucks waiting for a book which you pre-ordered online.

Still waiting for Wayward Son.

AND IN THE MEANTIME, I'M GOING TO CHEER UP MYSELF BY READING A NARUSASU FANFICTION AND WATCHING A K-DRAMA.


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Good News For Simon Snow Series Fans!

Good news for Simon Snow series fans!

Book 3 is coming soon.

And I still haven't got my Wayward son book yet!

I'm over the moon RIGHT NOW.

Thank you and Love you, Rainbow Rowell❤


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Happy Birthday To This Talented, Smart And Beautiful Dork🎂💖

Happy Birthday to this talented, smart and beautiful dork🎂💖

Love ya Matthew Daddario 😘

The best Alec Lightwood one could ask for.


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Do you ever think about how Achilles thought he was coming for Patroclus in the Underworld? But then he arrived and Patroclus was still stuck without a proper burial. And Achilles knew to wait for Patroclus to come find him. Patroclus came for him when he was sent to Chiron, and when he was sent to Scyros. Waiting in the Underworld was no different. Patroclus always came for him.

WHY DO WE SMILE? WHY DO WE LAUGH? WHY DO we feel alone? Why are we sad and confused? Why do we read poetry? Why do we cry when we see a painting? Why is there a riot in the heart when we love? Why do we feel shame? What is that thing in the pit of your stomach called desire?

-Benjamin Alire Saenz ,Aristotle and Dante discovers the secrets of the universe .


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Magnus said, in a low voice, “And what’s that one?”

Alec answered, “Stamina.”

Magnus stared. “Are you serious?”

Magnus Said, In A Low Voice, “And What’s That One?”

Alec began to grin. “Yeah.”

“Really, though,” Magnus said. “I want to be clear on this. You’re not just saying that to be sexy?”

“No,” Alec answered, his voice husky, and swallowed. “But I’m glad if it is."

-Cassandra Clare, The Red Scrolls of Magic


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God scattered fangirls throughout the world, to keep one fangirl away from another fangirl,so that he won't get disturbed by their high-pitched screams and Fangirling.

Guess what could have happened if they could have met easily? Or if God had planted the fangirls of the same interests in one place?

Fangirls are special. And Powerful.

And that's why it's hard to find people with mutual interests.

Don't ya think?


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The Song of Achilles

Thinking of Patrochilles when listening a love/sad/romantic song and then feeling too much than you already feel about them.

Mood.


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Two days after reading The Song of Achilles, I'm at the stage where I search their tag in every social media and go through it for hours and hours and suffer in its bitter-sweet story.


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"We were like gods at the dawning of the world, & our joy was so bright we could see nothing else but the other."

-Madeline Miller, The Song of Achilles


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The Song of Achilles is a fantastic book. AchillesxPatroclus's love story is heart-touching and legendary. I'm glad that I've read this book, even though it's heart-wrenching to read some parts.I thank Madeline Miller for writing this piece of story from Greek history/myth. Her writing is amazing. The way she weave words and describe the emotions and the beauty of everything is just wonderful. PATROCHILLES ARE GOING TO BE IN MY HEART FOREVER. ❤

The Song Of Achilles Is A Fantastic Book. AchillesxPatroclus's Love Story Is Heart-touching And Legendary.
The Song Of Achilles Is A Fantastic Book. AchillesxPatroclus's Love Story Is Heart-touching And Legendary.

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Simon: *eating scones*

Baz: *stares at his mouth* Can I have a bite?

Simon: Um..Sure!

Baz: *bites Simon's lip* YUM!

Simon: *blushes*

Baz: *Laughs*

Simon: *eating Scones*

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So excited for Wayward son, I'm not sure whether to pre-order it and read it first or order it lately and read it days after its release

Because when you read it first,you'll have to wait for years for next book.

You would miss SnowBaz after finishing the book I don't want this to happen.

I don't want to miss my babies 😢

The struggle is real.

So Excited For Wayward Son, I'm Not Sure Whether To Pre-order It And Read It First Or Order It Lately

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Me: *suddenly catching myself being happy* Why are you so happy?

Me: *thinks,omg why am I happy?*

Me: *realising* BOOKS😍 'cause I read a book.

Me: *continues being happy*


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Aristotle and Dante are my new favourite names,persons,fictional characters and couple.❤

It's more than just a book. It's beautiful.


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Alec before he came out of his closet.

Alec: I don't know what youre talking about.

Alec: I'm a shadowhunter I have responsibilities.

Alec: Gotta go,bye.

Alec after he came out of his closet

Alec: Relationships take effort

Alec: let's take next step.

Alec: I love you.

Alec: I don't think I can live without you

Alec: Hold that thought. BEDROOM,now!


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Spoiler-free Short Book Review Of The Burning Maze

Spoiler-free short Book Review of The Burning Maze

Just finished reading this wonderful book.

From beginning to the ending, it was amazing

The plot is fast paced.

This book, just like any other Rick Riordan's books, is so much entertaining. (Like 60% of the time,you'll laugh.)

And the plot the settings/theme of the scene was mind-blowing

Brilliantly written. I love Rick Riordan even more now.

It's always fun to meet new characters who are quite unique.

And the villain Roman emperor, is totally a Weirdo and just as much cruel.

I liked how RR told the current problems that are being faced in the world ,through this book. Atleast now everyone should stop cutting/burning trees. And Love Nature!

And the other 40% of the time, you'll cry. I still can't believe why RR did that!

The ending was great. It was impossible to put my book down. (to wipe tears )

Excited for the next book.

So,if you still haven't read it, you should definitely read it. It's worth it.

I rate it 5/5. (Ah yes, I'm still sad and crying)

Spoiler-free Short Book Review Of The Burning Maze

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"And I'm hopelessly in love with him." Is where every reader took a break from reading, to breath and to absorb the feelings of BAZ❤

"And I'm Hopelessly In Love With Him." Is Where Every Reader Took A Break From Reading, To Breath And

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Simon: Baz, What you bought me for my Birthday?

Baz: Well, they said they can't wrap it.

Simon: Oh! Anyway, what was the gift?

Baz: Me, ofcourse!


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