The-rose-void - Rose Void

btw femmes have been some of the strongest, caring people ive met. please make an effort to appreciate and support your femmes friends and partners. the heteronormative world is exhausting and dangerous for them, too. they need community uplifting too.

butches, don’t sleep on how much energy and effort femmes put into the community. match it, and give it back to them. a community cannot be onesided. butch4femme or butch4butch, do not ignore femme contributions the way the rest of the world ignores them. we’re in this together

What I need for White Americans (ppl in general really, but I'm talking to the U.S.) to understand about Americans of Color is that You don't know Us, but We know YOU.

We've spent generations upon generations of our entire lives learning YOUR social norms, forced to assimilate to YOUR idea of society. We live and learn entirely separate cultures, but we also learn from birth what it means to have to cater to Whiteness in America. It's why I can name so many famous movies with white casts, but most white people didn't even know where "Bye Felicia" came from. It's why I was raised to professionally Code Switch from childhood, but grown white people struggle to even grasp the basics of the grammar of AAVE. It's why people who speak different languages think they have to give up their own mother tongue just to function in this country.

It's why you all are so uncomfortable with the idea of people of color questioning and rejecting what seems "normal" to you- and to be honest, I actually think older white generations are better at admitting this than younger ones. It's because what you know as normal is usually not "normal"- it's White. Whiteness is just as loud as any other presentation of race in this country, you just don't see it that way because everyone else has been forced to maintain your comfort. The entire system is built around it, and you don't even know it.

It's why it frustrates white Americans of some marginalization- queer, disabled, neurodivergent- because you do not have access to the "norm" as it is shown to you. But that frustration- literally everyone of color (who shares those identities btw) lives under that understanding.

Idk, I didn't really have a direction. I just think it's wild how so many conversations require this... Constant Verbal Leveling of the Playing Field simply because Whiteness blinds white people to what things ACTUALLY look like out here.

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You are the sunshine of my life…

Happy Moonbyul day!

good traits gone bad explained

good traits gone bad - Part III

Ambitiousness - It's a trait that can get you far in life. Some goals can only be reached by being ambitious. But ambitiousness can also come off as being ruthless.

Optimism - People like other people who are optimistic. It's hard to be with someone who is always pessimistic. Unfortunately, an unwavering optimism can also cloud their view on reality.

Diligence - Being diligent about everything creates good work. But some situations call for someone who is not always that strict about rules and working inside the system.

reblog if you wear glasses. too many mutuals don't know they have glasses wearers in their midsts