oh god. estrogen finally letting me feel emotions is unfortunately having the side effect of now allowing me to process how much i wish i had the opportunity to live a normal girl childhood instead of a depressed egg childhood, and how many times as a kid i was clearly grasping blindly at whatever scraps of girlhood i could get away with
"You can't have [experience] because you don't identify as [label]!!!" how do I explain to people that experiences exist outside of and prior to the formation of specific language to talk about them
"You can't have [experience] because you don't think of it through [framework/explanation/etc]!!!" how do I explain to people that experiences exist outside of and prior to any formal cosmology, hypotheses, or explanation assigned to them
god cis people really dont even know about transgender euphoria. like they can only fathom transitioning as something you do to save your life. its so so bleak
The thing that gets me about the "Dude" discourse is that it feels like a simple question of respect?
I don't like getting called dude or bro. Most transfems I know don't like getting called dude or bro.
It doesn't really matter if it's intended to be used in a gender neutral way, cause that's often not the effect that it is having.
And not calling someone dude or bro or anything like that is super easy.
And if you mess up, you can just say "my bad" and move on.
Reblog if you’re a transfem who is shy and you fear abandonment, even when you know that your friends are amazing and would never leave you.
Or if you like pizza.
ohhh I’m so sleepy you’ll have to rip me apart with your bare hands
have a mental disease where a voice in my head uncontrollably defends itself against any bad take that we know is wrong and contorts itself to figure out what it would take to convince the argueur and she is really bad at it and i dont like it i hit my head to try and shut her up but it makes everything go quiet and spinny instead. our castle does not need defending please stop it
Reblog to kiss a tgirl cause she needs it rn lol
College Era Relativity Falls FT. some Dipcifica ^^