The Idea That All Coping Mechanisms Are Valid And Completely Immune To Criticism Is Honestly One Of The

the idea that all coping mechanisms are valid and completely immune to criticism is honestly one of the worst things on nd/mentally ill tumblr.

just because you’re doing something to cope doesn’t mean it’s not hurting you, or that it isn’t hurting others.

sometimes, coping mechanisms hurt other people, like compulsive lying or constantly expecting your partner to give you reassurance every second of the day. sometimes, your coping mechanisms harm your recovery even though they feel good at the time. sometimes, your coping mechanisms just further entrench you in whatever you’re struggling with.

stop defending unhealthy behavior with the justification of “oh it’s just me coping”. you’re not permanently chained to whatever harmful bullshit you do.

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2 years ago

“just because you took longer than others, doesn’t mean you failed.”

3 years ago
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4 years ago

if you need me i’ll be in the forest, searching for portals to another dimension,

4 years ago

“One day it just clicks… You realise what is important and what isn’t, you learn to care less about what other people think of you and care more about what you think of yourself. You realise how far you have come and you remember thinking that things were such a mess they’d never recover and then you smile. You smile because you’re truly proud of the person you have fought to become.”

— Unknown

3 years ago

I hate leftist infighting so much. We could be exploring each others bodies instead 🙄

4 years ago

who cares if your interests are basic? if it brings you joy then don’t let anyone shame you just because it’s not a “unique” interest. do what makes you happy.

1 year ago
If you haven’t already read South Africa’s case submitted to the International Court of Justice for israel’s acts of genocide against the Palestinian people, you should take the time to do so. 

But here are some highlighted portions, section by section ⬇️

— هناء (@hanoooonz) January 3, 2024
1. Killing Palestinians in Gaza:

Approximately 1 in every 100 people has been killed. 

1 Palestinian in Gaza is killed every 4 minutes. 

Hundreds of multigenerational families have been killed in their entirety, with no remaining survivors. pic.twitter.com/4zQ5HstKaB

— هناء (@hanoooonz) January 3, 2024
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
2. Causing serious bodily and mental harm to Palestinians in Gaza: 

Children are telling us that they would rather die than continue living in Gaza right now. 

Images of mutilated and burned corpses are circulated in Israel via a channel called ‘72 virgins - uncensored’ pic.twitter.com/MV1X1tfkvt

— هناء (@hanoooonz) January 3, 2024
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
3. Mass expulsion from homes and displacement of Palestinians in Gaza: 

85% of the population has been forced from their homes. 60% of the homes in Gaza have been destroyed. 

Palestinians following the evacuation orders were attacked on designated safety routes. pic.twitter.com/84rkYEUgZW

— هناء (@hanoooonz) January 3, 2024
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
4. Deprivation of access to adequate food and water to Palestinians in Gaza: 

Bread is scarce or nonexistent. 

Experts are predicting that more Palestinians in Gaza may die from starvation and disease than air strikes. pic.twitter.com/vuy4IclqnT

— هناء (@hanoooonz) January 3, 2024
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
5. Deprivation of access to adequate shelter, clothes, hygiene, and sanitation to Palestinians in Gaza: pic.twitter.com/inhRuOyXoC

— هناء (@hanoooonz) January 3, 2024
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
6. Deprivation of adequate medical assistance to Palestinians in Gaza:

Only 13 out of 36 hospitals are still — just barely — functioning. 

On average, 4 health workers are killed a day. 

Many hospitals have now become places where people are waiting to die. pic.twitter.com/xHSUWFlr54

— هناء (@hanoooonz) January 3, 2024
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
7. Destruction of Palestinian life in Gaza: 

israel has destroyed ancient world heritage, mosques, churches, universities, destroying campuses for the education of future generations of Palestinians. pic.twitter.com/QFeoY2DwC8

— هناء (@hanoooonz) January 3, 2024
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa
You Can Read The Rest Of The Thread Here. Plus Here's The 84 Page Document Submitted By South Africa

You can read the rest of the thread here. Plus here's the 84 page document submitted by South Africa

4 years ago

If you’re in that place in your life where you’re trying to please everyone and feeling so bad about yourself because you’re not meeting other people’s expectations: I see you, and I love you.

It’s okay to not fit in! It’s okay to not please others. I’ve learned that lesson, but it was hard. I’m confident enough to make decisions that others might disapprove of, but I know are the right choices for me. I’ve learned to brush off meaningless criticism, but I’ve spent so many hours crying over what others have said about me. Maybe you don’t yet think it’s possible to be confident, to be comfortable in your skin, but it is. I love you. I love you so much.

4 years ago

the fact that I have to heal and grow and get better and do it all by myself because no one else is responsible for that except for me.........

The Fact That I Have To Heal And Grow And Get Better And Do It All By Myself Because No One Else Is Responsible
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