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RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE. 

When I was at one of my lowest (mental) points in life, I couldn’t get out of bed some days. I had no energy or motivation and was barely getting by.

I had therapy once per week, and on this particular week I didn’t have much to ‘bring’ to the session. He asked how my week was and I really had nothing to say.

“What are you struggling with?” he asked.

I gestured around me and said “I dunno man. Life.”

Not satisfied with my answer, he said “No, what exactly are you worried about right now? What feels overwhelming? When you go home after this session, what issue will be staring at you?”

I knew the answer, but it was so ridiculous that I didn’t want to say it.

I wanted to have something more substantial.

Something more profound.

But I didn’t.

So I told him, “Honestly? The dishes. It’s stupid, I know, but the more I look at them the more I CAN’T do them because I’ll have to scrub them before I put them in the dishwasher, because the dishwasher sucks, and I just can’t stand and scrub the dishes.”

I felt like an idiot even saying it.

What kind of grown ass woman is undone by a stack of dishes? There are people out there with *actual* problems, and I’m whining to my therapist about dishes?

But my therapist nodded in understanding and then said:

“RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE.”

I began to tell him that you’re not supposed to, but he stopped me.

“Why the hell aren’t you supposed to? If you don’t want to scrub the dishes and your dishwasher sucks, run it twice. Run it three times, who cares?! Rules do not exist, so stop giving yourself rules.”

It blew my mind in a way that I don’t think I can properly express.

That day, I went home and tossed my smelly dishes haphazardly into the dishwasher and ran it three times.

I felt like I had conquered a dragon.

The next day, I took a shower lying down.

A few days later. I folded my laundry and put them wherever the fuck they fit.

There were no longer arbitrary rules I had to follow, and it gave me the freedom to make accomplishments again.

Now that I’m in a healthier place, I rinse off my dishes and put them in the dishwasher properly. I shower standing up. I sort my laundry.

But at a time when living was a struggle instead of a blessing, I learned an incredibly important lesson:

THERE ARE NO RULES.

RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE!!!

(by Kate Scott 2018)

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this is my personal view but with the rise of all these apps for us to showcase aspects of ourselves our style our face our opinions on books movies shows playlists instagram twitter tumblr tiktok letterboxd goodreads spotify I feel as if every single aspect of one’s personality has to be cohesive we must showcase that we have good taste we read good books we watch good movies everything we do is up to some weird standard idk it feels like everything we do has to be digestable to other people and we are all putting on silly hats everyday and putting on a show like we have to have opinions on everything those opinions must somehow be linked to how we dress and what music we listen to the point where we have people being so fearful of being seen as having bad taste or being seen enjoying something that isn’t well liked idk man this is a lot I just feel like we weren’t meant to live these weird curated lives like existing liking weird ass music and bad movies with no plot like what must we even market ourselves to be desireable and like perfect in every aspect

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I'm asking this in good faith, but also in an admitted lack of full understanding. If you don't have the energy to engage with this topic anymore please disregard it.

Someone on your post noted the comparison of Israel-Palestine to that of the Native Americans, but the way I read it it seemed like they were putting Palestinians in the role of the native Americans and Israel as the colonizing force, but historically wouldn't it be the Jewish people who are the Native Americans in that comparison? I ask because from what I know it would be the Jewish people in what is now Israel at the same time in history as the Natives in the Americas. Am I misinformed about that? I'm not trying to say Palestine would be the colonizing force in that comparison btw, just that if we're talking about natives to the land, it seems to me like it'd be the Jewish people.

tbh neither maps on exactly

the expulsion of jews from what is now israel/palestine started in 70 AD and then was a gradual process over the next few hundred years as people moved out due to oppression by various rulers, poverty, etc

palestinians, as far as i understand it, likely descend from a mix of some of the jews who were left behind and arabs who conquered the land. they've been there for hundreds of years, and some families have owned the same land for all of that time

the thing about indigeneity as it's been explained to me is that it's not about origin so much as relationship to colonization. and the founding of israel was colonization -- herzl actually used that word himself in his writings.

you know the jnf? the original purpose was to exploit a feature of ottoman land law. if you planted a tree on someone's land and they didn't remove it for a certain number of years, you could claim ownership of that land. this and other methods were used to steal parcels of land from palestinians.

"your ethnicity stole the land from our ethnicity, to whom the land belongs" is a fucked up framework that seems really akin to blood and soil (as does "our ethnicity has rightful ownership of this land from ancient times, so your ethnicity needs to clear out"), but genuinely wresting ownership from individuals owners really can be said to be stealing land.

also, the nakba was a series of massacres and fighting that led to a huge influx of palestinian refugees from many areas in israel/palestine, and israel seized control of the land and homes they vacated to hand over to jews. israel used the jnf, again, to cover the ruins of many palestinian villages with trees to obscure the fact that they were ever there. in general israel built over many palestinian villages and the mindset in israel is not to know and not to think about it.

personally i think the indigeneity debate is not useful. it feels sometimes that jews think that if we can prove we lived in israel in ancient times (we did, a lot of people insist we didn't because it is inconvenient), we can justify things like the above. my position is that it does not justify it, because it is not an excuse for causing human suffering.

however, many people use a framework that is not about human suffering, but about how invading foreign jews stole the land from the "rightful" ethnic group. i don't agree with that either. especially when it becomes an excuse to support ethnic cleansing in the other direction. that is to say: they locate the crime not in the invasion but in the foreignness. such people are motivated to deny the historical fact of jewish origins in israel, because their argument is based on jewish foreignness.

but anyway, the comparison to indigenous peoples in the americas refers to the way that palestinians experienced the establishment of the state of israel -- starting with small groups of settlers, involving violence early on and then massacres, and later ethnic cleansing and displacement. cities and towns destroyed. shoved into small areas with few resources. lack of power and autonomy.

in addition, the way the early zionist leaders conceptualized themselves as enlightened europeans colonizing land with disdain for the existing residents.

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🇧🇷 Yup! olá Cutties como vão vocês? espero que esteja tudo bem porquê comigo está mais ou menos, mas se não estiver, desejo melhoras <3

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bom hoje vim agradecer a TODAS as pessoas que me seguem porque so agora que fui perceber que nós chegamos a 5K de pessoas, cara, como assim? eu estou surtando de felicidade vocês não tem idéia, eu mal posso imaginar que 5 mil pessoas até os mais antigos até os mais novos gostam dos meus posts! bom mesmo que raramente alguma pessoa elogia oque eu faço eu fico muito orgulhosa pelo tanto de Puppies que nós chegamos, eu agradeço muito! vai ter especial e óbvio e vai ser grande... e eu queria pedir mil desculpas por não estár postando muito pois minha vida pessoal não esta muito boa... mas enfim, vou tirar todo o meu tempo livre para fazer o especial de 5K! como as aulas voltaram fica mais difícil ainda.. ugh mas enfim obrigada novamente... <3 🎀🍮

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você chegou no fim da nossa viajem, estou orgulhosa de você! te vejo no próximo post viajante estou lhe esperando. . .

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🇺🇸 Yup! hello Cutties how are you? I hope it's ok because with me it's more or less, but if it's not, I wish you all the best <3

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Well today I came to thank ALL the people who follow me because I just realized that we reached 5K people, man, what do you mean? I'm freaking out with happiness you have no idea, I can hardly imagine that 5000 people even the oldest and the youngest like my posts! well even if rarely anyone praises what I do I'm very proud of the many Puppies we got, I really appreciate it! there will be special and obvious and it will be big... and I wanted to apologize for not posting much because my personal life is not very good... but anyway, I'm going to take all my free time to do the 5K special ! since classes are back it's even more difficult.. ugh but anyway thanks again... <3 🎀🍮

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you've reached the end of our journey, I'm proud of you! See you in the next post traveler I'm waiting for you. . .

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🇪🇸 ¡Yup! hola Cutties como estan Espero que esté bien porque conmigo es más o menos, pero si no es así, les deseo lo mejor <3

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Bueno hoy vine a agradecer a TODA la gente que me sigue porque me acabo de dar cuenta que llegamos a 5K personas, hombre a que te refieres? Estoy flipando de felicidad no tienen idea, apenas me puedo imaginar que a 5000 personas incluso a los mayores y a los más jóvenes les gusten mis publicaciones! bueno, aunque rara vez alguien elogia lo que hago, estoy muy orgulloso de los muchos cachorros que obtuvimos, ¡realmente lo aprecio! habrá especial y obvio y será grande... y quería disculparme por no publicar mucho porque mi vida personal no es muy buena... pero de todos modos, voy a tomar todo mi tiempo libre para hacer el ¡Especial 5K! desde que regresaron las clases es aún más difícil.. ugh pero de todos modos gracias de nuevo... <3 🎀🍮

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has llegado al final de nuestro viaje, ¡estoy orgulloso de ti! Nos vemos en el próximo post viajero te espero. . .

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