The Ending Of Relationships

The ending of relationships

We tend to jump into relationships and friendships with the thought of it being forever. We want our relationships to last as long as possible and it’s good that we are willing to commit to other people and the connection we have with them. But some people aren’t meant to stay in your life forever. And that is ok. It can be hard to accept that, but we need to learn to let go of something that isn’t going anywhere, something that’s not healthy for you anymore, something that is holding you back from living your own life. Sometimes that “something” is a certain person or even a group of people in your life. Don’t let other people drag you down. If a relationship/friendship is tearing you apart in whatever way - you need to step back, distance yourself from it and let go. You want to be surrounded by things and people that make you feel good, who accept and respect your needs and wishes, who want only the best FOR you - not the best OF you. The same goes for people who are trying to distance themselves from you. It’s their good right to do so. Try not to be offended or sad over the fact that they need to move on without you. You probably won’t understand why they think that way especially if you don’t feel like ending your connection to that person, but they most certainly thought it through and are in no way trying to hurt you. Sometimes you just need to do what you think is best for you even though it’s not an easy thing to do. You don’t need to be happy about it, but it’s your responsibility to accept and respect their decision/ needs & wishes. Don’t pressure them in any way - it’s hard enough for them - trust me.

There is no reason to be bitter about the end of any kind of relationship - it just takes time to realise that. You can take away so much from any realtionship that ended. Good or bad - relationship or friendship - long-lasting or not - it doesn’t matter. You learn from every connection/interaction you have with another human being and you grow from it. So try to see it from the positive side of things because the ending of one thing is the beginning of another one.

Some people aren’t meant to stay in your life forever. And that’s ok.

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Fun Psychology facts here!

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me: *has an opinion*

me: *realizes that my opinion is a result of my limited world view*

me: *stays in my lane*

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How to be an Awesome Wife: Millennial Edition

Take care of the children. Staying home to raise your children is not for the faint of heart. It is a daily challenge, but very rewarding in the end. Your Husband is probably an amazing Father, but he will never have the same emotional connection that you do with your children. Mothers have a maternal instinct and a bond with their babies cannot be broken. Utilize parenting techniques that work for both of you. Your Husband should act as lead disciplinarian, with you acting at the lead nurturer. This instills structure and a hierarchy in your home; teaching your children to respect authority. This starts by submitting to your husband, in turn your children will have a model to emulate.

Cook and bake well. Being in charge of your family’s nutrition is of the upmost importance. Making mac and cheese from a box every night dosent count. Cooking shows, online tutorials/ courses and cookbooks are all great references. Prepping meals earlier in the day or the night before is also a big help when it comes to managing family time in the evenings.

Keep your home clean. The home should be a relaxing environment. A disorderly home causes stress and anxiety. Your Husband wants to come home to an orderly home. If you have very small children, your Husband should allow you some leeway here, as young children are professional lil’ mess-makers.

Put effort into your appearance. Look attractive for him, never “let yourself go.” Take time to do your hair and make-up. Online make-up tutorials are helpful. Wear tight fitting clothes; low cut shirts and yoga pants when in the house. If your Husband prefers that you dress more modestly while outside, then do so accordingly.

Never deny any type of sexual advances from your Husband. Additionally, your acceptance should be paired with enthusiasm. Your Husband should feel comfortable to act out any sexual ideas/fantasies that he may have. Once married, ANY kind of sexual act between a Husband and wife is deemed as an “act of love.” Dick sucking/oral sex should be offered daily and is also an act of submission in and of itself.

When you are out alone, never partake in anything that your Husband wouldn’t approve of. If you have to hide something, then you shouldn’t be doing it in the first place.

Dont spend too much time on your phone or tablet when your Husband is home. Additionally, when your Husband speaks to you, look up at him and not down at your phone when replying.

Do not argue aggressively with him. Communicate openly and calmly about any issues that arise. Both partners deserve to be heard respectfully. Your opinion is important to your Husband as he doesn’t want a doormat. But as Man of the house, he should make the final decision.

Save money. Housewives are often seen as “kept women” who shop and spend frivolously. Alternatively, many housewives will tell you what a complete fallacy that is. Learning how to budget money properly, couponing and keeping a stockpile are all important aspects of running your home efficiently.

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