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One of the biggest topics on makeup and beauty is what is achievable, and what is fantasy? Iām going to say it now, and many other beauticians will agree with me.. There is no āfantasyā with makeup, everything is achievable if you put the time and effort into it. Essentially with the skills you build overtime you can create the face you want, and sculpture it to your liking. However, many people struggle at the start and need to realise this takes time. Itās not an over-night job that you can learn instantly. This applies to both cis girls and transgirls.
Make your nose look smaller.
Make your forehead smaller.
Make your jaw more smaller or more feminine.
Make your cheekbones seem raised.
Highlight features of your face.
Lowlight features you wish to hide.
Make your eyes stand out a lot more, as well as having a seductive look.
If youāre just starting to transition and still have facial hair. You can hide your beard growth.
Build your confidence.
Some girls pass even without make up. I have quite a feminine face since I transitioned very young.
I know some girls know this, but I want to make it very clear to everyone. Even if did not make the decision to transition at an early age or donāt have a baby feminine face, makeup can and will help you.
However, I will not ignore the fact and truth that teenage transgender girls have an easier time passing due to puberty and hormone levels. Sex hormones are one clear link between appearance and personality.
Testosterone and estrogen influence facial development as well as behavior.
High testosterone shows itself in strong jawbones, darker coloring, and hollower cheekbones.
High estrogen reveals itself in round faces, smooth skin, small chins, sparse facial hair, arched eyebrows, big eyes, plump lips, and wider jawlines. - All of which I have, because I transitioned at 16.
Gal Gadot is a perfect example of a face full of estrogen. Take note of her facial features. While she is not Transgender, Transgender Women can look like this depending on their genetics and the time they start to transition. Or.. If they are an expert in makeup ;)
We make numerous assumptions about people with high-hormone profiles that conform to gender norms: First, that theyāre hot.
In a lineup, the high-estrogen Jessica Alba and BeyoncƩ types receive the highest attractiveness ratings by both genders.
South American girls that are not 100% native for example have strong facial features with very feminized traits, such as plump limps, wide jawlines and small chins. These traits are also extremely common in South American men as well. (Venezuelan people, Brazilian, Argentina and other countries in this area)
Their pretty faces predictably get top ratings for social dominance (high status). As for men, high-testosterone faces are especially desired by women who are ovulating, although women may have a default preference for men with a mix of masculine and feminine features; dominant and cooperative.
First of;
If your face is red or bleeding after you shave, thereās probably too much friction between the razor and your skin. Skin moisturizer helps reduce that friction.
Follow these steps:
clean face with a facial cleanser and exfoliate to remove dead skin cells.
splash warm water on face to open pores
put gobs of a cheap skin moisturizer over your facial hair region
put shaving cream on top of that
use a clean, smooth razor (preferably one the moves back and forth with your face and bends in the middle)
shave āwith the grainā. Ā the āgrainā isnāt always down so look carefully at your face and neck when you havenāt shaved in a few days.
splash warm water again
put gobs of a cheap skin moisturizer over your facial hair region
put shaving cream on top of that
shave āagainst the grainā
splash lots of water over your face to remove excess shaving cream and moisturizer
Generally youāll use a combination of hair removal methods, but it varies from person to person as to how effective each method is. After much trial and error, my preferred methods that work for me are:
Electrolysis on face (and nasal hair trimmer or dry shave to touch up).
A few laser sessions on chest, back, neck and shoulders. Would LOVE to do more. Full body laser is appealing!!
Epilator on lower legs and knees.
Wet shave on the back of knees and lower thigh.
Wet shave or depilatory cream on forearms, wrists and backs of hands.
Dry shave under arms.
Dry shave on back, neck, chest, shoulders and down to the elbow.
Trim on upper thigh, tummy and back.
Tweezer on wrists, backs of hands, and inside of elbow.
The reasons for so many different methods, include: managing skin irritation, avoiding ingrown hairs, avoiding prickly stubble in certain sensitive spots, and getting a more thorough result.
There are some big expenses covered in this post, with laser and electrolysis treatment. If you donāt have the money, please know that the other hair removal options do work, and there are complicated ways to cover up stubble with makeup. You may also discover that surgeries are a higher priority for you, over hair removal. Every transition is an individual process.
Finally, estrogen HRT goes a long way to making the hair battle easier to fight, because it slows down body hair growth, lightens the average density of individual hairs, and reduces overall body hair volume.
Source
Picture Source AND Video
The before and after photo is from Transgender YouTuber Brandy Nitti
What are the pros?
While laser hair removal doesnāt get rid of hair forever (only electrolysis is FDA-approved for permanent hair removal), it does drastically reduce hair growthāto the point that you can stop shaving altogether.
You can get it done anywhere on the body, and the machine can cover large places fast. Legs, back, underarms, bikini line, stomach, faceā¦There is no limit to the places you can get laser hair removal.
When it comes to pain level, laser hair removal falls somewhere between shaving (painless) and waxing (holy hell that hurts). The technicians use ice to help numb the area before and after the laser treatment. It also gets progressively less painful as treatments continue and the hair becomes finer
What are the cons?
Itās a long process. A session of laser hair removal on the underarms takes less than a minute. However, it takes multiple sessions to see real results (anywhere between three and eight depending on the size of the area), and you generally have to wait six weeks between treatments.
Itās expensive. If you add up how much you spend on razors or bikini wax sessions in your lifetime, it might be worth the $200-$400 per session of laser hair removal. You can think of laser hair removal as a beauty investment.
Since the contrast between the color of the skin and the color of the pigment in the hair follicle is what allows the laser to easily pick out what to target, laser hair removal works best on fair skin with dark hair and worse on darker skin. āIn patients with darker skin tones the pigment-rich skin competes with the hair follicle for the laserās attention,ā says Charles. This doesnāt mean itās not a possibility for darker skin types, but youāll want to make sure the facility you go to is properly equipped. Certain lasers, like the Nd:YAG, are better at distinguishing between hair and skin on all skin types.
If done by an untrained technician, laser hair removal could leave burns or scars on the skin. Unfortunately, licensing procedures vary from state to state, and sometimes there are no requirements at all. Beware of ālaser centersā and make sure to ask where your laser technician was certified to do the procedure. Even doctors who want to provide laser hair removal treatments need further training. āLaser treatment is not taught in medical school, so physicians performing laser treatments also need training and certification,ā dermatologist Marina Peredo, M.D., told SELF in a previous interview.
HRT also does not affect masculinized facial hair (beard). Only laser (permanent hair reduction) and electrolysis (permanent hair removal) can change that. If your face already has minimal facial hair then transitioning early will help for the future.
Research has shown improvements in skin elasticity, moisture and skin thickness in women using either topical or oral hormone replacement therapy (HRT).
Taking hormone replacement therapy (HRT) can improve skin hydration by replacing oEstrogen levels in your body. Many women who take HRT often notice that their skin becomes brighter with an improved texture and tone. HRT can also reduce ageing of your skin.
Things you will notice:
Breast growth
Wider hips
Fat being distrusted to different regions of the body. (Bum, breasts, etc..)
Skin becomes clearer
Cuter face & eyes
Female Orgasms: 10x stronger than Male Orgasm. HRT may cause shrinking and reduce your erections, on the positive side is the fact that transwomen can get female orgasms. And you donāt need an erection or an ejaculation to have one either.
Thicker eyelashes
Loss of strength. Slimmer body and feminized features.
Smelling like a woman and not having a manly alpha smell.
This is just a small outline of changes you will encounter while on HRT. I will write up a full guide and text on HRT soon.
In the changes I have experienced while being on HRT since 16, and am now 20 is amazing.
I am a real woman.
I have breasts, wider hips, my legs are smooth and long, my skin and face is as cute as ever, my orgasms are intense and can squirt out my juices from being pounded by a partner, I am slimmer and have lost the majority of my āmanlyā muscles, although I had not much at all to start with, my fat is distributed into other regions such as my ass cheeks.
Everything has worked out perfect. Of course the road I have taken in life was not easy, and there were many days where I was not confident with how I was.
I have faith in everyone being able to pass, and there is other routes in life you can take if you still do not feel confident, such as FFS (Full-Facial Surgery).
In short, after all of this. Isnāt it obvious? Of course it is possible and achievable. Everything in life takes time to master and understand how things work.
People do not get their license and become a professional driver straight away, computer coders donāt instantly start off as super-hackers, school teachers donāt straight away start off as confident and successful with their classes and explaining their work to students.
Time is everything, and practice makes perfect. This is the same for makeup and beauty.
The only āunrealisticā beauty standards is the unhealthy lifestyles of becoming extremely obese to the point where it affects your health, as well as becoming overwhelmingly skinny where you are not eating right.
https://www.quora.com/How-do-trans-women-remove-all-their-body-and-facial-hair-to-look-more-feminine
http://www.genderpsychology.org/transgender/shaving.html
http://andiepasdedeux.com/the-unexpected-effects-of-mtf-hrt/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oCSoqI3nMzk https://mandatoryfeminizationx.tumblr.com
Many of you know what itās like.Ā You are expected to be a man.Ā You ARE a man.Ā At least, youāre male.Ā But you want to be girly.Ā You want to wear dresses, skirts, lingerie, heels, cute outfits, etc.Ā You want pretty hair, smooth skin, a softer walk and gentler mannerisms.Ā You also want to be accepted as your girly self, but thatās not going to happenāat least not publicly and maybe not in your lifetime.Ā You have family or friends, work, school, and social activities where youād like to feel girly, but you know you must portray āman.ā
Thatās tough, isnāt it?Ā But is all lost?Ā I donāt think so and I want to share with you seven ideas that can help you feel girly when you must be āboy.ā
Before I post, I want to give a quick nod of gratitude to the many fabulous girly boys who chimed in and shared their thoughts.Ā This list is a combined effort and not one i could have come up with on my own.Ā Itās also not an exhaustive list.Ā Also, I would encourage you not to try and implement everything.Ā Just try a few of these ideas, even if it is one at a time.
1) Smooth Out Your Image
Get smooth and fine.Ā I personally enjoy shaving my upper legs and trimming my lower legs.Ā I wish I could shave the entire bit.Ā I keep my chest, topside of hands, and armpits shaven and even shave the underside of my forearms.Ā Shave your groin too and keep the hair above that area short and groomed.Ā Additionally, you could try your hand at plucking eyebrows to a thin, but subtle arch.Ā I used to do this without any question. Just make sure you pluck eyebrows at a time when no one will see you with temporary reddish plump from the plucking.Ā It goes without saying that man-hair problems should be taken care of anyway.Ā Keep the nose trimmed and the ears plucked.Ā Ear hair is gross.Ā Other options include, but are not limited to body lotions and conditioners, bleaching what hair you keep, and being conscientious about all areas of hygiene.Ā Mostly, when itās said and done, simply clean yourself up.Ā Your outer boy will benefit just as much as your inner girlāit just feels great and feels clean.Ā
2) Spoil Your Girly Self
Learn to enjoy the spa treatment.Ā Take scented bubble baths, do facemasks, and moisturize with girly lotions.Ā Paint your toenails feminine colors and use clear polish on your fingernails.Ā Donāt forget to clean your cuticles, having them softly tapered back.Ā You could also try some slight growth that you could file to a more oval shape.Ā Use a little foundation on your face or maybe a bit of eyeliner or eye shadow.Ā Try lip gloss instead of chap stick and keep it on you to use at any point during a day.Ā Fruity flavors and perhaps some glittery gloss can add some excitement.Ā If youāre feeling it, be a little more risky with some subtle mascara, blush, or lipstick.Ā Get a pedicure or manicure.Ā Get yourself some perfumes to spray on religiously.Ā The point is, treat your inner girl like a princess.Ā You she deserves it!
3) Be Girly Under There
If you want to feel girly, there may not be any better option than panties.Ā You can go as fem as you wish and as small as you can handle.Ā No one will ever see, unless you show them.Ā Learn to enjoy a good Tuck.Ā Keeping the little boy in check and his friends up and out of the way might be a bit of a pain at times, but itās so worth it not to have a bulge.Ā A step up would be stockings or pantyhose.Ā What a rush when you opt out of socks!Ā And then, there is the bomb: the bra.Ā Itās not always going to work out as an option because of whatever kind of shirt you choose to wear.Ā Some other secret options are things like girly temporary tattoos, garters, feminine socks, chemises, panty liners, or maybe a choker underneath a collar and tie.
4)Ā Embrace Androgyny
This might be my favorite.Ā Girls clothes that can pass as menās clothes.Ā Womenās jeans are a great go-to.Ā I have a few pair of womens jeans in boot cut and skinny.Ā There are some options that wonāt work, but there are plenty of options that can.Ā Do your research.Ā Also, although womenās shorts are generally short, there are long shorts made for women.Ā I almost got a pair of womenās cargo shorts once.Ā I own a womenās swim short that passes.Ā Like jeans, you can find cute shirts, and unless someone can tell that the buttons are on the opposite side, youāre golden.Ā And alas, my absolute favorite.Ā Iāll admit, Iām quite stricken by womenās sneakers.Ā What I love about shoes is that people donāt normally look down at feet, and if they do, theyāll either not care or not pay attention.Ā Trust me, there is no one going around checking to see if you have on narrow shoes or to see if your shoes have pink highlights.Ā Iāve walked through streets, malls, shops, parks, ballparks, etc. etc. in Keds, cheer shoes, or flats without even the slightest second look (even though i kind of wished for it).Ā I have a whole collection of womenās sneakers and wear them frequently to various public spaces.Ā Never once have I been questioned for itāeven in the cutest pairs.Ā If you wear something larger than a 12 in womenās shoes, companies like New Balance and Skechers make size 13 now and many companies are finally making 12ā²s as a regular.Ā Thank goodness!Ā But itās not just tennis shoes.Ā There are several casual flat options that are simply narrower versions of menās styles.Ā Obviously, if youāre trying to maintain a guy profile, you canāt wear heels, but you can try subtle platforms. Androgyny may not be as sexy as āall outā but itās great to have the option.Ā even if it does look semi-manly, at least you know.Ā I could continue to write more, but I must move on.
5) Accesorize (yeah, I didnāt spell that right, oh well)
Iāve not done much with this one myself, but I can see where it would be awesome.Ā Rings, earrings, belly button rings, toerings, necklaces, bracelets, ankle bracelets, or watches.Ā Iād love to have a girl-size apple watch and band.Ā Itās your choice in how much youād like to glam it up.Ā Purses might be an option too if it could pass as a man-bag.Ā What about a girlish backpack or sling? What about a semi-girlish phone case, computer bag, or a womenās wallet?Ā Hereās an idea!Ā Care to try a hair band?Ā Or if your hair is long enough, a scrunchie.Ā Another option might be ladiesā eyewear frames or sunglasses.Ā In cold weather, ladies gloves, scarves, or toboggans.Ā How about cute hats or visors?Ā When youāre at the beach or pool, use girlish towels.Ā When working out, girlsā lifting gloves.Ā The idea here is to add a little something girly that makes you feel special.
6) Practice Feminine Posture and Gestures
So, you want to feel girly?Ā Start acting like it.Ā Talk softer, move more gracefully, sit more precisely.Ā Cross your legs like a woman when you sit.Ā Get into a car as if you have on a dress.Ā Walk narrow as if on a thin line.Ā Limp your wrists and point your toes.Ā Act like you have hips.Ā Twirl your hair if youāve got it.Ā You may not want to camp it up too much, but you can certainly improve your mannerisms subtly over time.Ā I definitely could use some help in this area.Ā Iād say that the hardest part is developing the habit.
7) Do Girly ThingsĀ
The options here are perhaps endless, but Iāll try to give a few.Ā I like the idea of keeping a diary and writing in girlish strokes with pink or purple pens.Ā Put little hearts for dots on your iās.Ā Doodle flowers.Ā Watch chick-flicks (I know, that sounds sexist).Ā Window shop often.Ā Go to womenās shops frequently and take in every opportunity to go into those special places with your girlfriend or wife.Ā With your significant other, cuddle like a girl would and be tender with your kisses.Ā And, of course, it wouldnāt be a Gym Bunny Candie post if I didnāt say it: āDress girly for a workout.āĀ Even if it is in the sanctity of your home, wear a sports bra and yoga pants, cute tops, maybe even a tennis skirt.Ā Itās not about having a sissy workout.Ā Itās about transforming your body while luxuriating in the feminine garments.Ā And donāt forget your girly sneakers!Ā LOLĀ One thing you could always try is early morning or late night walk or runs in your girly gear.Ā I live on a golf course and so I will sometimes get girly and run the course at night on the golf cart path.Ā Itās such a rush! There are just too many options.Ā Iām sure you could think of some.
Well, thatās what I have to offer, and by tomorrow, Iām sure to come up with dozens of other ideas that didnāt come out.Ā But I hope these ideas help you in some way to bring a little girliness into your mundane male life, that, for some logical reason, you cannot escape.
Do you have anything to add?Ā Iām sure itās a good one.
Have a great girly day, girlfriends.Ā Love you all!
CandieHart
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Today is Transgender Day of Remembrance, the follow up to Transgender Awareness Week. It was founded on November 20, 1999 by a trans right group led by Gwendolyn Smith to memorialize trans people such as Rita Hester who lost their lives due to violent transphobia. It has since also expanded to include trans individuals who passed away from being denied proper medical help due to their identity and those who sadly ended their lives due to depression caused by external and internal transphobia. These individuals were living humans who just wanted to be themselves and were denied that right by institutions and society who failed to understand the meaning of being transgender.
Over 23 years have passed and transphobia is still a common issue, especially in this social climate who tends to politicize everything deemedĀ ādifferentā. Despite this problem, society is rapidly changing and becoming more accepting of trans people existing with others. Those who left this world may be gone, but they will never be forgotten. Whether you are trans yourself or a trans ally, be the bright, shining light in spite of all the darkness.
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The moments in between are the time to discover, deep down, who you truly are. Let your heart be your guide. It knows the way. Set aside distractions and conflicts. For clarity of focus.