To ya’ll trans wlw who are having a hard time using the term “lesbian” about yourself: don’t worry. It can be hard to overcome your own inherent transphobia and feel like you are “woman enough” to be allowed to use it. It takes time to not feel like an intruder in lesbian spaces. You’re okay. You will be just fine. <3
I had a falling with a few fans in jacks line to get to the signing early in the morning. A few people had ran me over since ya know my arthritis wasn’t feeling it and I had fell to the ground. I walked back up limping to security and they were nice enough to get me a wheelchair for the rest of the day. When I met jack he was so sweet and kind to help me out of the wheelchair so we could properly hug ❤ it was so sweet of him to hug me a thousand times while I cried like a baby. Thanks for everything jack. I hope to see you again soon 😊
Making someone smile is the best feeling ever.
(via theheartbreakingsilence)
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This is AMAZING. The teacher’s rebuttal:
I just commented this on a transphobic post that was all like, “In a sexual species, females have two X chromosomes and males have an X and a Y, I’m not a bigot it’s just science.” I’m a science teacher so I responded with this.
First of all, in a sexual species, you can have females be XX and males be X (insects), you can have females be ZW and males be ZZ (birds), you can have females be females because they developed in a warm environment and males be males because they developed in a cool environment (reptiles), you can have females be females because they lost a penis sword fighting contest (some flatworms), you can have males be males because they were born female, but changed sexes because the only male in their group died (parrotfish and clownfish), you can have males look and act like females because they are trying to get close enough to actual females to mate with them (cuttlefish, bluegills, others), or you can be one of thousands of sexes (slime mold, some mushrooms.) Oh, did you mean humans? Oh ok then. You can be male because you were born female, but you have 5-alphareductase deficiency and so you grew a penis at age 12. You can be female because you have an X and a Y chromosome but you are insensitive to androgens, and so you have a female body. You can be female because you have an X and a Y chromosome but your Y is missing the SRY gene, and so you have a female body. You can be male because you have two X chromosomes, but one of your X’s HAS an SRY gene, and so you have a male body. You can be male because you have two X chromosomes- but also a Y. You can be female because you have only one X chromosome at all. And you can be male because you have two X chromosomes, but your heart and brain are male. And vice - effing - versa. Don’t use science to justify your bigotry. The world is way too weird for that shit.
i just want to be called cute and beautiful like 23/7
Sitting in the waiting room at the psychiatrists office nervous af to be evaluated to start HRT
Hey, I was wondering if you had any tips to help dysphoria when you aren't out as a transgirl
Yeah totally! You could
Wear panties! or other feminine items under your clothes.
wear more androgynous clothing
paint your toe nails super pretty colors!
paint/buff your fingernails clear so they can be shiiineeey
get your ears pierced!
wear subtle makeup like a BB cream and mascara.
you can try tucking. it hurts at first but you get used to it.
hang out at home in your favorite outfits!
grow your hair out
some people start hrt before they come out
compliment yourself daily!
talk to yourself or write stories about yourself using gender affirming pronouns
play video games with character customization for gender
take selfies and use the filters that make you look pretty and stare at your beautiful face!
know you are beautiful!
go to a support group if you are comfortable with that
talk with other trans people online
Followers have any other ideas???
@ethereal-vixen omggg x3
this video changed my life
"Hi there, I am a 25 year old NB lynx, I am Australian and suffer from some pretty decent chronic anxiety and depression issues.. this is where i just talk about, post and share random stuff c: all porn plogs can fuck off kindly and dont follow me please."
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