personally I’m Team Tiny Elphaba because I think it’s mad funny she’s this imposing and terrifying presence but also she’s, like, five feet tall and Glinda can easily tuck Elphaba’s head under her chin if she’s wearing high enough heels and Fiyero can lift her up like a sopping wet cat
happy Thursday the 20th
sometimes i get super duper worried that my caregiver is uncomfortable with my regression , so i thought it’d be useful to caregivers / sitters / flips to have some tips on helping manage a self—conscious regressor !
— instead of simply reassuring them , treat them like a little / however they would like to be treated ! while reassurance can be helpful , in my opinion , actions are much more comforting
— in worse situations ( breakdowns / tantrums / etc. ) give them activities to do ! coloring pages are very nice for me , but if it’s something you can do in person together , i would recommend text—based tasks like having them tell you about their day , about their interests , anything really ! this might not seem like much , but being given little commands can help us feel very connected to being a regressor !
— similar to the previous one , give them a checklist ( this can work in person or over phone / text ) . this is a more general piece of advice , but it will help take their mind off of the worry and will help them feel accepted & taken care of !
— the most obvious one : talk about it with them . this is an easier thing to do when they are big ( not regressed ) , but having them explain , or try to explain , why they feel insecure can be very very helpful in your methods of reassuring them as well as taking some heaviness off of them ( talking does help ! )
rb this and put in the tags a fandom that you think needs more agere content 🙂↕️ i think top gun and reservoir dogs need more agere content!!
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whispering chicken paprikash ingredients in the mirror at 3am to summon Wanda Maximoff.
Either way, an Orpheus who didn't turn is an Orpheus who never loved Eurydice at all.
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