Pemdas And Her Wives… FISH YURI!!!!

I was wanting to make a post about my experiences going on a Disney World vacation as a disabled person but honestly I’d like to vent about something else.

If you are traveling to anywhere, and you have someone in your party with disabilities, you need to be as accommodating as possible. If you and that person may have different needs that conflict, you two have to discuss this and figure it out.

My brother has ADHD and probably several undiagnosed issues as well. I have Autism. Tourettes, Epilepsy, and FND alongside several mental health issues.

I get it. I wanted him to be able to enjoy his trip too. Issue is, I have higher support needs, and I sometimes can put myself at risk for a medical emergency if I am overwhelmed. Our family ended up prioritizing me because of this.

The issue arises when my brother ends up getting jealous because I happen to require more attention to ensure I am safe and able to enjoy myself. Also he just is… not understanding? He says I act like I’m “SPED” whenever I bother him. Though this can sometimes result in my brother feeling like everything gets centered around me or that I’m too demanding. He’s even told me he thinks I’m exaggerating how I react when overstimulated because I’m unable to mask well. He also did some other things that eventually would trigger me into having more anxiety and being at risk for issues, such as cursing me out when our other family members weren’t listening. He also accused me of having a victim complex. I was left scared to say anything because he told me that everyone would agree with him if I spoke up. I later learned this was very much not the case.

When we weren’t having conflicts, the trip went smoothly and everyone was very understanding. I was fortunate to get accommodations due to my autism. While I had my moments of overstimulation, I was able to make it through with some fidgets I had on a necklace, as well as a rental ECV to help with my mobility issues.

I’m trying to remain optimistic here, because some parts did go great. However, it’s difficult. Be honest if I do sound like I was being a jerk to my brother. I am guilty of being harsh.

tumblr: constantly be aware of your own privilege. constantly be aware of your capacity of be evil. hey i know you really like that new piece of media but make sure you're aware of all of the problematic elements all the time. hey i noticed you reblogged a post from a designated Bad Person so please make sure you do a thorough background check on everyone you reblog from to make sure they're not bad, otherwise people might get the wrong idea about you. always be aware of everything bad that's happening in the world all the time because silence is violence. i see you not reblogging this post btw. activist burnout is a privilege so be aware of that. xyz people are required to reblog this post. if you're not constantly fighting against designated Bad People you are inherently complicit and therefore a Bad Person.

people with ocd:

BOOST AGAIN

Bengali Miku my beloved

Bengali Miku…but she is getting married

to whom? I'd say a leek, but you can interpret your head canons :>

(i need tips to draw metal jewellery ;v;)

In case anyone finds it helpful because mobility aids are horrifically expensive and inaccessible…

And for those people who have access to mobility devices but might benefit from a second chair they can abuse without risking expensive damage…

Erik Kondo has made a website, Open Source Innovations, that details plans for DIY wheelchairs. These wheelchairs can be made from common materials like wood, plastic, and pvc. They are lightweight and can be custom fit to the user allowing from the same degree of movement you would get from a custom chair. And they are durable and easily repairable. (he has been stress testing his latest design by dropping it down stairs, dropping it out of a car, launching it across a driveway, and throwing it off a deck). Its 12lbs and I think he said its was in the $200 ish range for parts.

He also is working on cheap, open source, accessible designs for beach chairs, off road chairs, motorized attachments (think smart drive), and so on. Plus he skateboards in his wheelchair. Cool dude, helpful info, pass it on.

Happy lesbian visibility week to the lesbians ever 🩷💚