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If She’s Not Having Fun You Have To Stop

“We’ve begun to raise daughters more like sons… but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters.”

- Gloria Steinem, feminist, journalist and activist

“This is what consent looks like”- Planned Parenthood

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Watch Sad13’s (Speedy Ortiz’s Sadie Dupuis) “Get a Yes” Video

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7 Rules For Fun And Consensual Sex, Courtesy Of Planned Parenthood

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To Myself I Surrender | Redemption - Prologue

abby x firefly!reader | lev x platonic!reader

synopsis: You wish you had never left. If you hadn't she wouldn't have lost everything.

warnings: light cursing, wlw, tall!reader (5'10"), each chapter will have their respective warnings. No use of Y/N

Her body ached, her skin burned. But her only focus was getting Lev to the beach. Once he's able to step out onto the sand she collapses next to the boat, letting the cool waves wash over her legs.

“Abby.” Lev calls, his voice hoarse, “Abby you need to get up.” 

She opens her eyes to find a gun pointed at her chest.

—

It was all a lie.

The character you had built yourself to be was just that, someone you could hide behind as you fought through your emotions. Many people depended on you now, there always seemed to be a constant reminder of the fact, and you found that you had begun pushing yourself more than you really needed to. You understood that it wasn’t healthy, but it was a bad habit you knew you couldn’t pull yourself out of. 

“Think you can make it through today?” Neil glances down at your hands as you fiddle with the charm bracelet around your wrist. 

“Yup.” You smile. You pop your lip and begin to hum as you try to distract yourself from Neil’s heavy gaze. The two of you walk into the restaurant and greet the familiar faces as you approach the table where you and your team normally meet up. 

“You should eat,” Neil mumbles. 

You shrug. “I’m not hungry. I’ll save it for later.” 

He begins to say something, but seemingly gives up as Dannie and Rachel’s voices draw your attention away from him. “Good morning,” Rachel sings.

“Morning.” 

“Hey,” Dannie glances up from her glass. “Doc says he needs to meet you about going on another trip for supplies.” 

You nod, “I’ll meet him before I head out for patrol.” 

“Sounds good.” 

You’d only get a couple minutes of peaceful chatter before you’re being dragged outside and towards the docs. Jake– one of the doc’s petrol men– speaks incoherently as he drags you along. You look over to Neil and he just shrugs. “Whoa, hey, slow down.”

“It’s really important, and I think you’ll be happy to hear it…” 

“I’m sure it is, but I can’t understand you if you’re talking that fast.” You place your hand on his shoulder, forcing him to take a second to calm down. 

“A few of the guys saw a boat,” He pauses. “They’re in rough shape, but we think it could be-” 

“Holy shit.” You look back at Neil. "Do you think it could be her?"

“We can’t be sure.”

You run down to the beach, and you watch as they pull a woman and a small boy farther up the beach. One of the patrolmen points his rifle at them, screaming at them, demanding answers.

"Hey!"

They all turn towards you, all equally surprised.

"Lower your gun, they're not a threat," You glare at him. If looks could kill, this man would be 6 feet underground.

He hesitates before lowering the gun, and you continue to glare at him until he backs away. You look down at the young boy, the large scars that curve up his cheeks are the first thing you notice. You look over at Neil, who seems to have noticed the familiar markings. He walks over and kneels in front of him, and you turn your attention back to the woman in front of you.

Her build was familiar, so were her freckles and the color of her hair. But it wasn't until you looked into her eyes and heard her whispering your name until you knew. You knew it was Abby.

You wrap your arms around her and allow her to fully fall into you. She sobs into your shoulder, and you try your best to hold yourself together.

"Hey," You coo, "you're okay. You're safe."

A/N: AHHH i hope you're as excited as i am... i'm not entirely sure how many chapters there is going to be, as i'm not sure how much i'm going to write.. but if you guys have any ideas for the plot and or ideas for extras, please let me know. let me know if you want me to make a permanent taglist and if you want to be on it!!

chapter 1.5 will be out soon!! (like later today, early tomorrow)

Taglist: @caitlinisfruity

Jenna Ortega is acting her ass off as Wednesday, but Tim Burton is fucking this entire show up. He does not have the range for The Addams Family.

All he knows how to do is pale face, dark hair, and big eyes. That’s not enough.

quick question: how the fuck do I get through the rest of my life like this

stop. stop. it is not just the women and children of gaza. it is not just the mothers. it is also the men. the fathers, the uncles, the vendor, the neighbor, the barber. stop dehumanising them. they are also being killed. they are also being bombed. they are also losing loved ones. palestinians are also losing their fathers and brothers. stop it. stop erasing the pain and suffering of palestinian men. they deserve our love, care and voice just as much as the women and children do.

so why is autism speaks bad? I'm confused

Hello.

There are a number of reasons why we feel that Autism Speaks isn’t good for Autistics. I’m going to give you some bullet points, and then link to a couple of resources both from our website and from the community.

There are no Autistics on their board of directors, or currently in any of their major decision making bodies. (While they did have Robison on their Science advisory, he left when they released a pretty bad press release after years of them being unresponsive to his feedback.) An organization that fails to include the people who they are “serving” in meaningful leadership positions is unacceptable. NAACP run by white people wouldn’t be alright; NOW run by men would be unacceptable; and an Autism organization without autistic leadership is not okay. 

Their Budget. While they have a high transparency score, they have a VERY low financial score on Charity Navigator, and for good reason. Only 4% of their funding goes towards supporting families via things like service grants. 21% is advertising and 22% is fundraising, and 5% is administrative costs. (44% is research, but we’ll get to that in a minute.) The executive pay- several over $400,000/year- is pretty high for an autism non-profit. 

The research doesn’t help living autistics. Very very little of the research Autism Speaks funds actually goes to quality of life. Instead the majority goes towards causation and prevention. As a lot of that research is genetic in nature, prevention means research into selective abortion of fetuses with markers for autism. Not only does this not help autistics of any age, it encourages the idea that it’s better to not exist than to RISK being disabled (and in particular, autistic). 

They promote stigma. Remember that “awareness” and advertising budget? A lot of that money goes towards things like Autism Everyday, a video in which a parent talks about wanting to complete a murder suicide with her autistic daughter and deciding against it because she has a “normal” child as well.* They also funded a video called I Am Autism (Transcript) in which a menacing voice claiming to be autism brags about “tearing families apart” at great detail. And remember what I mentioned about Robison resigning from his involvement with them? The final straw for him was an open letter written by Suzanne Wright, one of Autism Speak’s founders, to open a national Autism policy summit (which co-incidentally didn’t involve Autistics) in which Autistics are equated to being missing and being a crisis comparable to needing military intervention. These are just major examples; this tone of horror, tragedy, destruction, and crisis permeates Autism Speaks’ public message. Even in their more positive campaigns, it is an underlying message that being an autistic is not a good thing. 

They take money out of local communities. Many people attend walks thinking that the money raised will help support their local autism centers or families. Very little of this money if any comes back to the community it came from. 

We at ASAN put out a flyer a few years ago with a short version of this information. It’s slightly out of date, particularly when it comes to the alternate places to donate list, but the points still stand. More recently, we put out a Joint letter with a number of other organizations going into more detail about why we at ASAN as an organization- and our co-signers as well- object to Autism Speaks. 

This is Autism Flash blog response from the Autistic Community in response to Suzanne Wright’s Call to Action letter. ASAN didn’t run this, though we are supportive of it. 

A lot of people wrote or made video responses to the I Am Autism video. As far as I know, though, there wasn’t an especially organized response. You can still see a lot of them by searching google for “I Am Autism Response.” 

Check out boycottautismspeaks, an independent collaboration between autistics and autism positive parents. (They are also on Facebook!) 

A number of autistics have written posts talking about why they don’t like or support Autism Speaks. Some might be out of date on some of the details, but still current on the major issues.

Golden Hearted Rose’s is a favorite by the tumblr autistic community. 

Autistic Hoya writes very powerful posts, and their posts about Autism Speaks are no exception. 

* In Autism Everyday, she also talks about her daughter being non-communicative while her daughter comes up to her multiple times throughout asking if her mommy is okay. -Savannah

This is not very “you’re cargo” of him

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