and of course the classic
NOTE TO SELF-SLOW THE FUCK DOWN!
Don't stop supporting me.My brother is in dire need of your donation. He was injured again and suffered an amputation He is now in Al-Aqsa Martyrs Hospital in great need of treatment and pain relief, which will continue until he travels outside the country for treatment. Here there is an increase in all prices, whether health medicines or healthy food I have no choice but to raise funds for my brother and my family, as he also has a baby who needs milk And some of the proteins and vitamins that my brother needs, he also cannot provide his family with their own needs. I lost my little son. I don't want to lose what's left of my family I am happy again to help my family from this danger that we face. Please, friends, why do I have hope but you?My family is now facing severe famine. There is nothing to eat due to the closure of commercial crossings and the lack of humanitarian aid You are the only hope. I hope that this difficult situation will end, that the war will stop, and that we will live in peace But do not forget, my brother, I really want to treat him, it is an urgent matter. Thank you ๐๐ต๐ธ๐
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yknow how usually when ppl have numbers at the end of their url its for their birthday
I high key just looked at your url and with my whole soul believed that you were a whole 2 years old
Im a little stupidโค๏ธโค๏ธ
HAHA tat would be SOOOO sollydhjajdjjsjsjs
I came out as transfem to my friends a couple months ago, but every now and then I feel like I'm faking it. But when I'm called by my preferred name, my heart starts racing and I get a little smile.
Is this a normal thing?
Lee says:
Experiencing feelings of doubt or questioning like you're "faking it" can be part of the process for many people as they explore their gender identity.
This doesn't invalidate your experiences or your identity; sometimes it's a reflection of navigating a complex personal journey within a society that has rigid norms about gender.
Having doubts is normal, and many people who come out as trans continue to identify as trans throughout their lives, even if they initially had some discomfort getting used to their new identity and occasionally felt like they were faking it.
There are also some folks who feel like they're faking it and while they may not be intentionally faking an identity, that kernel of discomfort and wrongness may be a clue that something isn't quite right yet, whether it's their particular label, their gender expression, their pronouns, or their feelings about the gender roles they feel pressure to inhabit. I'm not saying that this is the case for you-- it seems like it likely isn't-- but I do feel that it's also important to acknowledge that not everyone who questions their gender will ultimately identify as transgender.
There should be no shame in questioning your gender, trying on new labels for a while, even coming out to friends to see how it feels to use the new label/pronouns/name, etc but ultimately reidentifying. The process of exploring one's gender identity is deeply personal and unique to each individual and there's nothing wrong with someone realizing that they aren't trans after all.
I'm writing all of that because I think this type of ask is often sent by folks wanting to know whether what they're feeling is normal because they're seeking reassurance that they're trans.
But we're not really here to reassure you that you're trans. We don't know you! Only you know your gender. If I tried to reassure you by saying "oh yeah I know for sure that you're trans, don't worry!" it would be beyond my scope as someone who is not-you.
I can tell you that it's normal to feel that way, that many other trans folks have felt that way, and that you will find your path eventually. It can be hard to figure it all out, but don't stress! Everyone always seems to have this super big sense of internal urgency, but it's okay to not be 100% certain of your gender identity, and to feel that way for months or even years.
Be patient with yourself. Understanding your gender identity is a journey, and it's okay to take your time. There's no rush to figure everything out immediately or to fit into any particular box. Trust yourself, and allow your journey to unfold in a way that feels authentic to you. All that being said, your current identity is valid, regardless of whether it shifts over time.
It's super common to have feelings of doubt and wrongness and feelings of faking it at the start of a transition, and that doesn't necessarily have to overshadow the joy and happiness that you experience when you're called by your preferred name. That gender euphoria you described is super real!
Seeking support can be incredibly helpful. This might include talking to friends who understand and support your journey, joining support groups for people exploring their gender identity, or finding a therapist who specializes in gender identity issues. These resources can provide a space to discuss your feelings, explore your identity, and receive support from others who have had similar experiences. Your feelings and experiences are real, and they deserve acknowledgment and respect.
Anons say:
(See follow-up post here!)
quick sketches i did when i was too tired to draw but too bored not to. somehow, i like it.
hiii i've heard that you were such a big fan of mine, so i thought it would be nice to do the ask game with you!!!
uhhh so 11 and 16 with kokichi (yeah sorry not sorry it's kokichi again but hey, you can switch kokichi with kaito too!!!! your choice)
yk what why don't i do both!!!
11. Would you date this character?
with kokichi... hmm. yeah, no, probably not. no offense, kokichi, i still love you <3 it's less about his numerous flaws and more about the fact i'd never see him that way. and with kaito... maaann, i would mostly just want to be his friend, or something, but i guess maybe. he's a great guy! :D
16. What's your least favourite ship with this character?
theres not any one in particular that i actively hate, but just thinking about it... what character would work the absolute WORST with kokichi....? and i have to say tenko. i don't know, i've never actually seen anything with them, so maybe my mind could be changed. but i can't really imagine them together.
and as for kaito?? ahhh, that's harder cuz kaito gets along (and if he doesn't, he could get along) with most the characters.... but i suppose he didn't have the best relationship with ryoma. even if it weren't for the whole "oh, i'm going to shame you for being mentally unwell!!!" thing, kaito's idolization of ryoma wouldn't work in a romantic relationship. maybe in another world, they're like... mentor and student! or something XD
thank you for the ask!!!!! :D
pose practice session i did, like, maybe a month ago. bodies are so hard ......
Hey, for everyone saying xenogenders are chronically online: Today in psych class we talked about gender dysphoria and I got to illustrate my view of gender graphically. It looked like a venn diagram with four heavily overlapping circles - one of them was xenogender.
My class was ENTIRELY receptive to it. This receptiveness included a straight, cis, white, christian male who had never heard of it before. And he was totally cool with it! We even took two minutes going on about what our gender would be if we described it in xenic terms. My teacher said he'd be the point of a mountain that intersects with clouds in the sky. Another said a ball of lint. I said the ocean. Not one of us said it was "impossible" or "cringe" or any of that xenogender-phobic shit.
If you're xenogender you're valid. The world, the real, offline world thinks so too. What's "chronically online" and "cringe" is being full of hate.
any pronouns (p.s: my username is referring to a very much alive stoat, thank you ๐ญ)
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