Stop Worrying About Results For A Second

Something I struggle with is actually starting my journey. I have so many areas that I want to upgrade in and I'm starting to feel overwhelmed. Do you have any advice on that? Thank you!

how to organize your level up journey 🤍

1. take out a piece of paper (or type but it’s better to write things down on paper), and write down each life area (or the ones that you want to change). these include (but not limited to): and make sure you leave a lot of room under each one, probably taking one piece of paper for every life area instead of just using one sheet of paper.

school

work/career

finances

romantic relationships

family

friendships

religion/spirituality

health/fitness

physical appearance

recreational/bucket list

lifestyle

2. leave space under whichever “life areas” you want to level up in and then write your goals. i suggest 1-3 goals under each, but no more than 5. you don’t want to overwhelm yourself even more. an example of this could look like:

1. physical appearance

- i want to grow longer hair

- i want to clear my skin

- i want to master the perfect makeup look

3. under each one of your goals, write 1-2 habits you could do everyday to work on that goal. you can write more habits if you want to, but again, the goal is to not overwhelm you anymore than you already feel. an example of this could look like:

1. physical appearance

- i want to grow longer hair

• sleep on satin pillow case

• heatless hairstyles daily

4. then start working on those habits, slowly adding a few more into your routine whenever you feel comfortable. don’t get discouraged if you slip a lot during the beginning; that’s completely normal. just keep working on being consistent and it’ll eventually become second nature. then you add more habits and eventually, habits turn into successes.

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Ⳋ᧙ 9/28

i’m notoriously known for having the fattest ass known to existence. my ass is so fat, people stop everything they’re doing just to see if their eyes are deceiving them. when i’m called up to answer a question on the board at school, the classroom goes silent just to focus, admire, analyze and take notes on everything i’ve got going on: from head to toe, im the epitome of perfection.. when i walk past i drown everyone’s noses in my sweet, addictive and intoxicating scent, my hair always looks like i just left the salon 5 minutes prior, my face card never declines, my skin has zero texture whatsoever and my makeup exceeds “no makeup makeup”, not because im trying to look like i have none on but because that’s how well my makeup blends in with my face and smooth skin, my facial features are desired by all, everyone wishes their eyes were as unintentionally hypnotic as mine, they show pictures of my nose & lips to plastic surgeons just to recreate how perfect and kissable mine are, if people aren’t stuck on my eyes they’re admiring my plump kissable lips that are only reserved and kissed by my sp. my boobs are round and heavy, yet comfortable for me and soft enough for my sp. my ass has people taking double.. triple.. quadruple fucking takes just to see if my absolute dump truck of a booty is from protein shakes, my mother’s soul food cooking or a good trip to dr. miami. my thighs and quads are soft and squishy yet carry a balance of muscle and strength, matching my insanely heavy rear end… it is inhumanly possible and completely wrong to ever see me as anything other than the ultimate dream girl. when people think of their dream girlfriend, im the first thought.. when other women think of their desired face, body and aura, they think of me and only me. i’m everyone’s top priority and their dominant thought. i’m simply the emperor of their mind and my universe.

November it's going to be amazing

November will be full of blessings

November will be full of happiness

November will be full of health

November will be full of peace

November will be full of Joy

November will be full of creativity

November will be the best month of the year!

HOW TO GET OUT OF A READING SLUMP

Inspired by how I'm currently trying to read again. 

START SHORTER. Try to read something manageable for you, and it doesn’t have to even be a full novel. It could be an essay on something that interests you or any short stories you find. Get into the habit of reading at your own pace, till you feel ready to take on something bigger. 

SET REALISTIC GOALS. Instead of wanting a goal like completing a book within a week, I would say 20 minutes of reading per day or at least 2 hours per week. You don’t have to track the time when you’re reading, but make mental notes of when you start reading and how long you read. 

EXPLORE. You may even be tired of reading certain genres, and not notice it. While in a slump, I would explore different books and see what interests me the most. For example, if you love reading romance books, try some action ones instead(or vice versa.)

REREAD FAVES. The familiarity of some books can help us get back into the swing of reading. Every time I reread a book, I always pick up on new details that I didn’t notice before. Reread one of your favourite books and try to spot details that you didn’t spot before. 

MAKE A LIST. Create a list of all the books that you want to read or reread. I feel like the process of seeing all the books you could, really encourages you to pick up that book. 

TRY A DIFFERENT FORMAT. For a lot of us, reading paperback or hard copy is the way to go. However, when I’m in a slump, I feel like opting for a different format helps me to get back into reading. For example, a digital book, or an e-book. (or vice versa)

READ IN A DIFFERENT ENVIRONMENT. I love LOVE, reading in an actual library. It is not for everyone, but a change of scenery can help. Some ideas can be at a park, a cafe, beaches and or a nature trail. 

PAIR READING WITH ANOTHER ACTIVITY. Some examples are exercising, cooking, travelling/commuting or doing mindfulness activities. This is more for getting back into the habit, once you’ve got it again, I would say to focus only on reading. 

I'm so happy about my life right now.

Everything it's perfect.

I am the most happier and healthier version of myself.

I love every single moment.

Everything happens exactly how I want to.

I don't chase, I attract.

What it's meant to me will simply find me.

nobody can take my energy away from me

November. cashmere sweaters and silk-shimmering legs. chai latte. nighttime yoga sessions. a bag stuffed to the brim with library books. chocolate espresso cake. solo dates to the cinema (the scent of popcorn and velvet seats). matte lips. hazelnut butter with fig jam. morning fog pressing against train windows and melting the skyline. jazz by candlelight. rose-scented hand lotion. notebooks filled with mini essays and painting descriptions.