Chocolate dragonπ
reblog and put in the tagsΒ whatβs your whole editing/art process like?
it gets funnier the longer you look
I want to boost everything this person has said and add on.
The reason I call myself a tomboy now, despite it being seen as a childish word and having had someone swear at me over it because βtHeReβS nO suCh thInG as BoY thInGs anD giRL thIngS sHut uPβ is because I couldnβt call myself that or be like that when I was a kid. It was seen as a negative thing and I was already bullied enough. βLooking like a boyβ was the worst thing that could happen to a girl.
And Iβm not even 26 yet. We arenβt talking 30+ years ago, we are talking 2000s and even 2010s. Itβs only since trans people have become more accepted in the past few years that gender nonconformity has too.
And the people who helped me accept my gender nonconformity more than anyone else? Were trans people. They taught me, βthereβs nothing wrong with how you feel. Youβre still a valid woman no matter what you wear, how you have your hair or what youβre into β€οΈβ
And donβt even get me started on how people treat gender nonconforming men. JK Rowling has a lot of nerve to be like βuwu boys can wear dresses and only us gendercrits accept that!β when she has, even in recent works, made femininity in men a negative trait, as well as making masculinity in women a negative trait also.
A lot of people still donβt accept gnc people even now. Just last year I had someone tell me theyβd never let their daughter βdress like a boyβ, and Iβm always terrified to walk into a bathroom in case the next JK Rowling is in there, sees my gender expression and pepper sprays me or worse.
βThereβs no such thing as boy things and girl things.β I donβt need to be told that and Iβm sure 99% of trans people also donβt need to be told that. Tell that to the society that hates us both instead of actively encouraging that hate.
This is what colorism in media looks like.
K.C. Undercover: dark skinned men, light skinned women. the one dark skinned girl is portrayed as mean, apathetic, sadistic, and cruel.
The Proud Family: dark skinned men, light skinned women. dijonay, the only dark skinned girl, is portrayed as "ghetto" and "rachet" alongside her entire family. and suga mama, who can be argued is dark skinned, is portrayed as mean, cruel, and abusive. additionally, trudy, the mother, comes from an entire family of dark skinned people. yet she herself is portrayed as very much light skinned.
trudy proud's family (left) vs trudy proud (right).
The Hate U Give: the dark skinned main character starr on the cover of the book (left), vs. in the movie, where she is played by amandla stenberg (right); a light skinned biracial actor.
nina simone (singer, left) vs zoe saldana (actress, right), who played her in the 2016 biopic "nina".
stagecoach mary (right) vs zazi beetz (left), who played her in "the harder they fall".
ororo munroe (storm, center) vs the actresses that played her in the x-men movies (alexandra shipp - left, halle berry - right).
monster high: clawdeen wolf (right), vs. the actress that plays her in the upcoming monster high live action movie (miia harris, left). it also appears that they artificially darkened the actress' skin for the role.
strawberry shortcake franchise: orange blossom, who was lightened between her 2003 design (left) and 2009 design (right).
The problem is there. You see it. This whole "we're all black at the end of the day" bullshit is the exact mindset hollywood uses to justify the erasure of dark skinned women. None of this will EVER be okay. And the fact that y'all consistently find the same goddamn excuses to justify shit like this is exactly why dark skinned people don't fucking trust y'all.
She/Her πΈ reconnecting PNW Native πΈ Mixed from about 3 tribes πΈ Minor πΈ I probably won't post or reblog much because this kind of turned into a personal blog πΈ Very cringe and still learning πΈ Massive over sharer by accident and also the opposite at the same time ? πΈ Always learning πΈ please try to be patient with me πΈ CW: Unreality and venting
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