I Am But A Dead Possum, Gently Resting At The Bottom Of The Pool, A Surprise Like A Pearl In An Oyster

i love men in pain

The reading comprehension and overall common sense on this website is piss poor.

“this is me btw if you even care” well i don’t

Im having the same problem. And just when i think a set of pronouns is comfy, its suddenly not. I fucking hate it

Anyone else feel like you've just settled for a certain name or pronouns?

I don't like words. Speaking, reading, writing, spelling. I don't like them.

Human feelings are far more complex than any language can ever be.

So I haven't found any pronouns that actually feel like me. I've settled for He/They. Yeah, I'm comfortable with them, I'll answer to them but they don't feel like ME. None of them do.

I haven't found a name that is ME yet either.

He, She, They, Ze, Hy, Fae, Hir, Em... nothing, I've heard of a lot of neopronouns. nothing.

Nothing feels like ME.

Don't know if I ever will find the right ones.

Maybe my distaste for words is part of what's making it hard to find ones I like and that fit me.

Maybe there are no words for me.

sobs

Thinking about Astarion and his asexual swag. You canonically stop sleeping together because he wants time to come into his own. And after you finish his quest you can go meet those drow twins and he becomes really eager to try sex again. He tell you he wants to try, and he'll dart away if he gets overwhelmed. And you have right up until the moment it begins to act him if he's alright, and okay with it. And he is! He's consenting and simingly super into it. But after the act starts you notice how he disassociates. His eyes glaze and he's no longer there. Not to mention during the grave yard scene. You can have sex with him over his own grave (hot) and he takes the lead in it, which really is a great development from the first sex scene with him, where he's hardly there and you do all the work.

But. Instead of sleeping together you can ask Astarion to just. Sit. Hold each other. Cuddle! And he sounds so surprised, then delighted at you asking it.

I don't think there's anything wrong with people who choose that option with him at the grave. He's happy, consenting and eager to sleep with your character. But he's just as happy not to. He's so, so asexual. Not sex averse, clearly. But he obviously only enjoys it with you. (And maybe Halisn idk I never tried the polyam route)

-signed, your local panromantic asexual

queer themes in x-men my beloved. Angel binding his wings. Bobby’s parents asking if he’s tried just not being a mutant. Nightcrawler and catholic guilt. The existence of cherik. Everything with Scott/Jean/Logan. Mystique and Destiny.

FISH???

dolly varden bear fish

𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 𓆟 𓆝

this thang is full of meat!!!! :P

Happy World Goth Day!

Remember, there is no one way to be goth.

Be aware of the bands that helped form the subculture (Bauhaus, Siouxsie, The Cure, etc.), but also know there are all sorts of goth music subgenres, so explore!

Goth is for everyone. If someone tells you that you have to be thin, white, young, able-bodied, etc. to be a Real Goth, ignore them. They're wrong.

Goth fashion is based in DIY and combining random bits until you have a look that makes you happy. Goth fashion isn't about spending huge amounts of money at various big 'goth lifestyle' websites.

Always support indie bands, artists, clothing designers, jewelers, etc. when you can. Posting about/promoting them is support!

With much love,

Auntie Jilli