Why Is Your Cat Green?

tumblr is probably gonna destroy the quality, but here’s a quick little comic i came up with last night! an asexual child of aphrodite asks for some guidance from her mom. 

(small edit: after a couple of comments, i want to add that i wrote this as a reflection of my own experiences of being on the asexual spectrum and dealing with the self-doubt of growing up in a highly sexualized society - it’s not meant to be a generalization of all aro/ace people or me trying to speak for anyone)

(ACE EXCLUSIONISTS DO NOT INTERACT, THIS IS NOT FOR YOU)

my writing is a little bit illegible, so there’s a visual description with text under the cut: 

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I still have third life brainrot so I'm drawing all the main duos dancing because dancing is fun. First up! Flower Husbands

Jimmy+Scott (You are here!)

Ren+Martyn

Scar+Grian

Bdubs+Cleo (Coming Soon!)

Almost five years ago, I made my first post mentioning that I headcanon both Vio and Shadow as asexual.

I was actually really nervous at the time— Would people hate it? Was I being “too self-indulgent"? Maybe I should pick just one of them and be content with that…

I’m so glad, now, that I didn’t let my fears stop me. I’m glad I chose to follow my heart and create what makes me happy, to express myself and my identity through my art. The overwhelming majority of responses have been positive, and it’s been wonderful to see - especially my fellow aces who’ve told me they appreciate my portrayal of the characters.

And really, what is fandom for, if not being self-indulgent? Headcanon what makes you happy! Draw and write what makes you happy! Enjoy yourself, and be proud of who you are!

I was lucky to get commissioned for this

I want to try something...

Reblog if you think that it’s entirely possible to have a loving romantic relationship without sex.

(I mean, obviously it is, but I want to see others opinions.)

The way bdubs is just the funniest mfer in the universe ..... ok get it i guess

“You look great hun”

depression tips™

shower. not a bath, a shower. use water as hot or cold as u like. u dont even need to wash. just get in under the water and let it run over you for a while. sit on the floor if you gotta.

moisturize everything. use whatever lotion u like. unscented? dollar store lotion? fancy ass 48 hour lotion that makes u smell like a field of wildflowers? use whatever you want, and use it all over. 

put on clean, comfortable clothes. 

put on ur favorite underwear. cute black lacy panties? those ridiculous boxers u bought last christmas with candy cane hearts on the butt? put em on.

drink cold water. use ice. if u want, add some mint or lemon for an extra boost.

clean something. doesn’t have to be anything big. organize one drawer of ur desk. wash five dirty dishes. do a load of laundry. scrub the bathroom sink. 

blast music. listen to something upbeat and dancey and loud, something that’s got lots of energy. sing to it, dance to it, even if you suck at both.

make food. don’t just grab a granola bar to munch. take the time and make food. even if it’s ramen. add something special to it, like a hard boiled egg or some veggies. prepare food, it tastes way better, and you’ll feel like you accomplished something. 

make something. write a short story or a poem, draw a picture, color a picture, fold origami, crochet or knit, sculpt something out of clay, anything artistic. even if you don’t think you’re good at it.

go outside. take a walk. sit in the grass. look at the clouds. smell flowers. put your hands in the dirt and feel the soil against your skin.

call someone. call a loved one, a friend, a family member, call a chat service if you have no one else to call. talk to a stranger on the street. have a conversation and listen to someone’s voice. if you can’t, text or email or whatever, just have some social interaction with another person. even if you don’t say much, listen to them.

cuddle your pets if you have them/can cuddle them. take pictures of them. talk to them. tell them how u feel, about your favorite movie, a new game coming out.

I did a thing 👀 (LINK)

(19th self-published book, 10th poetry book)