Open up to the one you care for. It's worth it.
“I adore the texture of your mind”
— Iris Murdoch (1919-1999) in a letter to Brigid Brophy (1960)
This matters.
Happy Birthday @missysi ! Let the party really begin!
@missysi, you know I take pride in helping your brain shut off and to be your safe yet dangerous place.
Just turn your brain off and let Sir have his way with you
Do you find that being a Dominant causes you to view all women differently and/or question whether they could possibly be in the lifestyle?
Great question. As I have been coming into this aspect of my life, I would say I have found a greater appreciation and understanding to the fact that everyone, and in the case to your question, women, all have very individual and specific desires and fantasies. It is my desire that I can create a safe space for people to state and express their fantasies because so many people may not feel comfortable expressing this to others or let alone themselves. I don't know if I would say I would question or think of them differently that they could possibly be into the dom/sub and bdsm lifestyle.
However, I still do have my limits and thinks on principle I feel cross a line in all aspects. That is violence of any sort to children, and abuse towards a parter, spouse, sub, or dom. As a Dom, the Sub still has the power. It is not to cross a line of consent or into abuse. Communication is key. Dom/Sub is so much more meaningful and impactuful and enjoyable when you truly trust one another.
Trust me Princess.
35, Live for and Love to reward my @missysi. Remember 18+
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