Treat Her Right With All Attention. Then She Knows She Means Even More To You, And In Turn Is Willing

@missysi

Exploring all parts of her is an honor. She has submitted to be explored.

Let this be your reminder, and do not forget this. When she submits like this (or in any other way), honor that. Help her lose her thoughts, her stress, her anxiety, everything. Help her just feel lost in pleasure that pushes boundaries, but at the same time, makes her feel safe in your care. It is a very special and intimate experience to lose count of the times she orgasms. Even more, it is so special to get her so lost in the moment that she does not even realize the music in the room stopped long ago. Be her guide as she has allowed you to limit her vision. It is amazing to help her see stars even while blindfolded. Make her so limp in pleasure, and provide the aftercare needed to where she feels like the queen she is. Her trust means the world. Cherish that from the sweet to the rough love. @missysi, it's my pleasure.

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Do you find that being a Dominant causes you to view all women differently and/or question whether they could possibly be in the lifestyle?

Great question. As I have been coming into this aspect of my life, I would say I have found a greater appreciation and understanding to the fact that everyone, and in the case to your question, women, all have very individual and specific desires and fantasies. It is my desire that I can create a safe space for people to state and express their fantasies because so many people may not feel comfortable expressing this to others or let alone themselves. I don't know if I would say I would question or think of them differently that they could possibly be into the dom/sub and bdsm lifestyle.

However, I still do have my limits and thinks on principle I feel cross a line in all aspects. That is violence of any sort to children, and abuse towards a parter, spouse, sub, or dom. As a Dom, the Sub still has the power. It is not to cross a line of consent or into abuse. Communication is key. Dom/Sub is so much more meaningful and impactuful and enjoyable when you truly trust one another.