When Summer Evenings Feel Like This Gif It’s Beautiful And It’s Worth It

don’t forget to lose faith in everything this morning

joey lynch from boys of tommen 🤝 marauders era sirius black

idk about you but i’m a sucker for the we just had sex and it’s the morning after and i woke up to an empty bed and how could i be so stupid of course you left me alone but wait you’re in my kitchen cooking me breakfast and i’m so relieved trope

One thing that has made me a much more well-adjusted person is a clip I once saw of Hank Green saying that anyone can be in amazing shape as long as being in amazing shape is one of their top three priorities.

(This is obviously a generalization that isn't true for everyone. But it is true for most people and I'm proceeding from there.)

This "top three priorities" framing has genuinely reduced my tendency toward jealousy and self-comparison a lot. Now when I feel envious of someone’s spotless, aesthetic home, I think to myself, “Having a spotless, aesthetic home is probably one of their top three priorities. It’s definitely not one of mine, so I shouldn’t expect my home to look like that.”

Or when I see an influencer with a body that takes a ton of work to maintain: “Maintaining that body is obviously one of her top three priorities, because it’s her livelihood. My livelihood is my brain, so I’m never going to prioritize my body like that.”

It also helps me to identify areas that I actually DO want to prioritize more. I realized in recent years that my envy for my friends who prioritized writing more than I did was NOT going away, so I started to prioritize writing more. (Not top three, but higher priority than it has been in the past.)

committed to the bit: self explanatory. we all know this one.

committed to the fit: wearing an absolute killer slay fun little outfit regardless of weather incompatibility

committed to the tit: any self respecting boob lover is committed to the tit.

committed to the pit: read trc specifically trk for context

committed to the hit: violence. rage. mayhem

committed to the sit: sit on the counter sit on the fucking floor but wherever u sit don't move for anything or anybody

committed to the vit: fun little dracula accent I guess

rip regulus black you would’ve loved florence + the machine

phoebe bridgers is a stronger person than me because if I was in a three person band and the two other members started dating each other you would see me on the news

It's just me and the king of scars duology and the dreamers trilogy waiting for me to read them because I've been avoiding them like the plague since 2021

Ah shit we wrote your boyfriend into a concept album. Yeah, sorry. He’s battling his inner demons in musical verse.