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Please include the question(s) fully in the ask.
- Shay 🐾
send an emoji to correspond to a question!! if you get asked something that you dont feel comfortable answering, you can always pass!
⏰- when were you diagnosed/when did you start suspecting you were autistic?
🌙- are you a morning person or a night person?
🎁- what’s your special interest(s)?
🍔- do you have sensory problems with food? what food do you like to eat?
🎧- what symptom(s) of yours is the hardest for you to deal with?
🦄- what do you excell at?
🍯- do you stim? what are some ways you stim?
🌡- do you prefer the heat or the cold? is one or the other stimmy? does one or the other cause sensory problems?
🌈- are you a part of the lgbt+ community? what is your lgbt+ identity?
🎢- what are some common phobias you have?
🎆- fireworks: yes or no?
💬- are you an introvert or an extrovert?
🍫- do you have a sweet tooth?
☕- do you regularly consume caffiene? do you find that caffeine helps manage your symptoms or makes them worse?
👨👩👧👦- do you have friends or family members with autism?
👕- what kind of clothes do you usually wear?
✏- do/did you like or dislike school?
💅- how do you usually practice self care?
and, just for fun,
❤- what’s your favorite color?
please only rb this post if you are autistic (self-dx friendly). obviously u can still send these asks if you’re nt tho!
Gonna start using this for theriform animals (around those it is safe to) instead of the usual "real" or "biological" or other terms.
Hope strikeout doesn't mess with accessibility things. If it does, we are really sorry.
Also, question: What would the "human" version of this kinda thing be? Like a version to talk about being in a human body (or what appears to most as a human body) but maybe not being human? (Strikeout cause dumb question, lol)
- Shay 🐾
Theriform Adjective (can applied as a noun in certain phrasing, see examples)
From θηρίον (thēríon) [diminutive of θήρ thḗr, “wild beast”] and μορφή (morphe) ["shape"/"figure"/"look"].
A theriform animal is one which was born into a body that is typical/expected of it's species and observable as such by everyone, with species-typical levels of sapience/intelligence and whose behaviour is unaltered by being born into a human body/raised in a form perceived as human.
It is not the 'opposite' of therian despite similar etymology but is instead to be viewed as a complimentary term to therian, nonhuman, alterhuman, otherkin etc as it exists to specify certain details of a species whilst not invalidating the identities of those who are not theriform. It is made to replace potentially invalidating phrases like 'bio(logical) animal' or 'real animal'.
It is not an identity label and therefore has no flag or symbol and does not need one. Do not create these things please, or use the term to describe yourself on a personal level.
Alternative versions for non-animals could include: floraform, nat(ur)form, techform, fictoform, feyform, voidform, starform, divineform etc
"Lol it's so funny being a cat and having a theriform cat as a pet we're both just kitties vibing but with different body shapes."
"Just because they're the same species are you does not mean you are able to take care of wild theriforms."
"The fact that there aren't that many theriforms of my species is so saddening."
"I wanna do quads alongside a pack of theriform wolves so bad!"
"I am transspecies, here is what I do/what I want to do to look more theriform."
"I wonder if theriforms get species dysphoria?"
We decided to make some flags just for our plurality. While these flags are technically free to use, credit is actually required for these, as these flags are specifically made for us really.
We used browns and green-blues as those are colors that a lot of us have connections and stuff to.
- Shay 🐾
Made some nonhuman related flag(s).
We don't have a name for them as a term or anything. If anyone can think of a good name for it, then feel free to reblog with said name/term.
We do have a definition for what we want the flag(s) to mean.
The definition is: Beings that are nonhuman/not human fully, even when the body they are in is human. (This can be described in different ways).
We tried to kind of make it based a bit off of nature (greens and browns mainly).
- Shay (They/it) 🐾
Edit: These are free to use! Credit is appreciated but not required! Also, feel free to make alternative versions of these flags!
Tw/cw: anger, violence, slight death (murder?) mention, slight animal abuse mention (comparing ourselves to one), and if there are any others, please let us know.
Being angry sucks sometimes cause we can also get very aggressive (even if it's only in our mind), and it sucks.
Like, we don't really like getting so angry that we think about biting or scratching or even killing someone. But this is how our brain works sometimes.
Especially when it's "not that serious" or whatever. Like something "small" can also cause anger like this. We really are pretty similar to a cornered abused creature when we get angry at times.
- Shay 🐾
Thanks for answering!!
We haven't fully looked at the video yet but we wanted to respond a bit to the side note thing (also maybe the tags?).
Yeah google is very good for things, lol. We just mainly sent the ask cause we saw that you had said that you wanted some asks sent, lol.
We had some ASL classes (read: was in ASL 1 two times cause we aren't good with school and that includes college, lol). We would love to take more classes for ASL but we have a lot of difficulties with school and stuff so that seems like it might not happen.
While we might not be deaf (although we do have difficulties with hearing, lol), the reason we love ASL and learning it is that we have verbal shutdowns (others tend to refer to this kind of thing as "going nonverbal" but that's not really correct). So while ASL might not be our language or culture, to us it is more than just a "fun fact". [This was just us explaining, we aren't upset with you saying the thing about it being a fun fact].
Once again, thanks for answering our ask!
- Shay 🐾
Hello! We saw your "speak your language day" post.
We know a bit of ASL ourselves but would definitely love to learn more!
Do you know how to sign things like "plural" (as in the plurality community), "alterhuman", "nonhuman", and just stuff like that? We would love to learn if there are signs for some of our communities even though there probably isn't, lol.
If there aren't any signs for those, we would just love to learn different signs for (nonhuman) animals! Especially canines (wolves, dogs, jackals, etc.) and felines (cats, tigers, cheetahs, etc.)
- Shay 🐾
English:
I’m still a student so I’m not an ASL authority, remember that. But, for plural I would maybe sign like [listing things], or… depends on how many you feel, like [list 2] [list 3] [list 4] [list 5] personalities, or self, [multiple self]. Maybe, depends. For- I’ve seen human signed with the H handshape like [body] becomes [human] like [person] becomes [human]. So maybe with other signs added before, like [not human] or [other human]. Or [not human] [other human]. Like that. There’s not a lot of signs for specific identities like that. But for other animal signs, the sign for animal is [animal]. I don’t know a lot… like, I know dog, I know cat, but specific types…. Like, a lot is describing what it looks like. I don’t know if tiger sign exists already, it probably does, I would try signing it by explaining what it looks like. Like, orange cat, large with black stripes down it, like that. Yeah. I hope that helps. Bye!
(Side note: Not signed just adding something. If you’re curious about a sign, google is your friend. Lots of signs can be found online and signs can vary depending on the region. Some signs in the state I’m from are very different from signs elsewhere. Look online and if trying to communicate with deaf people in your area keep in mind that many signs can be localized! Just cause I sign something one way doesn’t mean a deaf person from your state is wrong for signing it another. Far from it! Understand the culture of your area, understand deaf culture, and remember, for you it may be a fun fact, for them it’s their language. Be aware and have fun signing!)
Realized just a bit ago that it's my/our birthday today (May 25th) from my/our life as Zuki, lol.
- Zuki 🪶 from the ShaySubpack 🐾🪶🩵🖌
Do any other werecreatures/werebeings feel effects from the full moon before the full moon actually is?
Like the proper full moon is supposed to be tomorrow but we have been feeling very were like for a few days.
- ShaySubpack 🐾 specifically Cyan 🩵 (we have other were beings but this post is just from me/us)
Yeah, for some, it's harder to accept their identity and shit, but for some alterhumans and nonhumans (including therians) it is voluntary and/or easier to accept their identity.
Let's not exclude them (not saying you were but mostly talking about in general, this post is just the best time and place to really say it).
Voluntary identities for alterhumans and nonhumans are just as valid as involuntary identities just as a reminder for everyone.
- Shay 🐾
I find the "all therians chose" antis funny.
I used to be one of you.
Trust me I wished everything but to be that way lmao.
It wasn't a process of waking up and going "therians aren't weird anymore, I pick fox!"
It was a process of heavy denial and slowly accepting my identity despite what I used to believe in.
Well, in this current body/life, we don't have an SD [service dog] yet (we need to work on getting one).
But from some of our past lifes, we loved having our service dogs help with grabbing things that we had issues getting.
- Shay 🐾
What is your in-depth opinion of fire?
Depends on who is being asked.
There's Den and Moonfire who love fire, lol!
Most of the rest of us mostly just like looking at fire but not being too close, lol.
Not sure what else to say here.
- Shay 🐾
5th poem to post. Another dog & wolf related poem, lol. A lot of my poems are canine related cause of me being a canine kin [specifically wolfdog kin].
Tw/cw: biting mention, abuse hinted at(?), and I think that's all. Let me know if you find any tw/cw I didn't add that I need to.
- Zuki Shay Lupo (They/it/xe) [trying something new with my sign off thing on my poem posts]
I think that
I should roll over
And whine sorry
Over and over again
But instead I growl
I bare my teeth
And snap at you
I bite and growl
I should roll over
I should say sorry
I should be a good dog
A good wolf
But I'm not
I growl and bite
I'm a bad dog
A bad wolf
I should roll over
I growl and snap
I should whine sorry
I bare my teeth and bite
I'm sorry I'm not good
I bite even when
You try to help me
For I'm scared
I'm sorry I'm bad
I growl even when
You're kind for I don't
Know when you'll stop
Thanks for the reply!
We definitely think of it as better than the "functioning" label system (cause of what that system was originally for) but yeah every system has flaws.
So medium support needs seems to fit us.
As we don't have a job, and don't have a "caretaker". And we could go on but this is the main bits, lol. Basically, we have more support needs than a low support needs being and less support needs than a high support needs being.
- Shay 🐾
Can any being(s) explain exactly what each "level" of support needs mean? (High, medium, and low are the ones we have seen/heard)
Cause we literally aren't sure what we count under.
Like it almost seems like we are low-medium support needs or high-low support needs (like on the lower side of medium or higher side of low).
Does this make any sense?
- Shay 🐾