Do you take requests?
Yep!
I’m currently doing only 15 per month before I close!
From the official OM youtube -
https://youtu.be/xFBLMeJI0Tg
https://youtu.be/NqWtR8JStJU
https://youtu.be/Av9ERVAcou0
Welp, here I am, reblogging something again because a good friend asked me to, and I cannot ignore.
So @clementineissleepless you better do it too-
new picrew challenge!!
fun fact: i own these earring irl!
tagging: @saturnity @dilftaroooo @bokutolesbo @uwu-iwanttodie and anyone else who wants to try it! no pressure!
To the aro lesbians: youre not feeding the stereotype or sexualizing lesbians. Its not your job to desexualize lesbians. You deserve the world and more 💚
To the aro gay men: youre not feeding the predatory gay stereotype. Its not your job to end the belief that gay men are predatorial 💚
To the aro bi and pansexuals: youre not emotionally manipulative or abusive for being aromantic. Its not your job to end the belief that bisexuals and pansexuals are sex hungry and emotionally null. Youre deeply emotional and complicated and no one can take that from you 💚
To the aro heterosexual men: youre not inherently mysoginistic or a “fuckboy” for not being interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with a woman youre sexually attracted to. Its not your job to single handedly tackle the belief that men who like to have sex with women but not engage in a romantic relationship with them are predatory misogynists. You identity is not problematic because it overlaps with these negative stereotypes 💚
To the aromantic heterosexual women: Your aromanticism is not an obstacle for men to hurdle and “defeat”. You are not a prize to be won 💚
To the aromantic asexual people: you’re aromanticism/asexuality does not make you a waste. Your companionship is no less valuable than that of alloromantic allosexuals 💚
To the aromantic people who feel broken: you’re not, aromanticism isnt the character flaw that media makes it out to be. It is a valid identity, not a quirk or mistake. Its an identity 💚
To the aromantic minors: youre not immature, you wont “realize when youre older”. Aromanticism isnt a childish thing that you grow out of as you mature. Your identity is just as valid NOW as it will be in twenty years. Just because people get up in arms about a-spec identities in minors doesnt make you any less aromantic. 💚
To the aromantic abuse survivors: whether your aromanticism is related to your trauma or not does not invalidate it. Whether youre aromantic because or despite your trauma youre still aromantic and no less than those who arent survivors 💚
To the romance repulsed aromantics: its okay. YOURE okay. Romance being shoved down your throat every way you turn is hard, and people ignoring your feelings about it hurts but youre just as valid as those who dont experience it. You deserve to be as comfortable as everyone else 💚
To the autistic aromantics: your autism doesnt discount your aromanticism whether theyre closely entwined or not. You deserve better than allistics policing your identity and how it interacts with your autism 💚
To the popular aromantics: its not a competition as to who can be .~*the one*~. to “fix” you no matter how much it may feel that way. You are so much more than a challenge for people to overcome 💚
To all aromantic people regardless of all else: i love you. I promise you’ll get through this 💚
BRING IT ON
challenge accepted
when you get this, please respond with five things that make you happy! then, send to your last ten people in your notifs (anonymously). you never know who might benefit from spreading positivity :)
OH 😳
I did not expect an anon ask any time soon, thanks for sharing this with me anon!
Five things huh? Let’s do this-
I LOVE writing, as evidently seen with this blog. 😂
READING, like without a doubt. Both writing and reading are just my two hobbies I do 24/7. 🥰✋
Dancing, especially Kpop choreography and Contemporary. They’re just so fascinating to me lol.
Debates, this is kinda controversial maybe, but I love having to debate with people about politics and similar topics (Totally not why I developed a love for Tears of Themis-).
Singing/songwriting, I love music, that’s all there is to it.
That’s about it from me, again thanks for sending this anon!
Imma leave this here in my blog and hope to god I have the holy trinity on my side for October.
If I get lucky, I’ll be able to crank out chapters, wish me luck and hope to see y’all again when I reblog this again on my blog 😂😭❤️
Happy new year 2022 🌱
A brief summary of how user engagement is tracked on Tumblr, for the newcomer:
When you like or reblog a post, that counts as user engagement for the person you liked or reblogged from, and shows up in their notifications.
If the person you liked or reblogged a post from wasn’t the original poster (i.e., you’re liking or reblogging a reblog), it also counts as user engagement for the original poster, and shows up in their notifications as well.
This means that user engagement from your likes and reblogs can potential accrue to two different people, the original poster and the person you liked or reblogged from.
Consequently, you cannot “steal” user engagement from someone by reblogging their post.
This is one of the very few areas where Tumblr is actually functions more reasonably than other social media platforms.
Note that this is only true if you use Tumblr’s built-in reblogging function. If you save someone else’s content to your local device and append it to a new post, you effectively become the original poster from that point on.
This means that on Tumblr, “reblogging” and “reposting” are two different things; if you see someone complaining about “reposting”, this is not the same as reblogging.
Commenting when reblogging does not affect any of this – unlike, say, Twitter, where quote-retweeting causes user engagement to accrue to the quote-retweet and not to the original tweet – and you can and should do so freely.
However, every Tumblr user can see who exactly you reblogged a post from, which functions as a soft disincentive against making inane comments; if you make a dumb comment on a reblog, people who see your reblog may “back up” one step in the reblog chain to reblog a version of the post without your comment.
Nobody understands tags, and there’s a fair amount of evidence that how tags work changes periodically and without warning.
Tags are a divine mystery.