recently I found a really cool male coach
and I think I'm also dissapointed in men as well
he's an older guy but he isn't like those therapists in my city
All they care about is:
- parties
- fucking
- they go to gym only to look buff and flex
Are sexist assholes and/or wimps with fragile masculinity.
I feel like a big part of it is this show off gender bs eating at people's brains, no matter if they're a man or a woman all they care about is putting on a show for people to prove their femininity/masculinity and affirm it.
Secure femininity/masculinity doesn't need to prove itself so badly. It goes beyond gender ideology. This whole obsession with gender concept and conformity is fucked.
It's literally eating at people's brains like a parasite.
KJK is not a feminist because she can't be, feminists would not accept a woman who is a housewife and uses makeup (and looks freaking great btw).
I'm not a feminist because I'm pro kink (and pro consent) have kinks myself and I find women VERY sexually appealing, wear makeup occassionaly. Ofc feminists don't like it and call me a "man" because I'm a lesbian and I don't have shame about it.
Feminism has become a gatekeeping cult for "special women" this is why it fails. Even though KJK is not a feminist she does more for women than most feminists who sit in front of their screen and hate on normal things such as beauty, motherhood, sex will ever do.
fuck gender ideology
everywhere I go I see it
people try to gaslight me that I'm less of a woman for some reason (I don't perform femininity to the T)
fuck gender ideology
it shouldn't exist
gender was made up by the patriarchy to control women
As a psych student I have to learn that it's important for teens to understand their gender roles and perform them. Fuck this!
It isn't. Woman is not a social role. There is no such thing, only stereotypes and bs ideas.
the price I have to pay for being myself is profound, bone freezing loneliness
all my friendships are short and fleeting, I think I'm deeply misunderstood by pretty much everyone
I very often feel like I have truly noone I can talk to so I write my thoughts down, I can only really trust myself when it comes to them
radical lesbian feminists say they're okay with masculine women AS LONG AS they don't have masculine personality, values or interests
cutting your hair short, wearing suits and ties, having bodyhair, being a "stone butch": fine
valuing honor, having "male gaze", high libido, liking weapons: YOU NEVER HAD A PROPER MOTHER FIGURE IN YOUR LIFE THIS IS WHY YOU'RE A PORNSICK PICK ME WHO SUPPORTS THE PATRIARCHY!!
all types of SECURE masculinity in women are okay, as long as it's not compleatly averse or disgusted by femininity
we are supposed to challenge gender roles and just because I have other interests than most women, it doesn't make me a "man" or a "pick me"
I'm proud to be my own kind of woman
I'm a gold star btw. Idk if that matters. I just know what I like I suppose.
Welcome to my cave,
this is a space for me to post aesthetic things, rambles, wildest thoughts, rant about my homosexuality, femaleness, polishness without filters. Might be edgy at times.
I'm not a radfem, I don't identify as any kind of feminist but I will support women and my own self interest. I'm 100% GCULTRA so if you're trans affirming, we can't be friends.
I'm 23 y/o and love art, manga/anime, folklore, history, nature, weapons among other things.
If you're of age feel free to ask me anything or dm if you want to, I highly appreciate that.