It's Crazy How People Don't See Me As A Human Being Everytime They Find Out I'm Gay. Not Everyone But

I have alot of kinks that have to do with WOMEN.

Feminists: "kinks are evil"

I'm too gay for feminism in all honesty. I can't spend a day not thinking about tits.

Willem van Aelst

Dutch, 1627-1683

Still Life With Flowers, ca. 1656 (details)

I often have beef with feminists because they tend to shift ALL BLAME on men.

Apparently seeing women as human beings with autonomy and brains to think for themselves is sexist.

Imagine you are a slave and you work hard everyday with other slaves but all you dream about is freedom. On the other side of the fence there is another slave but that slave talks about how it's ok to be one, how we're destined to be slaves and there is nothing we can do.

Wouldn't you in your heart at least, judge that person? If you long for freedom and feel love towards a group of people but they go against their own interest over and over again, it's hard not to resent them at times.

Having ideals for them, standards for them, hopes and dreams for them is the most humanising thing there is. Even if at times it might come across as harsh judgement or might lead to bitter dissapointment.

reject femininity and embrace femaleness

I have every right to be hateful if someone steps over my rights to female only spaces as a lesbian. If a group that calls themselves lesbian doesn't exclude males - it's against my rights.

I get physically turned on by women's bodies and how they smell, it's not a political identity nor a label I have chosen to identify with for whatever reason.

It's a description of my natural physical response.

why do you call yourself cisgender?

kinda out of necessity as there are people who think I'm a man if I don't "prove it" somehow

I mean, I had to deal with people who lied about themselves as well and whenever I look at someone's profile I have to analyse everything to make sure. I thought no trans person would likely use "cis" to describe themselves.

but there are people who legit accuse me of being a guy maybe because of the way I talk or whatever because yes, I have some very masculine interests and personality traits

I totally understand disliking the term but for me there are words that piss me off more and I don't really consider it a slur. Tbh I'd much rather ask why some lesbians call themselves "dyke" or "queer", those words disgust me more.

I want to dip my feet into the baltic sea again.

I've learned to love the coldness of the baltic sea.

Young Woman With Sword by Jules-Élie Delaunay (1828-1891)