that boyfriend wants to be violent towards her
thinking about how my friend was telling me it was so hot her boyfriend choked her, but he didn't even ask beforehand☹. and you think this is just normal?
oh thats great! but your daughters wont feel very safe when they go to school and a man with a gun enters the building! your daughters wont feel very safe when rapists continue to go mostly unpunished and roam the streets freely! your daughters wont feel safe when men are able to beat their girlfriends and wives and get away with it! your daughters wont feel safe when they risk not getting a job or losing their job just because they're women! +++more. but you seem to be in a happy privileged position, so that excludes hundreds more that would impact daughters and sons born in lower-class families.
found this on pinterest, thought you all might like it :3
btw trump giving medals to mothers who have 6+ kids is exactly what hitler did
"porn is natural! we shouldnt ban it!" but one of the most popular porn concepts, the FIRST one i was exposed to on a 'kid friendly' internet site as a young child was 'step-sis stuck in washing machine'. porn about rape and incest isnt natural and needs to be deleted off the internet
i dream of having a radfem bestie so bad
men are responsible for everything i hate about the world. don't like war? men are behind it. don't like gangs? men are behind it. don't like billionaires? don't like capitalism? don't like poor medical infrastructure? don't like teen pregnancy? don't like pedophilia? don't like divorce? don't like public insecurity? don't like invasion of privacy? don't like theft? don't like rape? don't like climate change? don't like slavery and human trafficking? don't like fascism? don't like tribalism? don't like colonialism? don't like the systemic violence enacted on homosexual people? don't like hierarchy? don't like inequality? don't like massacres and genocides? don't like economic instability? what? is there anything you hate? feel anger toward? is anything sacred to you? are you bothered by anything?
to say you love men is to say you love the world as it is.
when women’s oppression gets brought up, i can’t stop admiring men’s unwillingness to admit that their “suffering” isn’t caused by women.
“men die at wars😞😠” and guess who’s sending them to wars! and guess who made it so that historically only men can go into the army!
“we aren’t allowed to express our emotions😢” or what? you won’t fit the standard of a strong heroic man? who made that standard?
“women are gold diggers😒why must i pay for you at the restaurant?🤨” who set up the system in which women had no income and were dependant on their husband?
bro. i’ll tell you why your hand is hurting and bruised. that’s because you keep punching women in the face.
so im not the only one who really wants to do this and just see how random people live
ppl who say stuff like this have never interacted with a terf because literally most of them say “womanhood isn’t a feeling. it’s an adult human female” and dislike gender stereotypes of “woman=gentle feminine dress”, something that many trans women seem to correlate “feeling like a woman” with.
they reduce women to their biology would make sense if terfs said something along the lines of “women are made to give birth and menstruate”. but… they don’t. they are not being defined by their uterus. they say a woman is an adult human female. that’s it. you’re gonna say googles reducing women to their biology because “woman is a female adult human” ??
like no offense, i used to use that argument too… but i was also 15 so like 😭
Nobody really talks about how lonely it can be as a radfem, especially how alienated you feel from other women. The continuous betrayal and ridicule you’ll experience from the same people who agree with surface-level feminist analyses is so disheartening.
You’re eager to criticize poor male behavior yet you also vehemently deny real-world oppression that we all suffer from? Acknowledging the wage gap and sexual violence statistics is all fun and games but deconstructing anything beyond that is somehow taking things too far? Do you not see the irony in condemning things like the cosmetic industry while degrading other women who choose not to shave?
I want to know at what point they think the oppression of women starts and stops. Do you genuinely believe that thousands of years of misogyny simply disappears overnight? Is it truly the case that your father, your brother, your boyfriend have miraculously been deprogrammed and it’s all other men that are the problem?
Everyone wants to shit on men until it comes time to reconcile with the fact that the majority of them actively and intentionally contribute to maintaining a patriarchal society. Then it just gets too real