Rainy Day

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I’m really tired of seeing people broken up into labels of absolutes.

People are not just “good” or “bad”.

People are not a list of labels. 

People are complex, situations are complex.

I know, that makes it a lot harder when you want to just write off everything someone’s ever done as bad – but that’s not how people actually are, and it would do everyone good to stop pretending they are.

I am tired of hearing about the fear people have in putting themselves out there. And it is a scary thing! Putting yourself out there means subjecting yourself to people who want a really good reason to tear you down, who will jump at the first chance to feel “good” by labeling someone else as “bad”.

I reject this. I reject the idea that there should be fear in speaking up and talking about experiences and trying to reach an understanding of a situation.

I’m unhappy to see people spitefully urging others to cut off ties with their friends under the guise of “well, that person’s just inherently bad, so if you talk to them you’re bad too.” That is fucked up. You definitely have the right to let the friend know you don’t want to hear about whoever troubles you, but you do not at all have the right to decide who their friends should be. This includes guilt trips.

Anyway, just try to be more aware of others. Everyone else is a person like you. They might not have the same experiences as you. They might not understand how their words are harmful, or how what they’re doing is wrong. They certainly won’t if you never tell them.

Most people are trying to be good, but they’re going to mess it up sometimes. Try to keep that in mind. Even when people do really fucked up shit, sometimes they are trying to do good. “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” and all that.

Nothing gets solved, no growth happens when you put people into a box from which you’ll never let them escape.

Yes, you absolutely must be careful about people who have tendencies and patterns that are harmful to you. Sometimes people try to overcome those patterns and they fail, and you have to distance yourself from them: that is the sad reality of life. Sometimes though, they can overcome it. But they certainly won’t if the first thing you do is write them off after a fuck up. 

Be sincere. Use your best judgment.

Anything for you, my dear. I am glad however it was worth the time and effort then ^^

Manoir Vide

Yes, after @darkipliier‘s Manoir. Because it was time to draw it at last and only taking two days, I finally winished this old timey vibe sketch.

Hopefully my imagination was on point however it is time for me to rest my hands. Sadly I don’t know everyone else’s tags so please, if you know you are part of the Manoir, just know I thought of you, I am just a dumbass with remembering tags ;v;

Braiding session

Just a good time of sleepover mood with @darkipliertm and @dr-skazka

Darki-dump

Because yes, I still make fanart just working on school stuff mainly at the moment so have this small art dump uwu

Damien stim for @kypawofficial

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Long haired shadow man

I have literally no energy to make anything meaningful, nor have I the brainpower to make something new so this is all I can offer today

Looking back it sort of reminds me of @damn-the-dark's drawing where Dark is being a sassy demon degrading the onlooker.

Anyhow...

Was made for @darkipliier

Yesterday's/Today's art dump

Because I had a big mood for some big sketchy time

Dark says you are valid

Unless you purposefully invalidate or cause harm to others.

I have made this with @darkiplierhq in mind.

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