Thinking About Putting A Gay Couple (my Ocs) And Trans Girl Into My Mass-printed Schoolwide Newsletter

reblog to confusion reminded me, another thing even i often have to remind myself is that honestly this applies to platonic relationships, really ANY relationship.

a healthy relationship w urself is the foundation to having a good relationship with anyone else, bc you're just happier! you can stand up for yourself! and you just become a much nicer person to be around when ur not filled w self loathing 24/7.

yeah sorry chat u do gotta love urself too. no other way around it rip

GO FUCKING LOVE YOURSELF TODAY 🔪🔪🔪🔪

do you want a relationship or do you just want to be happy(ier)?

hear me out.

sometimes when i hear ppl around me complain about how much they want a bf/gf/partner in general i often want to ask, "why exactly?"

because a lot of the time, at the core, people want a s/o to address some other thing in their life they want fulfilled. like it's more of just wanting companionship, someone to connect to, wishing to feel less lonely etc

i feel like this is worth thinking about bc often people will get into a relationship thinking it will solve this core issue they have, and when it doesn't it catches them off guard. like ur s/o is there to improve your overall quality of life, not solve your life problems for u--that's smth u need to work on urself. yes it will suck. but it will be worth it bc ull be a more well-rounded person!

i used to kinda wish i had a relationship myself, but as i met more ppl and made more friends that feeling went away and i realised i was really content with just my platonic relationships. bc at the root i really just wanted people i could truly connect to, people i could chat up whenever. and i got that when i built a good network of friends.

you don't need a romantic relationship to be happy. it's better to try to address these needs first instead of throwing it all upon the hypothetical partner to solve.

i think about this whenever i have that "i want a relationship" feeling again.

OC INTRO POST - TAMARUK

I'm back with this! this design is less developed, honestly, and it will change as the story goes!

extra notes:

his clothes are meant to somewhat resemble a school uniform. he's young and learning! the shorts are funny to me.

the grey in his hair is meant to remind the viewer of grey wolves' fur.

his greatest weakness would be his black-and-white view of the world and morality, so his palette is monochrome.

the hero complex goes hard on this one!!

why are you so sweet (and hot) and I (74M) was recently hit by a car (2014 Honda) and died. My wife (5F) organized me a funeral (cost $2747) without asking me (74M) at all. I (74M) was unable to make it because I (74M) was dead (17 days). At the funeral I heard my dad (15M) and other family members talking about how they wish I could be there and now I feel bad for not showing up. AITA?

YTA I don't understand why you can't even do the bare minimum of showing up. Men these days are so lazy and incompetent. At least the Honda was an active contributing member of society by putting itself out there. This is why you should date me instead.

yeah so i feel u on that, except i feel like it's a general lack of awareness for me. one of my very good friends now, was in my class for 3 years. i did not notice him for all 3 years! funnily enough we only started talking online AFTER we stopped being in the same class 😭

come to think of it i made more than half of my friends via online chatting first despite seeing them every day in person...

i have a common theme with my favorite pokemon (small)

for being awesome friend!

OMGSDHGJABNSM

So when my niece wore dog ears to school it was "cute" and "quirky" but when I wear them to work

Rabbits and triangles🐇

why are you so sweet (and hot) and I (74M) was recently hit by a car (2014 Honda) and died. My wife (5F) organized me a funeral (cost $2747) without asking me (74M) at all. I (74M) was unable to make it because I (74M) was dead (17 days). At the funeral I heard my dad (15M) and other family members talking about how they wish I could be there and now I feel bad for not showing up. AITA?

YTA I don't understand why you can't even do the bare minimum of showing up. Men these days are so lazy and incompetent. At least the Honda was an active contributing member of society by putting itself out there. This is why you should date me instead.