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environment paintings for the Portland Collective show, about the feeling that comes before you enter a portal.
Finally got Animal Crossing: New Leaf. Brewster is still my fav. :)
itâs a vow we make to each other; letâs wear rings of the same colourÂ
[image is a digital painting of riku, kairi, and sora getting married, all clutching starry bouquets and with matching expressions of joy and delight. kairi is jumping with her arms around her boysâ shoulders, holding her bouquet over her head; her dress is pink, with a wave pattern. sora is a dark suit with a red bowtie and cloud patterns on his lapels. riku is in a silver suit with a blue tie, and heâs reaching around the both of them to clasp soraâs shoulder.]
Welp, time to actually learn dutch and return to the motherland.
It is important that anybody new to vocaloid or even veteran fans understand something VERY important:
Specifically using Rolling Girl as an example because the producer, Wowaka, stopped making music with vocaloid because he wasn't being credited for his work. Nobody recognized his music as HIS music. It was all "Miku's music".
So please, if you plan on saying who the song is by, do not say the song was by Miku or Rin or whoever is singing, take the few seconds it takes to look up the song's producer and give them the credit they deserve.
âGet a rat and put it in a cage and give it two water bottles. One is just water, and one is water laced with either heroin or cocaine. If you do that, the rat will almost always prefer the drugged water and almost always kill itself very quickly, right, within a couple of weeks. So there you go. Itâs our theory of addiction. Bruce comes along in the â70s and said, âWell, hang on a minute. Weâre putting the rat in an empty cage. Itâs got nothing to do. Letâs try this a little bit differently.â So Bruce built Rat Park, and Rat Park is like heaven for rats. Everything your rat about town could want, itâs got in Rat Park. Itâs got lovely food. Itâs got sex. Itâs got loads of other rats to be friends with. Itâs got loads of colored balls. Everything your rat could want. And theyâve got both the water bottles. Theyâve got the drugged water and the normal water. But hereâs the fascinating thing. In Rat Park, they donât like the drugged water. They hardly use any of it. None of them ever overdose. None of them ever use in a way that looks like compulsion or addiction. Thereâs a really interesting human example Iâll tell you about in a minute, but what Bruce says is that shows that both the right-wing and left-wing theories of addiction are wrong. So the right-wing theory is itâs a moral failing, youâre a hedonist, you party too hard. The left-wing theory is it takes you over, your brain is hijacked. Bruce says itâs not your morality, itâs not your brain; itâs your cage. Addiction is largely an adaptation to your environment. [âŠ] Weâve created a society where significant numbers of our fellow citizens cannot bear to be present in their lives without being drugged, right? Weâve created a hyperconsumerist, hyperindividualist, isolated world that is, for a lot of people, much more like that first cage than it is like the bonded, connected cages that we need. The opposite of addiction is not sobriety. The opposite of addiction is connection. And our whole society, the engine of our society, is geared towards making us connect with things. If you are not a good consumer capitalist citizen, if youâre spending your time bonding with the people around you and not buying stuffâin fact, we are trained from a very young age to focus our hopes and our dreams and our ambitions on things we can buy and consume. And drug addiction is really a subset of that.â
â Johann Hari, Does Capitalism Drive Drug Addiction?
Hi, I know you canât share the letters for ethical reasons, but could you share some tips on how to write effective fuck you letters? It sounds like a useful skill to have.
Oh absolutely. So a fuck you letter should always be in response to an inciting action from another party. We donât write âfuck youâ letters unprompted, we write them to illicit a specific âoh shit, Iâve fucked upâ reaction from the recipient. Furthermore, the inciting action on the part of the other party ideally has to be wrong. Now, when I say wrong, I really mean two things: 1) that it would incense a reasonable person, and 2) that itâs the type of action that people can get in trouble for.
So, Iâm going to make a example up to demonstrate. This example has literally nothing to do with the type of letters I write, but I think it illustrates my process. Say you live in a neighborhood that has a Homeownerâs Association, but your house was built prior to the HOA forming and no owner of the house, including you, has ever agreed to join. You hung up a Pride flag on your porch last June, which is unremarkable, as many houses have flags displayed on their front porch; some are purely decorative, others convey meanings, like your neighborâs Blue Lives Matter flag, or your other neighborâs Build the Wall flag. The day after hanging the flag, you go on vacation for a week. When you return, you find that your Pride flag is missing, and you also find a letter in the mail from the HOA stating that you have 24 hours to remove the flag or it will be removed and you will be billed for the cost of its removal. You have, furthermore, recieved a bill for 200 dollars for the expenses incurred by the HOA in removing your flag.
Okay, so we obviously have our wrong act. So now weâre onto Stage Two, and this is the most important stage, Fact Gathering and Research. The obvious move is to find proof that the HOA had no right to enter your land or remove your property, and naturally weâll do that as the very first thing, but really, is that going to make them sweat? We want them to sweat. So, letâs find news articles about other times this HOA or other HOAs in this neighborhood have entered someoneâs property and removed or materially altered the property. Letâs find out what happened to them - were they sued? How much did they get hit for? Was there a ton of negative publicity? How did that impact housing prices?
Even though youâre not a member of the HOW, can you get a copy of the bylaws and see what they say about decorations outside homes that are part of the HOA? Is there a rule against displaying all flags? How about the neighbors? Have any of them recieved demands to take their flags down?
How about researching the demographics of the neighborhood? Do any gay couples live there? Have any gay couples applied and been denied housing there? Does the jurisdiction you live in have a law against discriminating against housing applicants due to sexual orientation? Has anyone ever complained that the HOA has acted in a discriminatory fashion against them because theyâre gay? What penalties are available in your jurisdiction if that were the case? Are any of those complaints still pending, and could the complainants use the HOAâs act of removing your flag as proof of discriminatory intent?
What about the bill for $200? How was it calculated? Was it based on the time it took to remove the flag? Did it actually take that amount of time? Do you or your neighbors have a video doorbell that might have captured the removal of the flag? Who actually removed the flag? Did they say anything while removing it that might bolster your argument that the HOA acted with the intent to discriminate against gay people?
How about your own property? Did anything get damaged in the course of the flagâs removal? How much was the flag worth? How much was the property damage worth? Have you spent money related to this incident?
Once youâre done with your fact gathering and research, youâre onto stage 3, which is organizing the letter. So, you line up everything youâve figured out, and arrange it from âleast scary to the HOAâ to âpants shittingly terrifying for the HOA.â Letâs say here, least scary is probaby âthe cost to replace your flagâ and most scary is âthe prospect of a ton of lawsuits from other people who have been discriminated against and the prospect of publicity that will cause every HOA associated homeâs property value to tank,â with a bunch of other stuff in the middle. Start with establishing that youâre not subject to HOA rules, and then walk them, sentence by sentence, step by step, through just how badly theyâve fucked up, and the bad outcomes they can expect in response to their fuck up.
Finish by telling them who else youâre copying on the letter, if it makes strategic sense to do so and will result in a better outcome for everyone thatâs been wronged. In this case, you might think about a variety of gay friendly organizations, local news media, and governmental representatives. Wrap it up by asking them to provide you with a list of the actions that they intend to take to repair the damage that theyâve done to you and to the community within, say, fourteen days, so that you can give that to your attorney in order to help you consider how best to respond to their actions.
End with the most brutally infuriating sentence known to man: âThank you for your kind attention to this issue.â
Youâll sleep like a baby once that letterâs in the mail.
They wonât.