Y'all, I Have A Boyfriend Now (〃ﾉωﾉ)

Cw: talk of trauma + trauma dysphoria + kinda long lol

I did not feel comfortable reblogging this person at all.

- Melody[host]

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[This is more tri-harmed thing at first but I do bring up, full trans-harmed things like no trauma at all.

Also these feelings I'm talking about is for me and not for everyone]

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I actually want to feel this /srs /gen

I'm already traumatized but it isn't enough? People always and will forever undermine my [cis]trauma, and my [cis]trauma is already unseen or not as important and I've internalized this for so long that words of reassurment doesn't help.

My dysphoria gets to me so bad and if this is the only way to be valid is to live ashamed, uncomfortable, emotionally unstable and with nightmares I would do it, no questions asked, the only way I can be valid if I go through my trans-trauma.

But also identifying as my trans-trauma is kinda euphoric because if not all then most trans things are valid.

Also, not all people's trauma responses is like this, that's stereotypical responses[not saying if you have stereotypical responses you're invalid, you are completely valid <3], there a different responses to trauma.

Also I would feel special if I did go through my trans-trauma.

And then people with absolute NO trauma, maybe not all but I know some of them just want trauma because it's the only way for them to be seen or heard because people make trauma a competition and badges.

So if you actually feel that strongly about this, then let's go to the root issue and stop the glamorization of trauma, stop saying one trauma is worse then the other, stop making people feel special for their trauma, stop blaming people for feeling like they need more trauma as a result of trauma and then already invalid feeling people seeing other people get seen and heard while their unseen especially if they dont have a 'normal/big trauma/'everyone has it''/mainstream trauma, make ALL trauma seen, stop it all <3

But you won't. and you'll continue blaming it on rq's and transx's even though most of the time their trying to cope from society's doings.

And since you and most people won't try to stop or spread awareness to the main root of this all + it's already too far in how society and people see trauma/not normalized/not seen trauma for it to be reversed, transharmed people will always and will continue to use these labels to cope, for fun, and ect.

And you'll continue blaming them when it's not their faults.

[Also reminder not all transharmed's feel this wayz this is just my take on it]

- Melody [host]

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[Off topic/short talk about my tri-harmed-ness]

Also I might just refer all my cis-harmed ids as trans-harmed ids, idk why but it makes me feel better, when I don't refer it as my cis-trauma, makes me feel normal or something, like I said before I have contradictory feeling and in contradictory to myself lol (-ω-｡).

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shiftid !!

when someone identifies as something due to being it in their dr (desired reality) :3

trauma is NOT an excuse for harassment and censorship *logs out*

— idenlock

when an individual still identifies/feels connected to a term because they have identified with it before !

— ex : identify / feel connected as gay even if that term no longer fits you !

— i will make specific versions later !

"we shouldn't normalize writing about rape, age gap, or other illegal things!"

Then we should normalize not writing stuff about murder, child abuse, etc.

"that's different-"

No it's not! murder is illegal, so is stuff like child abuse, so we shouldn't talk about it and put it in any type of Media.

"I'm just saying that because that type of media could make people think that stuff is okay irl!"

Then ban all horror movies. I mean really don't want people going on murder springs, do we?

"but-"

We should also get rid of violent video games. Because we don't want real people to get violent. Right?

"..."

Do you hear yourself buddy? If people like watching horror movies that doesn't make them support murder, That's the same if people like reading about rape does it mean that they support actual rape.

I'm out this bitch ✌🏾 (I'm also tired as shit! So excuse my wording..)

˗ˏˋʚ My Otherkins ɞˎˊ˗

Characters version

˗ˏˋʚ Mlp ɞˎˊ˗

ᯓ★ MaudPie

ᯓ★ Rarity

ᯓ★ Derpy

ᯓ★ FlutterShy

ᯓ★ Pinkie Pie

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˗ˏˋʚ Twd ɞˎˊ˗

ᯓ★ Carl

ᯓ★ Lydia

ᯓ★ Sophia

ᯓ★ Judith

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˗ˏˋʚ Beastars ɞˎˊ˗

ᯓ★ Legoshi

ᯓ★ Haru

ᯓ★ Juno

ᯓ★ Loui

ᯓ★ Tim

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˗ˏˋʚ Httyd ɞˎˊ˗

ᯓ★ Snotlout

ᯓ★ Ruffnut/Tuffnut

ᯓ★ Dagur

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˗ˏˋʚ Other/Ect ɞˎˊ˗

ᯓ★ Verosika °•° helluva boss

ᯓ★ Glinda °•° wicked

ᯓ★ Flutter °•° Dandys world

ᯓ★ Toodles °•° Dandys world

ᯓ★ Shrimpo(?) °•° Dandys world

ᯓ★ Colten °•° Animal Crossing

ᯓ★ Rodeo °•° Animal crossing

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ᯓ★ Yuki °•° Vampire knight

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Yayyy !! I'm so happy for youuu, Idk you but I'm happy for you !! ((o(^∇^)o))

Oh my god Charlie (penguinz0) read our superchats <3 I’m so happy I love him smmmmmm

Bacterial contamination (^ー^)

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ATTENTION

If you see this you are OBLIGATED to reblog w/ the song currently stuck in your head :)

Know so many people have probably said this but, Something that will always make me giggle is how most antis talk about how they’re “supporting victims” and such then send death threats and dox a teenager for coping in a way **THEY** find icky, and also prioritize the safety of a fictional charater then a real ass person who went thru real ass shit.

Exactly here's a prime example ☝🏽

Here's another anti who thinks it's okay to imagine a child being abused as long as I a proshipper

Antis are EVIL

Guys. I think this might be me(or transplural, I can't decide yet) (*^▽^)/★*☆♪ /srs

Coining Post!! 🔗👥 Multiself / Multiselves !!

Definition ::

Multiself is an umbrella term for any singlet/singlet adjacent being that experiences multiple identities/selves. The term also applies to individual sysmates that share the experience, provided the sysmate/s in question identify as multiself independently from the rest of the collective.

Mulitself beings may or may not "switch" between selves, though multiself is explicitly separate from the plurality spectrum and does not describe multiple consciousnesses/distinct people. However it's important to note that SOME parasian/plurallet experiences may fall under the multiself umbrella

• You can identify as both transplural/transmedian and multiself at the same time, in the same way that you can identify as a both a boy and a girl at the same time. Trans identity is very complex, and often paradoxical in nature

• Generally switches are amnesia free and voluntary, but this is definitely more of a guideline than a hard and fast rule. (I myself have light amnesia, and experience "switches" more as kinshifts rather than a conscious choice.)

• Multiself is inherently tied to transid, in the sense that selves have their own distinct sets of transids. Though notably, the amount in which the selves differentiate depends on the individual. On one end of the spectrum, one's selves may be extremely different in name, appearance, age, race, gender etc. On the other end of the spectrum, one's selves may be entirely identical except for each selves trans/trispersonality ids

Language ::

(Note: this is general language for the umbrella term, and may not be applicable to more specific labels that fall underneath it)

Shift (verb): The experience of changing selves

"I'm shifting into Mallory"

Form (verb): The experience of forming new selves

"I formed Riley yesterday"

Mindset (noun): The term used to describe which self you currently identify as

"I'm in Monty and Jamie's mindset right now"

Primary self (noun): The self you most commonly identify as

"I'm in Darce's mindset most often, they're my primary self"

Selves are not separate consciousnesses, though we/us language is also acceptable if you feel more comfortable using it. If you wish to refer to all your selves at once, but want to avoid being mistaken for a system, you could simply say "my selves", or "my cluster"

Flag colours ::

Those that choose to have multiselves: dark pink

Those that do not choose to have multiselves: light pink

Those that experience their selves as being "alter egos" for the main self: grey

Those that are at their core consciousness, experiencing selves that are all equally them: white

Those that have fluid selves, in any sense: lilac

Those that have static selves: light blue

Distinction from plurality: dark blue

Why was this coined?

This label was a reaction to segreID. At first glance the two terms seem very similar, but there are some key differences such as my far laxer approach to including those that identify with some form of plurality. This label is not meant to act as a recoin, nor is it meant to "out-inclusive" the segreID coiner, vampi-rq.

I wanted to create a less specific term that would include me, and anyone else that shared the majority of my experiences

While there is conflict between me and vampi-rq, I still have a lot of appreciation and respect their term and how it was intended to be used. The multiself label is personal to me, and it was born out of respect for the segreID definition rather than in spite of it. SegreID exists to describe a much more specific experience, and it's one that simply doesn't apply to me, which I'm fine with

All thumbs are fingers, but not all fingers are thumbs

While by definition segreID does happen to fall under the multiself umbrella, that does not mean that 100% of the things described here apply to it. Vampi-rq has been explicit about what is and is not segreID. I encourage you to do your research and pick the appropriate label for what you're experiencing. The multiself label is intentionally very vague and nonspecific