I Can Feel…the Serotonin And Dopamine Dropping…i Need To Make…Crafts

In case you didn't know, I had the honor of designing Tumblr's spooky new app logo

my official stance is a pregnancy is whatever the pregnant person wants it to be. if it’s a 4 week old clump of cells and they want to call it a baby it’s a baby. if they're 20 weeks and they want to call it a parasite it’s a parasite. if they're 39 weeks and call it a fetus it’s a fetus. “why are you so sad about miscarrying at 6 weeks it was literally just an embryo” because that was their baby. “how can you get an abortion at three months” because that wasn’t a baby. hope that helps.

feeling like my minds wiped

(he looks more like your type)

if i leave you tonight, will you leave your eyes wide?

bet he didnt think first when he did a crowd surf

effortlessly expert (attention grabber)

dont usually cry, but looks like thats over

i start to lose sight of myself and i wish i could shut it

wish i could shut it

OFF

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no im

not alright

but i dont need comfort

i dont want to taAAAaalk

so could you tell me that its over?

tell me that its over!

tell me that its over, now?

then i could shut this oooffffff (woah)

every week there is some kind of laundry. sick of it

i really want to change my pfp but its also been the same for three years and jm oddly attached

A recently published study by John Pachankis and Mark Hatzenbuehler has substantiated what’s called the “Best Little Girl in the World” hypothesis, first put forward in 1973 in a book by Andrew Tobias, then writing under a pseudonym. It’s the idea that young, closeted women deflect attention from their sexuality by investing in recognized markers of success: good grades, athletic achievement, elite employment and so on. Overcompensating in competitive arenas affords these women a sense of self-worth that their concealment diminishes.

…Deriving self-worth from achievement-related domains, like Ivy League admissions, is a common strategy among closeted women seeking to maintain self-esteem while hiding their stigma. The strategy is an effort to compensate for romantic isolation and countless suppressed enthusiasms. And it requires time-consuming study and practice, which conveniently provide an excuse for not dating.

Best of all, it distracts: “What love life? Look at my report card!”

…But the study does show that the longer a young woman conceals her sexual orientation, the more heavily she invests in external measures of success, potentially leading to undue stress and social isolation

Another of the study’s findings is that girls who grow up in more stigmatizing environments are more likely to seek self-worth through competition. I spent my first 18 years in a rural, religious town in North Carolina, a state that recently passed a constitutional amendment barring same-sex unions by a wide margin. Now here I am, a metal detector scanning for golden prizes. That’s no coincidence, the research suggests.

college is so fun because what do you mean the top floor of parking garages causes panic attacks

Reblog this if you slept with my ex-wife Susan.

Trying to prove a point to my divorce lawyer.