Definitely a learned lesson.
My wife loves being the hot blonde slut and is far more turned-on before her dates now than nervous.
Even though by that point I had been sharing Naomi with guys for a while and her absolutely loving it, it took a little convincing for her to accept and then take to my string suggestions for her to seek guys she thought were hot and sexy. After a little while she did start telling about guys that she was thinking about and turned on with. I always encouraged then told her that I expected her to be fucking guys. She was apprehensive, nervous and felt guilty the first few times, but then it became more of a very sexy and recurring thing.