All of the little extra kinks just make it hotter.
There definitely have been times, generally with a new guy and always with a black guy that just loves fucking my hot blonde slut. I always tell Naomi to makes to the tell them that they can fuck her anytime they want. I've also arranged with a couple different new guys to fuck her 3 nights in a row.
I do enjoy both, but moreso to have her bendover as she looks me in the eyes, to be taken from behind before sucking my cock.
My wife doesn't wear those or a bra on her dates. And yes, the guys love it and she feels even sexier.