in the loass community, "ignoring" the 3D is a very common phrase, but i find that this often leads to confusion and stress. i think that a much better phrase for it is "dismissing the 3D."
your subconscious responds to feelings. your subconscious doesn't have eyes; it cannot see your 3D. and your thoughts (dominant or not) do not manifest. your subconscious mind doesn't care what your conscious mind is thinking: it cares about your state.
your 3D is a manifestation of your previous state. your 3D doesn't look the way it does right now because of any thoughts you've had, it looks that way because it is reflecting your dwelling state. so how do you change your 3D? by changing your dwelling state.
you don't need to ignore your 3D, you need to dismiss it.
an example i'm going to use is one i've been getting a lot of questions about: you're living in your parents house in the 3D, but you're manifesting moving into your own place. how do you ignore the 3D?
you wake up in your old bed every day, in your old bedroom. you go to your old bathroom and take a shower in your old shower. you go to your old kitchen and do your old dishes and eat your old food. your parents talk to you and tell you you need to clean your old house. you sit down for family dinner at your old dining room table and talk about the things you did in your old house that day. then you sit down with your parents on your old couch and watch a movie on your old tv before going to sleep in your old bed in your old bedroom.
how are you supposed to ignore the 3D when you are constantly witnessing it? how are you supposed to not think about your current 3D when you are constantly dealing with it?
because you don't need to ignore your 3D, you need to dismiss it.
as i mentioned earlier, your subconscious is blind. your thoughts don't manifest. neither of these things are going to effect your manifestation. the only thing that will effect your manifestation is your state.
let's take a little detour to talk about the inner man (i promise it's relevant)
what is the inner man? it's YOU. it's who you identify as, and it's who you are in your imagination. so when you imagine something, you are giving whatever you imagine to your inner man. your inner man is experiencing your 4D.
your outer man is the YOU who is experiencing your 3D. your outer man lives in your outer world, and your inner man lives in your inner world. however, there is no separation between your inner man and your outer man.
as Neville says, "where I shall go in imagination, I shall go in the flesh as well." you must give your inner man your desire first in your inner world, and then your outer world will follow. you cannot skip step one.
this is what i like to do: i give myself my manifestation in my imagination. still using the above example, we'll simply say "there. my inner man lives in my desired apartment right now."
now my inner man is living in my desired apartment. i made a little post about how i like to view my inner man as a little, doll-like version of myself inside of me, but it is not actually separate from you. my favorite way of dismissing is the 3D and shifting myself back to my desired state when something in my 3D shakes me is by reminding myself that my inner man already is/has what i want to be/have.
so, still using the same example, if i were to feel myself slip out of my desired state while manifesting my dream apartment--say that i was dwelling in the fact that in my 3D, i have to do chores at my parent's house--i'd remind myself that my inner man is already living in my dream apartment and that nothing i see or do in my 3D can change that.
there is a difference between dealing with your 3D and identifying with your 3D. in the example i just gave, i could've allowed my actions in the 3D--doing chores--tell me that my desire was never going to manifest because my 3D was showing me the opposite. i could've let myself dwell in the state of lack. instead, we recognized the 3D for what it is: a reflection of our previous dwelling state.
there's this comment i read on the Neville Godard subreddit that I really loved. it said: "the best advice i can give you is stop worrying about what your subconscious is going to think of what you're doing."
your assumptions manifest. what you do in your 3D is completely irrelevant unless you identify with it. your subconscious is not gonna see you doing chores at your parent's house and think that that means you don't live in your desired apartment. your subconscious mind doesn't have it's own opinions or ideas on what things in your 3D mean.
for example, say you wash your face and do your skincare every night, yet you are still dwelling in the state of having bad skin. which is going to manifest? your state, every single time. it's why that skincare product that everyone under the sun said helped clear their skin didn't work for you: you assumed it wouldn't.
if you negatively react to your 3D, that is an indicator you fell out of the state of the wish fulfilled. shift back to it, and then continue taking care of business. you're going to notice your 3D no matter what you do. your only job is to dismiss it, because you know it's not your true reality.
keep reminding yourself that your inner man already has your desire, and you're just chilling in your current 3D--no matter how opposite of the 4D it appears--until it catches up. your 3D is not permanent. you don't have to accept it as true.
the goal isn’t to ignore your 3D, it’s to let it pass without worrying about it.
an analogy that i read that i really liked was this: say you're in a disagreement with someone. they keep telling you that a song is sung by a specific artist, but you know for a FACT that it's actually sung by someone else. no matter what, they won't believe that you're right, and they're actually trying to convince YOU that THEY'RE right. but this is literally your favorite song, you know for a FACT who it's sung by, and it's not the person that they're saying. do you let them convince you that you're wrong, or do you stand firm in your belief?
that's how you should act in regards to your 3D. you know that you have your desire in your 4D. i mean, it's YOUR imagination and YOU'RE in control of it! you can have whatever you want in your own imagination! so are you gonna let your 3D tell you that you don't have your desire in your imagination? or are you gonna stand firm in the belief that you have your desire in your 4D?
that's all you need to do. you don't need to believe that you have your desire in your 3D, you just need to believe that you have your desire in your imagination. and YOU can control your imagination, so this should be super easy. give your desire to you inner man, and as long as you stay faithful to the fact that your inner man has your desire, your 3D will reflect this.
I'm sorry but I will never ever use goon as slang for a guy who jacks off a lot or whatever it apparently means now. A goon is a guy in a clown mask and purple tank top who sees a caped crusader swooping down to beat up him and his buddies and yells "IT'S DA FREAKIN' BAT!" and I will accept nothing else.
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a longer much more detailed vers of this will be out soon! (once i'm through my regularly scheduled bout of executive dysfunction!) REMINDERS: - THOUGHTS ARE JUST THAT -> THOUGHTS. NOTHING ELSE! STOP GIVING YOUR THOUGHTS SO MUCH POWER BBY! <3 - IT'S OKAY TO FEEL! IN FACT LET YOURSELF SPIRAL AND CRY! HOW CAN THAT TAKE AWAY SOMETHING YOU ALREADY HAVE??
what tf is even a state kaeya?
states = who you are being, identifying yourself as or to put it simply -> the mindset if u already had what u wanted and NO you don't need to stay in the state 24/7 (that creates a more fearful state in itself)
states can also be considered your perceptions as well as how you're observing the world around you!
how do you put yourself into the state?
just decide, that's it. just decide that you have it bc u do in ur imagination (which is ur real reality) and u don't have to do anything bc each state comes w it's own self concept, beliefs, assumptions and experiences.
what if you fall out of it?
it's okay! you did nothing wrong! just self soothe via eft tapping, meditating, whatever u want and just get back on it, it's not gonna just magically poof away bc u fell outta the state key here is stability - focus on stabilizing urself by trying to relax however that might be and then just hop back on! <3
How do you know you're out of the state kaeya?
you may be checking the 3d, worrying, or having opposing thoughts, you might feel generally anxious or just might not feel like you can control the 3D. again, THOUGHTS ARE THOUGHTS (as I explained above). they are NOT what manifests, IT IS YOUR STATE THAT DOES! they have no power over you unless you give them power and you don't give them the power to do so since u create your own reality!
don't identify (accept them as true) & let them pass. since your state manifests, a few random ass thoughts that you don't accept as true and your identity can't manifest! HOW? how can they manifest when 1. you haven't identified those random thoughts to be fact and 2. you identify with what you already WANT/HAVE!
TO GET BACK INTO THE STATE: intend (set the intention of going back or wanting to go back into the state of the wish fulfilled) and decide you're back into it again!
what if I spiral? have opposing thoughts? cry??
how.. is that gonna affect ur state? how will that affect ur identity? ur still the person that has it/god of ur reality and spiraling and all that doesn't do anything because you decide that it doesn't + emotions don't manifest because you've decided that you have it already as a fact! how is salt water gonna affect it babes? ✩ KEY TIP: if you're someone who has been affected with trauma, is ND, has mental health issues -> PLEASE be gentle with yourself and let yourself feel!
feelings??
feelings does NOT = emotions
feeling = accepting ur desire as yours
feeling is just knowing that it's already yours and living it! it's natural!
and if you feel like you're not "desiring" your desire -> the reason u may feel like you've stopped "desiring it" is because it feels natural to u now! let's say u wanted to buy something you've wanted for a while now, u bought it and that "spark" stays with u for about a week, afterwards u won't feel like that bc it's natural now!
and YES, you can use whatever the fuck method u want to get into the state, that depends on u and what makes u happy. hell, you could literally manifest by eating 2 bags of cheetos and thinking that it'll get you whatever you want because you decided and ASSUMED that it will. it's not abt the methods or the techniques, it's abt what you assume/decide
the whole thing about states = you already have it and identifying with having it
do I need to repeat affs? work on self concept? healing??
nope, would u be repeating affs if u already had it? would you have to work on sc if u already had it? and no you don't need to heal because if you already had it would you be worrying about ANY of that?
AND AGAIN, if you're someone who's gone through any of the factors I talked about from the key tip above and you think that doing any of those will HELP you and it makes you happy -> do it then babes, you're doing so well and I'm so proud of you <3
the 3d?
doesn't matter, never has and never will because the the 3d is just a reflection of ur 4d, it calms u down. when u live in having the desire already, it's done and u don't have to worry abt anything. it's a reflection of ur beliefs and who you are being.
you DO NOT and I repeat DO N O T have to do any methods to get into the state it's literally just deciding it's yours and that u have it and moving on w/ ur day bc it's already happened.
what if I have a bad day? weeks?
that's okay, that's genuinely okay. let yourself feel because ur always allowed to feel. don't ignore those, acknowledge them and instead of beating yourself up for it, give it some love and know that it's not gonna affect anything
why? bc if ur the god of ur reality, how will salt water and hours of being sad take away something u already have? you DECIDED that u have it so u have it period.
logic??
babes, when tf has logical thinking been a part of manifesting?? people have literally manifested wings and their cancers away (hell, I've manifested a penis even though i'm biologically female overnight)
logic doesn't affect god bc they override logic!
what if? how will it happen and when?
that's not your concern, god doesn't concern themselves over the how or the when when it's already done. it's not our job to mess with the middle, that's not living in the end/wish fulfilled. go to the end and go straight to it, that's it
you are the only operant power! only you! YOU CREATE! don't mess with the middle! if you wanna be married to sp, don't identify with getting proposed first, then the wedding, then the honeymoon if you're in that already then u don't have to worry abt the middle bc u have it -> just go straight into the state of being already married (bonus points if it's 3-4 months into the marriage)!
you can literally imagine a ring on your finger as well as well as things that conclude that you two are ALREADY married!
so yeah, just don't worry abt opposing thoughts and all that because you don't identify w it since ur living in your new life already.
I'M WRITING A SCRIPT AND I'M AT THAT PART OF THE SCRIPT AND I JUST FEEL SO ICKY AND CRINGEY AYGGHHHHHh
how do people write script their relationships without flinging themselves out a window??
IM NOT EVEN SCRIPTING ANYTHING GROSS I JUST FEEL SO ILLEGAL RIGHT NOW
*trying to call a woman beautiful but i've forgotten how to engage other humans in conversation* girl, you remind me of architecture
Minecraft movie trailer was just a bad dream.