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I’m getting evicted and i have nowhere to go. This is an emergency.

If i dont come up with over 1000$ because of the security deposit and back rent, i get evicted at the end of march. I need to get that money to them in just a week. Even if i can do it in chunks i would get evicted because they’re not working with me for a payment plan anymore.

My boss wasnt paying me for the hours i worked for a while, she cut my hours all of a sudden, i used to be full time now i have 8 hours this week.

Ive been frantically searching for jobs and doing side work.

Ive even been selling my body because its quick money but it’s really just gone to food because not enough people in my area want someone like me.

Ive been trying to sell my paintings but etsy needs requirements i can’t afford and i don’t know where else to sell them where i dont have to pay an up front cost.

Hell, the homeless guy who lives by my work has been giving me food because he knows i can’t eat.

If you can help me out please im desperate. If not, reblog this, share it to other social medias, please.

My paypal is paypal.me/transmandragqueen and my cashapp is $transmandragqueen and if you want to buy a painting message me ill make another post later with all the pics of the paintings for sale.

But please please help me i dont know what to do i dont have any other options. I dont have anyone to help me, i cant afford a loan, i cant even live out of my car because it keeps breaking down.

Im just hoping im not too late.

Please please help me out. Anything helps. Please share this if you cant donate. And feel free to share it everywhere.

Paypal.me/transmandragqueen

Cashapp $transmandragqueen

RIP Luke Perry

I do!🌸

Open relationships seem to be becoming more popular which is cool, but this should be kept in mind:

If your partner is allowed to flirt and mess around with other people, and you’re not, you’re not in an open relationship. You’re being strung along, manipulated, and emotionally abused by someone who wants to do what they want on their terms, and control you at the same time.

Get out.

bi / pan people!!!!!!!!!!!

I envy writers.

As an artist I can give you a snapshot into a world.

But a writer.

A writer can take you there.

They can weave together words and create a portal to anywhere. You can visit those places instead of looking out a window and wishing to be a part of it.

I envy writers.

If dark skin doesn’t fit your ‘aesthetic’, rethink your ideals. 

I do my best to remain fairly positive on my blog and regarding content creation, but I just need a small moment to be less-then-together, but I’ll spare you by keeping it under the cut:

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oh my god i really don’t wanna be the person to do this because i love uptown funk but it’s actually really really problematic…. like it’s awful and idk I feel so bad for liking it. I can’t really explain it that well but here is a detailed explanation. idk why we can’t just have nice things

full offense but cis people dont get to call us shemales and trannies and femboys and traps and “its”, and campaign to “drop the T” in LGBT and deprive trans people of resources and beat the shit out of us in bathrooms and make fun of us for having “baby faces” and strip us of our rights and murder us for being trans and joke about how we “identify as an apache attack helicopter”, only to turn around and call themselves “allies” when they police OUR identities, just because they call themselves “cis transmeds”! i cant!! im not fucking allowing it!!!

Dear young black kids

Don’t let your white friends get you in trouble.

Representation Matters

other people’s opinions do not define you 

Reblog If You Can Take Off Your Bra Without Taking Your Shirt Off.

hey btw if ur transphobic don’t interact with my blog. we support trans people here

I simply remember my favorite things, and then I don’t feel so bad. http://instagram.com/littlebodybigheart

⭐️PRETTY PLEASE LIKE OR REPOST IF YOU USE⭐️

“Reblog if you feel The Hate U Give deserved better this awards season.”

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The Truth of BuzzFeed’s Grindr BBQ

The Buzzfeed article was titled “This Man Invited People To A “BBQ Not Orgy” On Grindr And It Was Surprisingly Heartwarming.” It’s about how Chris Bowman, a 61 year old man from Apex, North Carolina has been hosting an annual summer BBQ. He advertises this BBQ through the gay dating/hookup app, Grindr. It’s about how the event is surprisingly sweet and Bowman, who is a recovered alcoholic, wants to give back to the community and bring people together.

TL;DR Chris is a registered sex offender with a history of pedophilia and preying on young people. His ‘not an orgy’ and community talk is a gaslighting tactic to groom young people into having sex with him. Buzzfeed, Vice, and other social media outlets giving his event a platform endangers LGBT youth.

Buzzfeed Link: Click Here

Time for the real shit. Buckle UP.

A group of four of us (J, M, S, and A) attended the BBQ in the summer of 2017. J received an invite similar to the one shown in the Buzzfeed article over Grindr, and we’re young and dumb so we decided what the hell, let’s go. We rolled up and saw a fire truck and ambulance already there. He’d invited the local fire department and EMS to attend the BBQ. The food was admittedly very good, and the crowd was a strange mix of after-church and from Grindr. Most of the other folks at the BBQ seemed fine and kind. Buzzfeed got that right. Here is what they left out:

HE’S A SEX CRIMINAL

His page on the NC registry: Click Here

More information about his charges & appeal: Click Here

1997: Chris is giving Daniel, a 14 yo boy, a golf lesson. He locks the doors to the store and turns off the lights. He comes up behind Daniel under the impression of adjusting the child’s technique. He reaches down into Daniel’s underwear and molests him.

1998: Chris’s daughter has two friends over for a slumber party. They are sisters. When everyone is asleep, Jessica, a 15 yo girl, is walking down the stairs of his multi-level house. Chris approaches, pulls down her shorts, and performs oral sex on her. He stops when Jessica’s sister stumbles upon the scene.

2005: Chris provides his house as a location for two friends, a 24 yo and 18 yo, to have sex with their underage girlfriends, 14 yo and 15 yo.

He appealed his 2005 convictions that testimony from 1997 & 98 was inadmissible in the determination of guilt phase of his trial.

THE BBQ

Chris knew who we were and immediately inserted himself into our group. We figured, yeah we’ll talk with him a while—he gave us all this food, so we kind of have to (!!THIS IS HIS STRATEGY!!). Anyway, we listened to him talk about orgies, sex, golf, and drugs in Europe for about an hour. Topics he hit:

-        Orgies he’d attended in downtown Paris where you circled the arc de triumph in your car until forming a chain of other searching cars that would eventually peel off into a warehouse or somewhere to initiate the orgy. It’s cool you, should totally try it sometime! OKAY.

-        He talked a lot about how his favorite drug to use was Black Beauty

-        He talked a lot about how good the golfing was in Scotland (He molested a 14 yo boy in 1997 while teaching a golf lesson!)

-        He spent a lot of time trying to convince us to attend the “BBQ After Dark”

The heat was incredible that day and we were starting to get tired of his weird sex talk. Chris saw this and asked J what was wrong. J told him it was just kind of hot. Chris followed up by inviting J to go on and take his shirt off. J said no, he was fine. Chris said, “Oh no, come on! Take your shirt off! I’ll take my shirt off!” J ignored it. We were all uncomfortable. Throughout the ENTIRE event, Chris constantly reminded us about the after dark portion of the BBQ, which we were all very invited to. We had no plans of going, but kept our refusals soft and polite out of respect, because again, the BBQ is a tactic to make you treat him kinder and feel bad about thinking he’s creepy.

THE NEXT DAY

This was when the solicitations started. For the next year and a half until J deleted his Grindr last fall, Chris continued to send J messages trying to move things forward. He also tried to pick up A and S through J’s Grindr. He’s talked about how he’s really excited about the buzz the event has been getting and how he’s hoping the event will grow and grow. J hasn’t responded to the messages that have kept coming for over a year. Attached are a few screenshots.

CONCLUSION

We tried to contact Buzzfeed after the article was first published about how they had misrepresented the nature of the event. When they didn’t respond, we didn’t think it mattered too much. Maybe we were being too critical? The food was good… However, now that we are aware of Chris’s history of pedophilia, we want to make sure anyone who decides to attend knows what to expect.

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Anyone can help!

(Real pen the last picture)

It is important for EVERYONE to know how to help ANYONE. Not everyone can give them selves their medicine under every circumstance. Be educated, help out.

In the last year, i have gotten about five new violent allergies from foods i used to be able to eat. Next time i eat a fruit, my throat could close. I may not be able to inject myself. My boyfriend and i played with my trainer pen for like 30 minutes. He knows how to inject it. I know how. This is important.

I’m just going to leave this here…

i’m just here to have a good time and run a mediocre blog

Hey reblog this if you think Fallen Kingdom, the minecraft parody, is a piece of art that inspired an entire generation. I’m trying to prove a point.

Reblog if you’re bisexual, support bisexual people or are actually a bunch of tiny velociraptors in a human suit

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hope your pets stay healthy in 2017

IN 2019 WE HEAL + WE THRIVE