𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔰𝔬𝔫𝔤 𝔱𝔥𝔞𝔱 𝔠𝔥𝔞𝔫𝔤𝔢𝔡 𝔪𝔶 𝔟𝔯𝔞𝔦𝔫

Holly Black- The Stolen Heir

—Ursula K. Le Guin, from a 1988 interview, collected in Ursula K. Le Guin: The Last Interview: and Other Conversations (Melville House, 2019)

pissed off and wrote a poem

for anyone who comes across my blog,

it doesn’t matter what you’ve done, who you love, how you feel or identify.

I see you,

I’ll do what I can to guide you and help you,

I will be a safe place for you.

manifesting this for all my disabled friends.

get you a partner who loves you as much as walking canes love falling to the floor at every opportunity.

Advice for the younger ones on here!!

There’s a micro community on here and Tiktok that’ll show weight loss/hair loss/other unhealthy symptoms and claim it’s because “they’re in love” or that it’s “love stress”

IF YOU EVER experience this while in a relationship I urge you to leave that relationship (if you are not safe enough to leave alone please reach out to the DV hotline or SH hotline) that is not love that is quite literally your body shutting down due to the stress and trauma.

I fell victim to that narrative and ended up nearly being hospitalized.

I lost weight and was nearly put on a high protein diet because of it, I was dealing with menstrual bleeding for three months and even more serious symptoms.

The right, healthy person will not bring on those symptoms!!!