"Decide On What You Want,and Give It To Yourself"

Why Circumstances don’t matter

Just a little reminder that circumstances don’t matter. No matter how impossible something may seem to change, there is always a way. Even if you feel like you’re life is falling apart and you have eternal bad luck you can change that. Don’t fall into a victim of your circumstances.

People have manifested the craziest things even when they felt like it wouldn’t be possible. Which is why things like robotic affirming works.

If you want to manifest something by a certain date you can do it that. You can literally change your life around completely if you simply persisted.

So, even if you feel like the circumstances in your life seem impossible to change you have to realize that you are more powerful than your circumstances.

The moment you decide that you’re a millionaire you become a millionaire.

The moment you decide you’re a straight A student is the moment you become a straight A student.

The moment you decide you’re SP is madly in love with you is the moment they become madly in love with you.

Don’t go back and fourth saying you have something and then saying you don’t. You either have something or you don’t.

Even if the world around you is showing you otherwise you have to persist. It’s okay to feel negative emotions or feel like nothing is happening because that’s totally normal.

Negative emotions ≠ failed manifestation

Not affirming 24/7 ≠ failed manifestation

Reacting to the 3D ≠ failed manifestation

Don’t give your power away to things that don’t actually matter. You are more powerful than any circumstance or negative emotions or the past. Those things won’t effect your manifestations if you decide they don’t.

Jane Austen was really out there 200 years ago writing lines like “If I loved you less, I might be able to talk about it more” that to this day are still so swoon-worthy.

Here's a tip for anyone wavering,

Remember that at any moment in your doubt, you have the CHOICE to choose which reality you want, that's really what manifesting is all about- deciding something and persisting in the choice that you have it,So always dare to choose the one which favours you and your desire,

not against it.

Stop thinking there is something to do. YOU HAVE IT. JUST ENJOY THE INNER PEACE OF KNOWING ITS YOURS.

it doesn't matter where you came from, what matters is that you're here now.

one thing that really bugs me about spiritual communities in general (reality shifting, law of assumption, non dualism, etc.) is that a lot of people shame others for not understanding things or for believing in things that are limiting when they first start out. i mean, i understand the frustration - anons can ask a thousand questions that could be answered if they read pinned posts, and we all just want everyone to abandon their limiting beliefs and just get it.

but the fact is that we were born in a society that teaches us that we are limited and that some things are impossible, from the time that we are small until we find these teachings, and we are slowly undoing them through exploration and self-inquiry. it's an overwhelming and tricky journey, filled with so many beautiful highs and a lot of devastating lows, and i feel like everyone deserves a whole lot of compassion when searching for answers. i know i needed love and compassion when i first started, because my ego was scared and sad and was searching for answers in order to feel loved and secure. being told i was dumb and having someone be frustrated with me for my questions was the last thing i needed to become self-actualized. i know that everyone is different, but this is just my experience, so i wanted to share it.

my beliefs are constantly evolving into what brings me more peace and understanding. in the beginning, i wouldn't have been able to believe that my assumptions create my reality (law of assumption) if i hadn't been introduced to the idea of reality shifting. i wouldn't have understood the fact that this life is just beautiful dream and that my true Self is the dreamer (non dualism) if i hadn't first been able to separate my "imagination" from my "real life" (3D and 4D from law of assumption). these were all stepping stones in my understanding of the greater ideas that i needed to get to, and i feel no shame in formerly having beliefs or practices that i don't identify with anymore. i don't believe that you should have shame, either, regardless of where you are at in your journey of self-discovery and creative power.

i get so sad when i see bloggers shaming others for not understanding things when all of this is so fucking difficult to grasp when one is first starting out. i mean, we come from societies that have beliefs as foolish and damaging as skin colour making you inferior, or that gender is binary and you can't express yourself the way you feel inside. with beliefs such as these, of course the beliefs of anything being possible and the fictional being real are going to sound impossible and profoundly false. in my personal opinion, the tough love approach has never helped me - compassion and patience has. i feel like so many people believe and understand that we are all one and have a great understanding of the truth of things, and yet go around and are rude to those seeking answers. it just feels so pathetic to me to see bullying of those seeking answers when they're literally just an extension of the answerer. anons are showing up with silly questions because bloggers expect them to have silly questions. and i realize that even this is hypocritical of me to say because i could just choose to see a spiritual community full of love and compassion instead of what i'm seeing, but i still wanted to share this while i unravel my own hypocrisy.

i feel like if you are wanting to be a teacher of others, you have to take on the responsibility that being a teacher holds, which includes patience, patience, and more patience. that's just my own perspective at least, and everyone is welcome to have their own, but my favourite teachers have been ones that guide me to my own answers with patience and compassion. i am also profoundly sensitive and feel wilty when others are cruel to me, so maybe i'm just trying to speak out to those who feel similarly, because this is a post i wish i could have read when i first started my journey. ultimately, everyone can do, be, and say whatever they like - it's their own blog after all - but i just want to be a voice of compassion to anyone who is in the beginning stages of learning about the law of assumption, non dualism, or reality shifting. it all comes down to the same profound teachings that we are, at our core, limitless.

all of this is to say that i am proud of you. you are doing a good, great, amazing job. you are worthy of love and goodness in your life no matter what others may make you feel. you are worthy of the absolute best and nothing less. it is a hard journey at times, but it is a worthwhile journey, and you are brave and creative and beautiful for taking the steps to expand and give yourself the best life. you deserve compassion and love and patience, and i am rooting for you every step of the way. i hope you are rooting for yourself, too.

ultimately, it doesn't matter where you got your beliefs. what matters is: does it feel right to you? does it make you feel connected to your true, unlimited Self? does it open up your world and your heart to the endless possibilities available to you? does it give you peace? if so, it doesn't matter what practice or teaching you believe in. you are your own greatest teacher.

it doesn't matter where you came from, what beliefs you once held, or who you've been in the past. what matters is that you are here, learning and growing, learning how to give yourself the most beautiful experiences that your creative power has to offer. be kind to yourself and remember that we're all just trying to expand and love and open ourselves up.

This is your daily reminder to not get caught up in the sunk cost fallacy.

What is the sunk cost fallacy?

It is continuing a behavior because of previously invested resources (time, money, energy, effort).

If something is not working out for you anymore, stop doing it. Find something else to do. Don’t worry about how many year you’ve done it or how much money you’ve put into it. It doesn’t work anymore. It doesn’t make you happy.

You deserve better.

The realizations that led me to the god state:

The 3D is entirely malleable, everything can change with just a thought

The ego is the one that has doubts, not you. Realizing this and affirming it has helped me overcome my doubts in one night!!

The 4D is just as real if not more real than the 3D, and it is the link to your subconscious that causes the 3D to change! It is a real part of reality and experiencing it makes it real

When you imagine something in the 4D, it is instant, therefore manifestation is instant because you already have experienced what you want to

Basically, experiencing something and assuming something are the only direct ways to influence the subconscious mind. You can choose to focus on the 3D experience or the 4D experience - whichever you focus on WILL manifest in the 3D

You can decide to assume something. You can instantly change your thoughts. It can be difficult at first and it takes practice but once you have it down you will always have the power to do it again

Everyone has this power, including you and me. We start in different circumstances but we are really all at the same level of power, it just takes some people longer to realize it!

Nothing is impossible to the mind. All it's guidance and power are available to you. When you fully realize that thought causes all, you will know there are never any limits that you yourself do not impose.

—U.S. Andersen