This Was The Final Chapter Of My First Story Series. I Think I Used It To Try And Look At And Explore

Was treated to a blowjob earlier, can’t remember the last time she let me cum in her mouth without any complaint.

I’m not sure if it was because I’d asked her if she would let me blindfold her and use the “extra three inches” penis sleeve. I’m going to start soooooooo slowly and take my time with her tonight.

The Taboo of Male Chastity

Male chastity is one of those things that is often judged before being understood. Just the idea of locking a device onto a males sex organ, so he can’t get an erection or play with himself, often turns both genders off the idea.

It’s like looking in on a bdsm scene for the first time without any knowledge that it’s consensual and being creeped out. However, the taboo is created only out of misunderstanding of what it actually is, and what it actually does.

Male chastity, in it’s most basic sense, is abstinence. It’s just a device that aids a male to remain abstinent for his partner while giving her the authority to decide if and when his abstinence ends. 

So chastity combined with her authority, just makes abstinence more fun, it makes it something difficult to endure, resulting in much deeper intimacy.

It’s also something that trains him to overcome all of his lust, and focus his attention not on his selfish desires, but on hers. It makes chastity the perfect tool for developing a sex life that works both ways and creates a very satisfied female partner, and a very happy attentive male.

The honor system can work, but generally it takes a lot more work, and many more accidents along the way. Tease and denial without chastity is definitely possible, and can be a lot of fun.

However, chastity does add an extra dimension, because it is a device that is wrapped around his genitals, and grips him gently all day long, reminding him often of his sacrifice for her.

It serves to keep her on his mind, which makes him automatically more romantic, more chivalrous, kind, thoughtful, and overall, far less argumentative. His sexual release being conditional upon her approval, keeps him in constant devotion to her.  This can really show the difference between the honor system, and using chastity.

The idea that chastity is unsafe and unhygienic is often a concern that puts many off. When done right, and when fitted properly, a male can pee, and keep clean, with minimal removals.

This might take a bit of time to get used to, but the better the fit, or even a custom device, and hygiene is not a problem. Neither is safety, because once it fits right, it will not deter him from doing any activity, including swimming, going to the gym, or riding a bicycle.

One major concern is that it shrinks the penis over time.  This is a myth that can never be proven because the penis cannot shrink, just like it cannot be enlarged. The reason for this is because the penis is not a muscle, it is a sponge that fills with blood.

After a while in the cage, it gets used to only being able to fill with blood a small amount, and like a sponge, it conforms to the size it’s allowed. Many instances on the internet show a submissive’s penis getting progressively smaller using chastity. This is true only to the extent that he keeps wearing small devices and never allows for a full erection. 

Once the cage is removed, after a few days or weeks, the penis will naturally begin to grow back to its usual size. So yes, it can shrink it, but only if it’s never allowed to grow to its normal size.

Chastity is meant to be fun. It’s really not meant to be a method of sexual denial. It’s meant to be a tool that helps a male deny himself for her. Most males lack the self control, and after a few days, the temptation gets too great and results in gratification.

Chastity can really help with this, where the temptation is removed simply because the device reminds him that he’s not allowed to give in to temptation. It becomes a great tool for helping a male conquer lust and develop self control over his own sexual urges. This helps him become a better man, and have more respect for women in general, especially his partner.

Male chastity actually has a long history, and if you look back in time, men have used chastity for hundreds of years. They understood the power of sexual energy, and how it can be used for spiritual exploration, and enhancing and nourishing the physical body for endurance in all things.

Many athletes to this day practice abstinence and use their sexual energy to help them win over the competition. Men have also used chastity to bring sexual energy upwards through their body, to cleanse their body of negative energy and old habits, as well as to give themselves multiple, non-ejaculatory orgasms extending throughout their whole body.

There is a whole lot of men who can learn from their sexual energy when it’s directed in ways beyond ejaculation. Chastity teaches submissive males this, and it brings them much more in touch with their body, and as a result more in touch with their partners.

When a couple within a female led relationship can see beyond the taboos of male chastity and try it for themselves, then tend to never go back. There is a huge following now, a new trend that is rising, because of male chastity.

The benefits speak for themselves, and the more males come in touch with their bodies, the more they understand about their partner creating harmony. It’s worth trying, even for fun as an experiment, just to attempt to understand it.

Many males fear that going into chastity, and giving up that much control, means that sex will occur less often, but that’s not true at all. Chastity actually sexually charges the relationship, and helps her to develop her own desire, which is something few women ever do. To really explore her desire, and know it’s okay, guilt free, and encouraged by her partner to do so.

This sexual charge, combined with her desire, means there will likely be a lot more sex. It’ll just be a different kind of sex, which a submissive male will come to love.

He may not get let out of his cage each time, but he’s going to discover the true value of giving pleasure. It will cater directly to his submissive desire, which will bring him deeper into subspace, that alone will automatically be more powerful than a sexual release for him.

He will come to love that depth of subspace, through giving pleasure, far more than being released from it. It will make him crave to give pleasure even more.

Eventually he will reach a point where he craves to give pleasure, more than his own sexual release. He will feel naked without his chastity device on, as a symbol of his submission to her.

In the end that’s all chastity becomes, a symbol that he is dedicated to her, devoted to her, and loves her without any selfishness. It’s a beautiful symbol and many female led relationships have discovered it’s beauty, and have incorporated it into their lifestyle and never look back.

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I was trying to decide which cock cage to put on after being told to lock up when I decided to see which panties would go with which. Realised I have seven cages to pick from and my wife has bought me seven pairs of panties. She has also either bought me or helped choose at least three of the cages. Feeling so lucky and loved! And I can dress for every day of the week.

Before I bought my new cage the longest lock up we had managed was two weeks.

What a difference a well fitting metal cage can have. I’ve just spent my tenth night locked and it is still feeling comfortable.

My wife is being especially mean and sexy. I’ve been massaging her feet every night, playing with her hair, stroking her back and neck. She is telling me exactly what to do and is very firm when she says no!

Last time she made me wait a full 31 nights before I was unlocked, but she did let me hold and massage her breasts while she gave herself an orgasm. I’m hopeful she will do the same again soon.

Just thought I’d post a bit of one of my Literotica stories.

It’s an older one, and I remember the evening it was based on, but Claire always manages to take things that step further in the stories.

She excuses herself to change into something more comfortable, knowing exactly what she would be wearing when she returns.

He would be sat with a trashy TV programme on, a crime of the week thriller where models in lab coats solve impossible crimes in minutes, the light would be low as she makes her entrance, handing him a new drink, she would sit next to him and watch his reaction as he realises she is wearing only a black blazer style jacket, two buttons closed but stretched around her large belly, her round breasts spilling out and pushing the lapels apart above, the bottom barely covering the tops of her thick thighs.

Claire would lean forward towards her husband and share a slow kiss, their tongues chilled from the ice in their drinks, as she pulls away she moves her hand to his mouth and pushes two fingers past his lips and onto his tongue, leaning back and lifting one leg onto the couch, she lifts her knee high and leans backwards, exposes her cleanly shaved pussy to her husband, using her saliva wetted fingers she begins to slowly play with herself while he watches intently. Dipping her fingers into her pussy she again moves them to his mouth, , giving him a taste of her pussy. She repeats her touching and this time licks her fingers herself, enjoying her own sweet taste.

She reaches for the TV controller and presses play on the porn she had secretly set earlier, her husband had several porn films on DVD from before they had first met, she knew he would love that she had initiated watching one, maybe not realising though that her intention would be that he would not be watching much.

As the first scene started he was struggling for where to pay attention, Claire was lay back on the couch, breasts revealed, playing with her swollen nipples, legs spread, slowly pushing two fingers in and out of her open pussy, occasionally holding her fingers out for him to lick clean of her juices.

On the TV screen a large breasted blonde girl was sucking a long, hard cock, spitting on the head to make it wetter and allow her to take it deeper into her mouth. Claire was concentrating on the cock, imagining how it would feel in her hand, her mouth, her pussy. The buzz from the alcohol and her husband's attention allowing her to ignore the insecurities she would usually have felt, watching the attractive figures displayed onscreen and dipping her fingers into her wet hole.

She motions for her husband to move himself onto the floor and encourages him to position himself so his face is close to her exposed pussy, her lips spreading around her fingers as she continues to slide them slowly in and out, his attention is completely on her beautiful cunt as she begins to quietly describe to him what is happening on the film.

Telling her husband how big the cocks are and how they are being used. Teasing him as she watches and describes how two cocks penetrate and stretch a tight pussy, suggesting that maybe he should treat her to that experience, how she would love to have her pussy filled completely.

Claire pulls her husband's head towards her and then uses her fingers to pull her swollen, pink lips wide open. He needs no further invitation and starts to use his tongue to explore her, pushing deep inside then lapping around her hot hard clit. Claire makes encouraging noises and continues to describe the porn she is watching.

Before long she feels her orgasm start to build and tells her husband she is ready for him to fuck her. She positions herself so he is able to watch the porn as he fucks her doggy style, she frantically rubs at her clit to bring herself to a shaking orgasm and then relaxes, allowing him to take his time pumping his swollen cock in and out of her soaked pussy in time with the professionals.

As she feels he is about to cum she pulls away and turns over, pulling her jacket open as spurts of his hot cum land across her breasts and fat belly. She giggles and slowly rubs his seed into her flesh, smiling up at him. They kiss, then slowly disentangle, clear the living room and make their way upstairs. Her husband always says that it must be good sex if you need to shower afterwards.