every time you compare yourself to another person you lose your power and give it to others.
be aware of your own value
the value you give to others, give to yourself multiplied!
if there is something you don't like about yourself try to change it from compassion and self-love, don't judge yourself for it, we all have the ability to change
recognize that comparing yourself with other people is something negative and prevents you from growing and evolving
you are the main character of your life, no one else, that's why it doesn't matter if you "believe" that someone else is more handsome or smarter than you, it's not, it's you, because it's your life, think about this every time you compare yourself
recognize when these thoughts come to your mind and focus in turn on something positive, something good about your day or something you like about yourself
don't compare chapter 20 of a person with chapter 3 of your life
focus on learning and not comparing yourself
turn comparison into admiration
be aware of the damage you are doing to yourself when you do this
write down everything you like about yourself and everything you would like to have or be
practice self-love every day, treat yourself with love
focus on you and your growth not on what others do
focus on what you like about yourself and not on what you don't-
recognize that you are the main character of your life, the life you are living right now is only lived by you so it doesn't matter how other people are or how they live their life, it doesn't hurt you, focus on you and your growth, you are unique and valuable you don't have to be like anyone else
some ways to practice self-love ( i will write another post on this)
forgive yourself
take care of your physical and mental health
avoid toxic people
connect to your feminine energy and make rest a priority when you need it
use positive affirmations every day
talk to yourself and treat yourself with love
do things that make you proud of you
post that i recommend you if you found this one useful 🤍
*wistful sigh*
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ఌ my home life is surrounded with positivity and loving support
ఌ my home life is always so peaceful and serene
ఌ positivity and happiness flows throughout my house 24/7
ఌ all my family members are kind and caring
ఌ my family accepts and loves me for who i am
ఌ i am happy that i have a close and loving relationship with all members of my family
ఌ its weird my family is always in a good mood 24/7
ఌ my family always shows appreciation and love towards my presence in their lifws
ఌ i love my parents respect my personal space
ఌ it makes me smile how my family supports every one of my choices and decisions
ఌ everyone around me is so supportive
ఌ i love how i live with my family in such peace and harmony
ఌ i am living my ideal family life
ఌ i have an amazing and fulfilling family life
ఌ living with my family is so peaceful
ఌ i feel safe and secure around my family
ఌ i feel protected and comfortable within my household
ఌ i only attract positive circumstances and situations
ఌ i am free from physical, mental, and verbal abuse
ఌ i am immune to ever getting in an argument with my family ever again
ఌ all my family members are free from smoking, drug, and alcohol addictions
ఌ my family is free from all worries and stress
ఌ my family are all happy and healthy
ఌ all my family members are free from all mental and physical illnesses
ఌ i always get along well with my family
ఌ i have always been close with family
ఌ i have healthy relationship with both of my parents
ఌ my family let’s me date and be friends with anyone i desire
ఌ all past family conflicts have been resolved
ఌ my family always does what’s best for me
if you're on a path of self-growth and self-improvement I would like to advise you to keep private about it. I'm not saying to keep it a locked secret but don't go around talking about it. I learned it the hard way that speaking freely about our plans to improve ourselves results in bringing out the worst in so many people. people who you have no reason to distrust suddenly will actually wish you ill, because your progress will intimidate them, make them feel inferior, make them face their own insecurities and desires. and the kind of energy that these people produce is the kind of energy that can be a hindrance for you without you even noticing. suddenly you'll be exposing your dreams to an emotional vampire who will, even unconsciously, try and sabotage you. you don't need to share your plans and projects: just show up with the results and it will be enough said 🌸
THE affirmations I use for vaunting. I don't use them all, maybe 4 at a time honestly, but I do have a lot that I absolutely love. Instead of affirming for one specific thing, I use my self concept affirmations as a catch all. Plays in with my manifestation routine.
1. Self Concept.
self,
✧ Because I am God, my self-concept is supremely perfect. My mental diet is clean and perfect. My mindset is golden and perfect.
✧ I have always been the idolization of everything Neville preached and more.
✧ I am already the best me infinity has to offer, so the best chose me.
✧ Everything about me has always been perfect. My confidence, aura and self-esteem is truly phenomenal.
✧ I have always known myself and I trust my own understanding.
✧ I am a limitless consciousness.
BELIEF,
✧ I have always believed in myself. I already trust myself completely.
✧ I have seen my power work tremendously.
✧ I only believe myself as true because I am the truth.
✧ I have never cared what anything or anyone says about me or to me.
✧ My story is my story and I believe I have already changed it beautifully.
✧ I believe in the beautiful life I have made for myself.
✧ I already believe in me. I already believe in my power and I believe in the law of assumption. Everything I assume is true, has always been the truth.
✧ Nothing can ever tell me otherwise, my truth is set in stone.
✧ I have nothing to lose, nothing to fear and nothing to doubt. I believe in me.
✧ My faith in myself and the law is immeasurable. My faith in being the operant power, in being THAT BITCH is infinite.
✧ Because I believe so deeply, my manifestations instantly come to me.
✧ All the evidence I care about is already within me.
✧ I don't wait, I don't check, I don't ask, I don't wonder, and I never doubt myself. It is mine, mine, mine, mine.
power,
✧ I am god, therefore everything I do is perfect. For me, everything is possible and nothing is fiction.
✧ I am the highest power forever. I am the only reality, I am the supreme source.
✧ I am not the main character, I'm literally the capable author and perfect self-insert.
✧ Nothing has ever been too good for me. Nothing has ever been too wonderful for me. Everything I love has always been permanent. Everything has already changed for me instantly.
✧ The world is my already beautiful design.
✧ I've always had total confidence in my abilities, that's why I instantly manifest what I want without doing anything.
✧ What can resist me when I'm this powerful, sexy and magnetic? Nothing at all.
✧ I already am a sexy power fantasy of the highest calibre.
✧ I have always been fortune's favourite goddess/god.
✧ My power already spoils me so much just because I’m alive.
✧ I have always been a honey trap for beautiful and illogical success.
✧ There's no time lag, I already am the void, I already have its power.
✧ I have always manifested whatever I want instantly, just because I exist.
✧ From now on, My inner world always knows what I want and gives it to me automatically and instantly. I never have to ask for anything, I just get it.
✧ I alone have free will. I alone pull the strings. I alone am in control. I alone am God.
security,
✧ I already am important. I already am worthwhile. I already am forever.
✧ All that I need is already within me.
✧ I am already fulfilled within, I need nothing outside of me. I am the perfect example of being healthily assured and self-secured.
✧ I have always radiated every dimension of beauty.
✧ I have always seen myself so beautifully. I see a powerful, magnetic, fulfilled woman/man/person in me. I love, accept and trust myself completely.
✧ Ever since I was young, I knew I come first, so I put myself first, and the world puts me first.
✧ I am the glow up.
✧ I have always recognized my priceless, timeless value and worth.
✧ I'm already golden in everything I do and I know that.
✧ I have always been myself in my rawest, most incredible power.
✧ My inner world has always spent every moment of my day perfecting my amazing self-concept and manifesting everything great and desirable to me instantly.
✧ I have always taken care of my needs and happiness first.
✧ I already respect myself to the max. I am confident in every part of myself and every extension of myself.
✧ I know I'm the most gorgeous goddess/god in existence. I'm madly in love with myself, my inner world is madly in love with satisfying me and the world is madly in love with me.
how people see me,
✧ Everyone treats me with so much grace and sweetness.
✧ I have always been THE treasure and the world is my oyster.
✧ I'm already the top priority of everyone I desire.
✧ I am already perfect but perfectly relatable.
✧ I always keep deep, loving, enriching and interesting connections with my desired people/person.
✧ I have always been the girl/boy/person they all adore.
✧ I have always been a healthy, extroverted butterfly.
✧ I have always loved myself, that's why everyone and everything loves me.
✧ I'm already a master at charisma. Anything to do with charm is no deal to me, cause people love me anyway.
✧ Everyone is always so nice, welcoming and sweet to me. I am my true, happiest self around anyone. I am always in the mix with good people and great friends.
✧ Everyone loves my energy, and I love everyone's energy.
✧ I’m already everyone’s favourite person.
✧ I am already unconditionally loved by the world. I cherish myself like the Righteous love the Lord. I am authentically myself at my rawest form.
✧ I am cherished, I am treasured. Everything and everyone of good standing wants me.
✧ I am everyone's favourite beloved friend and idol.
✧ The first thing people notice about me is how magnetic I am.
✧ I have always been so magnetic that people feel completely comfortable around me.
✧ The world finds me precious. Everything I do is glorious to this world.
✧ Everyone acts exactly how I want them to, towards me.
2. Manifesting Ability & 'Process'.
ability,
✧ I have experienced every reason to genuinely believe in my manifestation abilities and all that my wonderful imagination offers me.
✧ I already manifest perfectly and illogically.
✧ I already naturally Live In The End with all my manifestations.
✧ I have always been immune to failure. All preventative measures come automatically and naturally for me.
✧ It has always been so easy for me to feel my manifestations real. I accept and claim my manifestations as mine so easily.
✧ I dive fully and wholeheartedly into my imagination and I always successfully manifest from within.
✧ I've got every reason to be cocky with my manifestation abilities. I simply get better and greater than what I want without action, just because I exist.
✧ I have always been a veteran at manifesting, I am no beginner.
✧ I literally cannot persist in wanting. I'm already in the end, it is done. I persisted in having because I knew it had to show up for me.
✧ I already am the greatest applier of feeling and knowing it is real. Literally no one 'feels it real' better than me.
✧ I truly understand and apply the law and the promise, I've experienced what both easily do for me first-hand.
process,
✧ I have never chased anything, I have never needed to affirm anything, I don't desire anything, I simply attract and have what I want.
✧ I effortlessly manifest all I desire in life, faster than Void State.
✧ I have always seen all my manifestations in a beautiful light.
✧ I never stress because I don't need to. I never doubt because I don't need to.
✧ My manifestations have always gone better and smoother than I planned.
✧ Just because I exist, my manifestations fulfil themselves instantly.
✧ Everything I desire comes to me so quickly, I don't have to do anything.
✧ My inner world is the real world. My outer world is just a mirror. What happens in my 4D, always happens in my 3D instantly.
✧ I always and easily persist in my Imagination, because it is my real world.
✧ My timeline scripts always manifest when, where and how I want them to.
✧ My Imagination has always been so constructively addictive to me, I love manifesting within my imagination.
✧ The second I decide I want something is the second I manifest it.
✧ I have already received infinite manifestations with one journal. I'm living my dream life right now.
✧When I sleep, I wake up to my manifestations fulfilled. I always manifest overnight. My manifestations literally poof into my 3D automatically.
✧Everything is sorted out for the best. Everything goes in my favour, unexpectedly and expectedly as usual. Manifesting is easy, it is no deal to me.
– golden, 🌈
Mike tells Will he exchanges letters with El cause she’s his gf. Later mike throws El’s letter (about becoming a “superhero”) in the trash. Then Mike explains to Will, that he had a fight with El (and he probably can’t mend his romantic relationship with her).
during that prior fight: Mike says he “ cares” for El. And El responds that he “CARES” but doesn’t love her- and can’t even say it out loud to her or in his letters . Instead his letters say “from mike” . Even the flowers he got her had a card that says “from mike”. Mike then tries changing the subject (of him not loving her) by saying El is important to him and a “superhero”. El then says “not anymore” to mike’s offiscation. El later sends Mike the letter about re-becoming a “superhero” (she signs the letter “from el”- probably symbolically showing their relationship is probably over). Which is why mike then throws the superhero letter into the trash.
Mike wonders why he couldn’t say he loved El to her face (before she left). Will says to Mike it’s hard to “say how you really feel” about people you “CARE” about because they may not like the “TRUTH”. On one hand it could reflect Will’s fear. But it also reflects Mike’s fear of admitting to El he doesn’t romantically love her-because It’s something she wouldn’t like.
After mike threw out el’s letter , Mike states the “TRUTH” is he misses Will and was worrying too much about El.
Brenner later tells EL “superheroes’ are stuff of fairytales and the “TRUTH” is not that simple, and she cannot hide from the “truth” any longer (even if it freightens her). Aka - (symboliically) the “truth” El doesn’t want to face is that Mike doesn’t “love” her romantically and her trying to become a “superhero” again won’t change that “truth”. which was earlier illustrated by Mike throwing out her “superhero” letter . In s3 -4: we see mike/EL dating eachother but both are called out for lying to one another (their whole romance is the antithesis of “truth”-but instead lies.)
Will asks if mike is angry at him, cause he stopped “talking” to him. Then Will mentions how mike and El share letters (and mike barely talks to him). But Lucas says he’d rather “talk” to Max and doesn’t want a letter (paralleling how Mike threw El’s letter away so he could “talk” to Will). Mike literally throws the letter in the trash like a basketball (to parallel lucas further).
Both pairings had a falling out between seasons. lucas says to max “it’s like you’re not even here anymore”. And Mike says “I don’t know maybe I feel I lost you”. Max/Will take the blame for the fallingout. But Lucas/mike correct them and take responsibility.
After this Lucas says he didn’t loose Max ,but he just wasn’t using his eyes to see what was infront of him. dustin: the world is full of the most obvious things that no one by anychance ever observes. Lucas to max : “But i SEE YOU NOW” . cough oh look at byler staring at eachother.
Not to mention Will getting the courage to eventually show the painting to mike… is almost a loose parallel to the letters. So for byler the painting may spur a “talk” about the “truth” of their feelings. A piece of paper can only mean so much. But if the painting said “love Will” that would be a nice touch too.
It seems like mike and Will are almost contrasting. Mike can’t say he loves El even in letters. And Will seems like he’s about to confess any minute to mike (and his painting may symbolize his romantic love for mike).
Also another very obvious byler hint:
They fight in an arcade (cough a place they used to hangout together). Will says “what about us?” Which initially alarms Mike. Then when Will brings up how they haven’t been talking ,but mike sends el letters . Mike uses the excuse that she’s his girlfriend. And again Will says “and us?” . And mike quickly states they’re “friends”. Will is this close to calling out their relationship. I swear. And Mike protested too much. XD
Also don’t get me started on how robin mentions a movie (dr zhigiago) and says its about “doomed love” - and then we see the m*leven fight. The film has a subplot about 2 siblings having the same love interest. Heck Yuri even yells about his brother taking his wife. Like ok. Suspish. And no I don’t think the “doomed love ” is the queer ship -like it usually is.
why? well robin mentions vickie and not being able to confess. Then right after robin shows the “doomed love” video to Steve. But Steve said earlier to robin. She doesn’t have to worry about confessing to Vickie cause she’s clearly queer like robin. So does Will have nothing to worry about cause mike’s also lgbt?hmm
My opinion:
Mike is still processing his complex feelings but … my oblivious son will eventually get there eventually. Honestly wouldn’t surprise me if Will confessing to mike is what makes mike finally realize his feelings for Will.
My dear friends: When a librarian or teacher says "Audiobooks count as reading", we do not literally mean that audiobooks are the same as decoding visual meaning via symbols representing sounds. We mean, among other things:
Audiobooks can expose listeners to new vocabulary and forms of syntax.
Audiobooks can present listeners with long-form fictional narratives with engaging characters, interesting literary devices, and poetic turns of phrase.
Audiobooks can teach listeners new information in a long-form manner that goes into depth or wide breadth on a particular subject or subjects.
Audiobooks can help listeners' verbal comprehension skills.
Audiobooks can do all these things without presenting the same difficulties to blind, low vision, partially sighted, visually impaired, or dyslexic listeners; listeners with ADHD; listeners who experience physical difficulty with holding a book or e-reader; or listeners who are disabled in a host of other ways that a physical book or e-reader might present.
The written word is not specially imbued with magical noble worth above the spoken word, and if you think it is, you may have some ableism and/or racism to deconstruct.
𖣔 it was the easiest thing for me to manifest my desired friend group
𖣔 it makes me so happy to have my ideal friend group
𖣔 all my friends have my desired names
𖣔 i have my desired amount of friends in my friend group
𖣔 it’s crazy how my friends humor completely matches up to mine
𖣔 my friend group looks exactly how i desire them to look
𖣔 i have manifested a friend group that is full of my desired genders
𖣔 my friend group is so accepting
𖣔 i love how all my friends personalities are exactly how i desire them to be
𖣔everyone is my friend group in my desired age
𖣔 everyone in my friend group has my desired ethnicity and nationality
𖣔 i manifested a friend group with that has all my desired traits and characteristics
𖣔 i met my friend group in my desired way
𖣔 everyone in my friend group is incredibly loyal and trustworthy
𖣔 my desired friend group is exactly how imagined it to be
𖣔 my friend group literally cannot function without me
𖣔 my friend group is immune from excluding me
𖣔 i am immune from having my friend group be mad at me
𖣔 all my friends are incredibly supportive and sweet
𖣔 my friend group literally loves everything about me
𖣔 my friend group always sticks up for me, they are all very protective of me
𖣔 me and my friend group literally do everything together
𖣔 my friend group is free from toxicity
𖣔 my friend group have and always be there for me through thick and thin
𖣔 my friends are always there to defend me no matter what
𖣔 me and my friend group never run out of things to talk about
𖣔 me and my friend group always have fun places to hang out
𖣔 i love how im living my teenage dream life with my friend group
𖣔 i’m happy thanksgiving me and my friends all go to the school
𖣔 i am always living mg desired scenarios with my friends
Desired person affs
ఌ my dp loves being my best friend
ఌ i can’t believe my dp asked for number
ఌ my dp is constantly texting me, they can’t help themselves
ఌ my dp is always asking me to hang out
ఌ my dp feels like we have been friends for yearsss
ఌ i love how well me and my dp get along
ఌ me and my dp’s humor matches up perfectly
ఌ my dp cannot stop laughing at my jokes, they think im so funny
ఌ my dp’s family loves me
ఌ i love being apart of my dp’s friend group
ఌ my dp always has my back no matter what
ఌ it’s crazy how me and my dp have similar interests
ఌ my dp is the definition of loyal and trustworthy
i easily get everything i want in life.
i always get what i want and better.
i manifest my desires quickly and easily.
i am a master manifestor.
i get everything i desire instantly.
everything always works in my favor.
The world revolves around me.
i can be,do and have anything i want.
i am the main character.
i am the only creator of my reality.
i am in full control of everything and everyone in my reality.
everything and everyone conforms my every desire instantly.
i have everything i desire and more.
All my desires are mine and here right now.
i never chase after what's already mine.
my desires shows up in my 3d extremely fast.
manifesting is always easy & instant for me.
my 3d instantly reflects my desires.
my 3d always conforms my every desires.
i am always in the state of wish fulfilled.
my self concept is perfect and strong.
For me, everything is possible and easy.
i am god, my manifestations are inevitable.
nothing can ruin my manifestations.
my imagination is the only real reality.
i easily dwell in my imagination.
i know my 3d is only the reflection of my 4d.
i am free from fears,doubts and worries.
i only have positive thoughts.
my physical reality only reflects my desires.
my life is rigged in my favor.
only good things and miracles happen to me.
i deserve only the best in everything.
i have healthy self esteem.
i believe in myself and trust myself.
i am absolutely limitless and powerful.
i am perfect and flawless.
everything about my life is perfect.
i am extremely confident and fearless.
i love myself unconditionally.
i am highly favoured,loved and respected.
i always win and succeed at everything i do.
i am smart,intelligent and talented.
i am extremely wealthy and rich.
my negative and intrusive thoughts never manifest.
negativity and failure does not exist for me.
my mental and physical health is always top tier.
i am the most prettiest and beautiful girl ever.
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