I love the word cunt it's so fresh so fun I hope we all have a cuntastic 2023
Hey everybody! Today is the 20th of April which means it’s the day to spread positivity and validation to everyone in the LGBTQ+ community!
We just want to say that you, the person reading this, is an amazing human being and we are so proud of you. You have gone through so much throughout your life and you are still going strong! It is so admirable and inspiring!
Some of your struggles and worries may not have an end in sight. But trust me, they do. You will continue to push through all these challenges coming your way and do so in spectacular fashion. You know why? Because you are so strong and have the determination and resilience to do it! And whenever you do need help, just know that the Pride Knights will be with you every step of the way!
This community is so special. It is inclusive of everyone and we are welcome in with open arms. However, some of you may not experience the same. But to you, we need to say: Don’t let anyone tell you that you are not valid or that you don’t belong here. This community is for all who don’t fit into the normalized heterosexual world we currently live in. And when we say all, we mean it.
I just want to remind you to #StayProud of who you are. You are a beautiful strong soul and the world needs more souls like you.
So yesterday my dad told me that the people online didn't care if I interacted with their posts, didn't care about me or whatever, and told me to talk to "real people" and said that people online weren't "real people."
And honestly what the heck.
I know that I'm a real person, even online. I know I care when people interact with my posts. Why would anybody else be any different?
I've seen people being so appreciative of their followers, of the people who interact with their posts, and just a lot of general "real people" behavior.
So... reblog if you're a real person and care if people interact with your posts and appreciate your followers, I guess.
A punk stops during a gay pride parade to allow a mesmerized child to touch his jacket spikes.
I think it really does speak for just how deeply there is something wrong with the online queer community that trans guys & mascs reaching out genuinely to say "we're dealing with a lot of issues that have gone completely undiscussed and it's bad enough that some of these things are killing us, and none of you even know they're happening" results in such a vitriolic response that there's been targeted harassment at every major blogger who's talked about it. like that's the immediate honest response to a plea for pain and suffering to be heard. what the hell.
I gained multiple followers and then immediately lost them after posting a few things, so let me take a moment to clarify the following:
* On this blog we love and respect and affirm ace and aro people. Exclusionists get fucked; you’re not “discoursing,” you’re just being abusive.
* On this blog we love, respect, and support sex workers. Sex work is real work.
* On this blog we do not support censorship or the policing of appropriately-warned-for content. When it comes to content that is properly warned for, we adhere to the policies of “don’t like, don’t read” and “your kink is not my kink, and that’s okay.”
That clear?
I think that there’s not enough talk about triggers that shouldn’t be warned for. There’s a bit of talk about not warning for body differences as “body horror” (that should be reserved for fictional depictions), but not about other triggers, and I think this is actually hampering intersectionality.
The main one I’m going to get into is being triggered by masculinity. This is a you problem. You can avoid men somewhat, but men (and people you think are men) will exist around you. Yes, this includes in public bathrooms. You need to learn how to deal with that (in ways that do not involve the police), and if you are so afraid of peeing in proximity to someone you perceive as a man you need to use exclusively single stall bathrooms. Public places are not your safe space.