Cocteau Twins – Treasure (1984)
somewhere between spiritual awakening and a master’s degree in cuntology
elliot smith and dostoyevsky kinda night
it’s raining and that means elliot smith goes ON
dude old people music is awesome but sad/depressed men with guitars might be better
François Martin-Kavel & pink fabrics
French, 1861-1931
me when i forget this isnt a girls only app and see a middle aged man follow me
no, bcos we need to stop learning about how to start a conversation. i can have hours and hours of conversation with someone, but my energy gets burnt out easily. we a need a book about "how not to talk people, but how to balancr your energy"
I wish prof would teach like "basically its literally just this and that, and take note of this very important fact because it will help you in life" instead of talking just to sound professional and academic, where the students can't even comprehend your sentence. It's like everything they taught us is just from textbook, copy, past to the class. No summarizing, no jist, no bulletin points.
I found your instagram I found your tumblr
Sometimes having a reputation for being smart beats actually being smart.
I once beat my school’s chess champion in a game because he spent the entire match desperately trying to work out my strategy because I was “smart” and therefore good at chess.
We were playing with a Lord of the Rings chess set. I was moving the characters I liked best.
I’m terrible at chess.
how it feel to write your thoughts in a diary so as not to go crazy
one of the biggest things I can advocate for (in academia, but also just in life) is to build credibility with yourself. It’s easy to fall into the habit of thinking of yourself as someone who does things last minute or who struggles to start tasks. people will tell you that you just need to build different habits, but I know for me at least the idea of ‘habit’ is sort of abstract and dehumanizing. Credibility is more like ‘I’ve done this before, so I know I can do it, and more importantly I trust myself to do it’. you set an assignment goal for the day and you meet it, and then you feel stronger setting one the next day. You establish a relationship with yourself that’s built on confidence and trust. That in turn starts to erode the barrier of insecurity and perfectionism and makes it easier to start and finish tasks. reframing the narrative as a process of building credibility makes it easier to celebrate each step and recognize how strong your relationship with yourself can become
Took me until about halfway through college before I realized “study” means “play with the material in a variety of ways until you understand it” and not just “read the assigned chapters and do the homework” and I think that probably should have been discussed at some point prior to that.
“The quieter you become the more you can hear.”
— Ram Dass
The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.
Marcus Aurelius
The clouds looking so beautiful 😍