No matter how little it seems itās still your best <3
If you can't handle me at my worst (really bad) then you don't deserve me at my best (slightly less really bad)
Pause. The casual way baby rolls off his tongue šāāļøšāāļø
him:
me:
also:
today im thinking about the huge buff bread guy from kikis delivery service. highly underrated guy
"i need to get outta here"
Happy birthday to my husband. Weāre going on our 35th year married and he is so perfect and special and my boyfriend and husband and wife. Happy birthday Jeremiah schlangā¤ļø
I LOVING COLORING!!!
My baby
genuinely donāt know what possessed me I miss 2019 bad guys š crazy that this twink was behind some of his biggest controversies
song: I know Iām funny haha by faye webster
All girls want is long healthy hair.
OKAY! This is in my wheelhouse cause I kinda was in like this exact situation my junior year and Iāve been on a roll with advice lately so Iām here to help. Iām a credible source cause it worked out for me!
First off, idk how long ago the break up was at this point but im assuming a week to a month ago. Let her grieve the relationship, and then go to her. No matter how much you like him, or he likes you, girl code is real. Admit to her you have a thing for him, that you think he might have a think for you, talk to her.
Iāve been in positions where Iāve had sorta kinda relationships with people and after it ended friends swooped in and stole the guy. Looking back, I wouldnāt have been so mad if they had just told me they liked him!
Consult her, let her know where you stand, donāt ask for her permission, ask her opinion. Would it make your friendship die if you ever did something with this guy? What would she think if she were you?
And youāll get one of three answers.
āDonāt careā
She does, maybe she doesnāt feel ready to see him move on, she might harbor a resentment towards you, she might not. 50/50 coin toss, personally I would steer clear of him.
āGo aheadā
She understands, she agrees, she wonāt hold this against you, you didnāt do anything wrong. Sheāll appreciate that you cared to ask! Go for him!!
āNoā
Itās a simple response. The way you handle that is your decision. You can uphold the friendship with her and respect her wish, or say fuck it. I wouldnāt but if you want him that bad, throw caution to the wind.
No matter the response understand that he does have feelings for you. When itās a gut instinct like this, itās generally correct.
You wonāt lose friends over this as long as you donāt treat their relationship as if it were a road block for you. If anyone says anything let them know you talked with her, you cleared the air. On top of that, you donāt know every persons previous relationships because the fact youāre newer. If people take issue with you, remind them of that fact. Chalk it up to ignorance, innocent and naĆÆvety!
If you think itād work with him, donāt worry that much.
I wish you endless luck
xoxo K
girls i need advice!! help!!!
so iām completely new to the school iām at, and everyone else has known each other for practically their whole lives. and iām still trying to figure out whoās friends with who, who likes who, who hates who, etc..
ANYWAYS
thereās this guy that i have in english and i swear heās the sweetest person ever. he doesnāt follow other girls (complete 180 from the last guy i was talking to ((how do you follow of models on the same account you follow your mother on?!)). heās always includes me in a conversation if my friends start only talking to each other. when i panicked in class, he was the first person to notice it and immediately took the time to make sure that i was okay. every time he talks to my friend (who sits in front of me), he looks away from her and gives me the biggest cutest smile. he randomly turns back to smile at me, too. whenever i wave at him in the halls or at lunch, i can literally see his whole demeanor change when he smiles and waves back.
now hereās my dilemma:
he has this friend group (heās a football player so itās them, a couple of the track kids, and then cheerleaders) and i would always catch him walking the same girl to practice with that group. i kinda had a feeling that they were dating, and one of my friends confirmed it and i tried to shut off my feelings for him.
THEN this girl shows up to school looking completely gutted, and i hear from one of my friends that heād broken up with her the night before and that at lunch (we have the same one every other day so i donāt get to sit with him all the time š„²) sheād overheard him telling his friends that he liked some girl and had left this other girl for her, but she only caught him saying the last portion of her name. now she thought he was talking about her girlfriend, but both of our names end the same so iām literally going insane?? and he hasnāt stopped treating me the same ever since.
if, by some miracle, this guy actually likes me then i have absolutely no clue what to do. like i said, all my friends have known each other for YEARS and iāve just entered the picture. so i know that if i start dating this guy, it might look absolutely awful to them because that other girl is also kind of in my friend group (sheās a cheerleader so sheās super popular/well-known). sheās also just a total sweetheart and iād die if i hurt her :(
sorry this is so long bahaha. i just need some clarity on this whole situation because iām so close to ripping my entire head of hair out.
Millerās Girl (2024)
Itās good to feel this way. Feel it, let yourself drown for just a moment - know that you can still swim. Let yourself suffer, itās what makes us human. Feel that pain and let yourself respond, youāre not stuck in it forever.
Life goes so fast, itās so easy to skip the bad parts with distractions or pretend, those moments build you. Be built, become more, become new.
I let myself drown all throughout my teens, and once I was ready I swam. I let myself build strength, I still canāt be sure where Iām headed in life, I donāt think anyone is ever sure where theyāre going, but the longer you swim the closer you get to knowing.
Write down the hurt and confusion, and then write down all the dreams you have. Even the embarrassing, far from reach, near impossible dreams. Let yourself hope, be youthful and confused and sad. BE YOUNG. Life doesnāt end in the confusion, growth starts, so let yourself grow in weird and unpredictable ways. Let your vines wrap around your neck once or twice so that they can get far enough to reach the next day.
Just donāt give up on yourself, there is always another chance. So for now youāre going to drown, and maybe for a while longer you will, but before you know it youāll reach the surface and the tide will give you a head start, and youāll swim.
Tw angsty teenage feelings
Is it okay to feel lost? To feel like every time I'm not outright miserable, I'm playing pretend? I worry that I'm wasting my late teens but is feeling lost and being in no set direction part of it? I honestly don't know, I've never had role models and my position is very unique. I feel less like a person and more like a drowned body being pulled and tugged by indecisive waves. Am I fucking it up? I guess we'll see
I cant handle him. My jaw drops when I see him
Beautiful gorgeous man
Jorking it to schlatts new video, oh my glob.
yeah im creaming on it.
Every single time he posts something from his Japan trip i go back and watch all the videos.
The ć»ćć»ć (look, look) video is by far one of my favorites. Itās one of his dialogue free vlogs, i love the subtle details of it. He adds subtitles with the Japanese translation, and the few times he does speak it feels extra special.
He went to Japan with friends, but heās posted a few videos where he went out solo, like in this video, and it makes me so soft. He goes out to see something so calm, like when he hiked up Mt. Takao all by himself in Spend a day in Tokyo with me. Or in ć»ćć»ć, or ććććć®éé ! (Hey, you bastard!). Itās such a sweet moment where he actually lets go of his character. Of course the captions he gives us arenāt so calm. These videos feel like the most honest version of himself.
And, god, he looked amazing while in Japan! I wish he wouldnāt wear hats as much as he does, his hair is so cute and fluffy, it causes a real reaction in me. Like itās so dumb but Japan schlatt is my soft spot, my Achilles heel.
do u thimk my mobility aids r sexy babe .
are you ok with people saying smash to your pics
go right ahead i think itās fun
i wonder what heās like in bed.. šµāš«
Fantastic Mr. Fox (2009) / Bojack Horseman (2014-2020) / The Smiths - Pretty Girls Make Graves
iād let him do the most horrendous things to me.
No revenge, just radio silence
Thinking abt this again
Why does no one write just for mgg and not his characters? Iāve read every single option for spencer!!! Youāre hurt, heās hurt, undercover as a couple, non-bau reader, hotch!reader, coffee shop au, blah blah blah!!!! I have read all the mgg x reader fics Iāve found. Some of them are amazing and thought out and satisfying. Other are like glorified wattpad drafts.
Sometimes the best literature is written in a fan fiction.
summary: broke and having a bad day, Reader runs into Matthew outside a cafƩ. after a couple encounters, his financial support and friendship become something more. (Sugar Daddy MGG)
pairing: Fem!Reader/Matthew
completed!
part 1
part 2
part 3
part 4
*part 5*
*part 6*
*part 7*
part 8
*part 9*
part 10
i wanna be her when iām older so bad
I donāt talk about my disabilities often on here because i like to escape from them when I can, but I think itās a good time to say,
Able bodied people LOVE to hate disabled people.
I recently went to Disneyland for the day, i place i grew up visiting and still love. But for the first time in all my visits, i rented a wheelchair. Which I personally do not regret - im generally not a mobility aide user but I have needed ambulatory aides in the past, so as a precaution I got the wheelchair. The last time I visited without use of a chair I was so exhausted I couldnāt really use my ankles by noon, and Iām not leaving till the park closes. The wheelchair saved me from so much pain, fatigue and discomfort, it made the visit better for me and the people with me.
And I came to the conclusion, Disney is the one place you can really experience the true view people have on handicapped people.
Some park goers were very understanding and helpful, some literally walked into me, or pushed the chair out of their way as if I wasnāt in it. Some people didnāt look me in the eye, and some would only look at me in the eye.
Many conversations went something like:
š±š»
āHi!ā
And the eye contact does get weird after maybe two uninterrupted seconds.
And others were more like:
š
And pretending like Iām not there is really awkward.
All in all, I know it fucking sucks i exist and canāt walk safely for extended periods of time! I know I should leave the wheelchair for people actually canāt walk! I know I shouldnāt stand up and walk because Iām wheelchair bound! I know you hate me!
But Iām not here for you, my wheelchair wasnāt specifically designed to be a problem for you! I just canāt walk.
Youāre lucky you can, youāre lucky the pain I feel on an average basis is your emergency room level pain!
Itās important that able bodied people remember and recognize, you donāt have to treat people with walkers, crutches, canes, wheelchairs, scooters, or any other aides, like kids. Im a human, with a brain, thoughts, emotions, and opinions. And just like you, I can tell this interaction is going really bad.
Donāt stare to be polite, donāt stare to be rude. Donāt overly sympathize, or question. Donāt yell at us, or for us. Iām not a make a wish kid, if I were Iād be in Europe, not Disneyland.
able-bodied people will claim to be disability activists and then they'll get pissed at you if you don't have the physical energy to respond 'timely'. or if you sleep a lot due to exhaustion. or if you can't get out much (or at all!) for an array of reasons. or if your hygiene isn't up to their standards because you can't wash yourself. or if you have 'inconvenient' allergies or dietary restrictions that they don't want to cater to. or if you're unemployed. or if you have a medical emergency that gets in the way of their plans (especially if you have to cancel last minute). or if you can't do any other 'normal' thing that is more difficult/impossible thanks to an array of disabilities because, get this, they are disabling. fuck that. disabled people don't owe the world an illusion of good health for the sake of the able-bodied. love disabled people without condition.