"I'm Not Here To Fix You, I'm Here To Hold Your Hand When You Do"

"I'm not here to fix you, I'm here to hold your hand when you do"

K but can we end this toxic cultural idea that if your s/o is dealing with an anxiety attack or in the down spirals of depression, that you’ve somehow failed them??? and the corresponding idea that you are solely responsible for their mental health and/or one of you is the “cure” for one or more of any mental illnesses?

like that shit is NOT healthy. You really love them? Then just be there for them. If it’s too much for you to handle, if it causes you any distress, then leave. This kind of mentality is EXTREMELY toxic, even though you may have the best intentions.

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