Why Are You Stressing Yourself Over Someone Who Doesn't Even Ask If You Are Okay?

Before you argue with someone, ask yourself:

‘Is this person mentally mature enough to grasp the concept of different perspective?’.

If not, there’s no point in arguing.

‎Ibn Abbas رضي الله عنه said:

‎"Every soul will blame itself on the Day of Judgment. The doer of good will regret that he did not increase in good deeds, and the sinner will regret that he did not repent from his sins."

‎[Ighathatul Lahfaan pg.105]

my life is falling apart but at least i got my books to escape reality and pretend everything is fine

In a faithless, degenerative, hedonistic and hyper sexualised world, a loving marriage shines at it brightest.

"ما فاتك لم يُخلق لك وما خُلِق لك لن يفوتك، فاطمأن."

What you missed was not created for you and what was created for you will not be missed, so be assured.

i dont want my entire life to revolve around work

‎Ibn Battāl رحمه الله:

‎“Indeed meeting people with a smiling and relaxed face is from the manners of Prophethood which negates arrogance and brings about friendliness”

‎[Sharh Sahīh Al-Bukhārī 5/193]

The most important part of Islam is Tawheed.

If you don’t have Tawheed, then you don’t have anything.

Don’t lose a part of your religion just to please people. Don’t make compromises in your Deen. Don’t drop your deen for people who will be against you on the day of resurrection.