A gentle person is always beautiful.
Those that follow what everybody is doing will end up where everybody is going.
Just remember that Jannah is your ultimate goal. So if you can do that many good deeds.. then at least try staying away from the bad deeds and if you do slip then do know that Allah’s doors of repentance are always open.
“The people who are meant to be in your life will always gravitate back towards you, no matter how far they wander.”
— Robert Tew
Having a supportive partner can literally change your life.
If you catch yourself caring too much about worldly affairs, remind yourself of the following verse:
“On the day they see it, it will be as if they had stayed in the world no more than one evening or it’s morning.” (79:46)
You die alone, you will enter your grave alone, you will be questioned alone & you will stand before Allahﷻ alone. Death is painful, grave is dark, prepare yourself before it’s too late.
A good habit to make is to recite a small duā for anyone that crosses your mind, you may never know how much they need it.
سبحان الله
Shaykh Sālih Al-'Uthaymīn رحمه الله stated:
"Take from the Dunyā that which is permissible for you and don't forget your portion from it. However, place it in your hand and not in your heart, and this is what is important (in life)."
[Sharh Riyādus-Sālihīn 3/369]