“Attract New Friendships” sigil
Are you struggling with making new friends? Or craving for new people in your life? Use this sigil to attract new friendships in your life!
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in 2017 i used to have a witchy tumblr blog (cryptichalo) and there i posted this friendship sigil. it gained a lot of traction and many seemed to love it! i deleted my account a year afterwards, but i decided to finally return to tumblr with the intent to start anew. id like to continue my journey of witchcraft with new perspectives and desires. i never realized how much comfort the practice of witchcraft brought me until i stopped. though, i never truly stopped. i still searched for signs on the clouds and leaves, puddles on the sidewalk, and horoscopes on magazines. and my most recent sign only confirmed my thinking of whether or not i should practice witchcraft again, so here i am ^_^ 💕
thinking of:
craving your desire, waiting for your desire, knowing that it has not been realized, examining your manifestation journey, wondering what you might have done wrong and therefore admitting that you have manifested the wrong way, not feeling as the owner of your desire (separation), considering your desire as something you still need to achieve, feeling needy and unhappy about your current state, looking for validation and proof in the 3d, not fully persisting in the fact of your desire already being yours, feeling resistance towards your desire, feeling pressured, doubting your abilities to manifest.
thinking from:
living in the end and in the state of your wish fulfilled, feeling satisfied and at ease knowing that you have what you desire, believing in the law and trusting it, trusting the ways your desire will manifest without analyzing the how/when/where, viewing and confessing yourself to be the owner of your desire, feeling connected to your desire, knowing that creation is finished, understanding that there is no need for change, fully believing and trusting the law, declaring yourself as a spiritual being with no limits, feeling confident and content, remaining unbothered by the outer physical world and living in your imagination/persisting in your assumptions, not needing eternal proof, not being led or influenced by circumstances.
partly inspired by: @lorenaschuth on instagram !
i really needed this right now
-my 3d is conforming alarmingly fast
-i am seeing so much movement, it’s crazy!
-it is safe to have my desires, and i am accepting them into my life
-i have always had everything i want
-my breakthrough is on its way
-i am worthy of my desires
-my sp has to conform
-my sp is conforming right this very second
-everything is falling into place for me
-i am living my dream life
-my manifestation is here, i am so happy!
-i successfully manifested _____
-my desires are coming into fruition in the 3d as we speak
-my 3d has caught up with my desires!
-my desires are present in my 3d
-i am so powerful
-creation is finished
-i love seeing evidence of my manifestations in my 3d!
etc 🤍
hi, i'm barbie, and today i'm here to remind you (if you haven't already) to take your desire(s) off the pedestal. i'll be telling you how to do it, the benefits of doing so, and how it could affect your manifestations. and if you haven't, check out my last post !
first things first, what does it mean to put something on a pedestal ?
to regard someone or something with great or excessive admiration ; to idolize.
basically, it means to make something or someone more important than others or yourself because you admire it so greatly. now even though people (including me lol) may casually put things on a pedestal outside of manifestation, it's not the wisest thing to do when it comes to what you want to manifest.
putting your desire on a pedestal can make it look unachievable and have you thinking that you'll need to put more work in to manifest it. it can also cause self-doubt, impatience, and make you feel unworthy when manifesting. you can even start to doubt your manifesting abilities ! overall, it can knock down your self concept. you're also more likely to gain a victim mindset.
here's a quick example of how putting something on a pedestal can affect oneself and their manifestation.
let's say i'm manifesting an sp, and they just happen to be a huge celebrity. instead of thinking that it's easy (which it already is), i'm treating it like a mission or a quest. saying that it's such a huge goal and it's gonna be a challenge for me. daydreaming about manifesting it as if i can't get it. i'm "trying" and i don't see any movement so i start to get desperate. i start doing bullshit "powerful" methods. i start feeling like a victim ! and i start blaming and trying to fix everything i see, when i just need to look within myself and get my shit together.
y'all see what i mean ? putting your desires on a pedestal is a goddamn set up ! but don't worry, because now it is ...
"wait, what does it mean to take your desire off the pedestal ?"
to take your desire off the pedestal means starting to look at your desire as if it's the easiest thing in this world. realize that it's not that big of a deal ! and don't get me wrong, i bet that whatever you want to manifest is probably awesome. but what i'm trying to say is just simplify it. acknowledge your desire and know that it will be easy for you.
you wanna manifest a million dollars ? it's just paper. wanna manifest a significant other ? there is 7 billion people on this planet. they're just a person. wanna manifest a whole new appearance ? easy peasy lemon squeezy. shifting to your desired reality ? a walk in the park.
"but barbie, what do you mean it's easy ? it can't be that easy !"
yes the fuck it can be that easy. you're the god of your reality and you have been manifesting all your damn life ! so yeah, you're automatically a master at manifestation. the only reason why you feel like you can't is because you refuse to accept that you can.
and if you still don't feel like you can manifest your desire, i suggest building up your confidence and belief in yourself by manifesting "smaller" things to realize how powerful you are. and keep in mind, there is no difference between manifesting 10 dollars and 1 million dollars. you apply the meaning and "weight" to your desire; by default you can manifest anything effortlessly.
your desires are not too good to be true, and never let anyone tell you that something is difficult to manifest. manifestation is subjective, so whatever might feel like climbing a mountain for someone might just be kicking a rock for you. nothing is too good for god.
your desires aren't better than you. you are the god of your reality. the operant power. if you are a master at manifesting, how could manifesting something be difficult for you ? your desires have absolutely no power over you unless you let it. you are going to manifest and conquer it, not have it conquer you ! the only thing that you should put on the pedestal is yourself.
and since some people may initially believe that saying that you are the god of your reality gives you a god complex, i think it'll be important to quickly clear this up.
to truly know and accept the fact that you are the god of your reality also means to acknowledge and know that everyone else is the god of their reality too. remember to be a good person, and don't abuse your power by harming others or yourself. with great power comes with great responsibility !
as long as you don't think of yourself as god in a monotheistic way (since that'll just put you on the path of gaining a god complex or narcissistic traits) you'll be just fine. <3
lemme tell y'all something. once you take your desire off that pedestal everything will truly blossom and fall into place. it'll be easier to manifest due to less effort and energy being used, and you'll just get to have way more fun. and manifestation is supposed to be fun ! you'll be less likely to have negative emotions towards manifesting, and it'll make it feel less like a chore. and ! maybe your self concept will go up once you manifest what was once on that pedestal.
so take your desire off the pedestal. yup, right now. and replace it with yourself, because you’re the only one that should be on it. period.
love, barbie ♡
what did you do to perfect your sc so fast omg??
Okay so here’s the highly anticipated explanation of how I, Hera Huxtable, acquired my self concept within 24 hours. It’s a bit of a personal story tied with past association so if you’ve followed me for some time you’ve likely heard of these two and I swear they’re both relevant to my self concept story. I've never explained it to this extent though.
To vaguely discuss the past association I connected this instance of acquiring my self concept to the time I decided I was that bitch out of the blue and persisted in that assumption (I can tell you wholeheartedly that this is the reason why I have never struggled with being insecure physically) but I'll talk a little more about this later.
Moving onto the personal story I discovered the law of assumption around late July/early August right and I kinda sorta knew about the God thing but hadn’t really dived deep into it. This also came to be around the time my best friend and I came to the decision to no longer be friends. When we split I took it quite hard and I made the decision to give myself 24 hours to cry it out be sad about it and move on (it ended up happening within 5 hours by the way) which was a new thing for me because this was way back when I repulsively resonated with the cancer sun title (being an emotional crybaby). And you know what happened when I established that time limit for myself? I snapped. For the first time I simply decided, “you know what? I’m not gonna let myself feel miserable over this any longer and nothing is gonna make me feel this shitty ever again” and with that decision also came “I'm done being a whiny ass victim and I'm done being someone I don't wanna be”. That same week was when I immersed myself in the law of assumption and started learning more by reading Neville’s lectures and like I said I was still relatively new to the God thing and I didn’t know how literal it was, I just knew you could manifest absolutely anything and with that knowledge my peace of mind grew. It was very comforting knowing that I could always get my best friend back if I ever wanted to, which sped up the healing process and I also mentioned that as my self concept increased more and more by the day I eventually lost absolute interest in getting them back and I moved on completely. That same week I also learned about EIYPO and had to come to terms that it was my fault and I was the one who manifested us not being friends anymore all the while it made little to no sense to me because WHY would I want to not have my best friend anymore? But it didn’t matter whether it made sense or not I held myself accountable for it and accepted that I was the root of the issue and the fact that I could also undo it made it less of a big deal to me so it was like ok fine I did it whatever. (You’ll see why I mentioned this bit as well shortly)
That day I decided I had enough of the victim mentality and because of that I have never dealt with spirals, impatience, insecurities or any of that unfavorable stuff. It was just like “yeah I'm that bitch and I always get what I want idc about anything else I'm not accepting shit I don’t want and don’t deserve from here on out”. And of course there were instances that challenged my self concept but I knew better than to let anything from the 3D matter or define me which goes back to that whole confidence angle I mentioned at the beginning because listen I had people that had something to say about my confidence but I never cared and never paid attention so that’s why self concept is so reminiscent of how I picked up my confidence, it was just deciding, persisting and placing myself on a pedestal. You focus on the new version of you that you want to be and you turn your attention away from everything that dares challenge or question that.
If you ever spiral after reading this, I advise you to try a similar approach to my story. Take advantage of all the intense emotions that you’re feeling, decide that it's the last time you will ever feel that way and use it as motivation to sever ties with that old you. See that person spiraling as an image of self that you’ve had enough of. Decide that you will no longer identify with that non serving version of yourself that is quite literally interfering with the version of you that CAN get what they want. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: it always starts with you. You have to be the one to put your foot down and finally decide to stop yourself from continuing to be the source of your own sabotage because there will never be anyone to blame and there will never be anyone to change but self. For once you just need to hold yourself accountable no matter how uncomfortable it may feel because at the end of the day this is something you’re doing for YOURSELF and no one else. Remember that before you make the decision to wallow in the victim mentality once more, my love. I know it can be mildly uncomfortable territory to call yourself out like that especially when you're accustomed to comforting yourself by thinking that the world is the problem instead of you but I promise you that when you choose to make that decision for yourself, you will look back and wonder why you didn't do it sooner. It's one of the best decisions I have ever made for myself and I can assure you it will most definitely be the same for you too ଘ(੭ˊᵕˋ)੭
How I see my life in the future. A rich and spoiled little cutie with a sidekick just as cute 🐶.
- How I personally manifest
Hiya!! A mini disclaimer before I start in no way shape or form am I telling you that you have to manifest without techniques or that you need to manifest exactly how I manifest. If manifesting with techniques works for you then carrying on doing what you’re doing just don’t depend on them. Due to the lack of posts on here covering this topic I decided to post about how I manifest without having to put in any work at all.
-> Why I do it?
Methods are used as a reminder to help you stay in the wish fulfilled I’ve seen so many people in the law of assumption community depend on techniques to manifest so it got me thinking about how I used to manifest unconsciously when I was younger. Personally I hate the idea of putting work into anything whether it’s manifestation or everyday life and this is coming from someone who used to script, had a manifestation routine and a long subliminal playlist etc.
-> How do I do it?
1) Use self concept affirmations - self concept affirmations work like a charm it’s helped me go from insecure to a master manifestor in less than 2 months. When I’m not manifesting consciously I like to repeat a few self concept affirmations to myself so I don’t get to caught up “trying” to manifest my desires. They usually help me remember that I’m the god of reality no matter what the circumstances are and to persist in the assumption of the wish fulfilled. Here are a few I love:
🎸I manifest faster than any technique out there
🎸 I only focus on my successes
🎸It’s absolutely impossible for me to fail
🎸I love my life
🎸I’m the prettiest person in my reality
2) Set an intention - an intention is all you need to manifest. All you have to do is decide what you want it doesn’t have to be specific at all, state it, think about it with conviction and know you’ll get it for example say you were manifesting long hair you’d simply state “I have long hair” or “I will get long hair”. Now that you’ve said your intention once there’s no need to say it again. Keep in my mind your intention could be a thought or a visualisation too.
3) Live in the end - What you desire is yours already let go of all your worries and doubts and move on with your life hang out with your friends, participate in events etc etc. What’s there to worry about if you have what you want? Your subconscious will take care of everything my love. Stop trying to figure out where you went “wrong” or why it’s taking so long. Try changing I’m not sure if.. (I’m manifesting right) / How will it manifest to -> I’m proud of the changes I’m making in my reality/Worrying about the how isn’t my job. This essentially is the state of knowing. Some questions to ask yourself to help you live in the wish fulfilled: how would I feel like if I had everything I wanted? How would I personally think from the end?
Examples: Clear skin & db
Clear skin: My manifestations come effortlessly without having to put in any work (Self concept affirmation)
I have the clearest skin ever or visualise yourself with clear skin (An intention)
Everything is done I don’t have to worry anymore (Living in the end)
Desired body: I love my body/my body is the definition of perfection (Self concept affirmation)
I have my desired body (An intention)
I know I get what I want when I want because I’m that girl (Living in the end)
🍎 A mini success story from today:
My teacher was talking about not giving us break today since we were all sleepy, the law of assumption side of me decided to manifest going to break without a second thought. I thought of it once “She’ll allow us to go to break” and ten minutes later we were out of the class.
-> Success stories
Anons
Manifested an sp
Manifested limited edition iced tea
Manifested a boyfriend out of thin air
Manifested not going to school
Manifested ig model answering ask
Manifested a consistent dump schedule
Manifested money
Manifested problem solving
Manifesting without techniques
Is able to manifest without SATs or anything at all
-> A summary
• Belief is key
• Setting an intention is all you need
• Letting go doesn’t equal to detaching
Happy manifesting!!
Mental diet - only thinking thoughts and only having (inner) conversations that align with your desired reality.
How to trust that your negative thoughts are powerless: by understanding that your thoughts would cease to exist without you. You are not your thoughts, rather, you are merely the observer. If you have a negative thought, simply allow yourself to acknowledge its presence. Don’t try to fight it as doing so will only perpetuate it. Distract yourself by doing something you enjoy and it will dissipate in due time.
The psychological lifespan of an emotion is 90 seconds. If you experience a negative thought or emotion beyond this timeframe, you are the sole perpetrator via your thoughts and inner conversations.
Everything you experience is a part of the bridge of events. In the grand scheme of things, your undesirable circumstances are irrelevant. Your desires are a promise and if you truly accepted this, you wouldn’t allow your circumstances to sidetrack you.
Reasons you have yet to receive your desire: 1.) you think you’re keeping a mental diet but you’re still having negative thoughts disguised as imaginary arguments 2.) you’re constantly discussing your undesired circumstances and/or how you don't have your manifestation 3. You’re assuming you’re doing something wrong (always assume you’re doing everything right).
Where you place your attention is where you will see results. Where focus goes, energy flows.
As you--through the medium of imagination--assume a state of consciousness, the state begins to clothe itself in form, but you must be faithful to that state. You cannot oscillate from state to state—you must patiently persist in your desired state until it becomes an objective fact.
Revision: There is no inevitable permanence in anything. The only reason the past and present continue to exist is because they are sustained through your imagining them on some level or another. A radical transformation of life is always possible through man’s revision of the undesirable aspects of it for the past—although it is experienced in this world—dates back to imagination. To revise an undesirable scenario, simply imagine something more magnificent in its place; imagine it as you would have liked it to be for “man and his past are one continuous structure”. “The past and the present form the whole structure of man; they are carrying all of its contents with it. Any alteration of content will result in an alteration in the present and future.” and “If the past is recreated into the present, so will the revised past be recreated into the present.”
In consciousness / imagination, you already have what you want but you must trust in your imagination as it is more real than anything you see without (aka the 3D). Stop looking for evidence in the 3D for the most common cause of failure is failure to live in the end: “If you judge after appearances, you will continue to be enslaved by the evidence of your senses.”. Continue to possess it within and its possession without is inevitable.
Jealousy: Whenever you experience jealousy, remember that another person's success does not equate to your failure or lack. Positive things happening to others should serve as your reminder that good things are also available for you. A success for one person is a success for all as we are all one and connected.
Obsession: obsession is the result of a deep rooted insecurity and/or an overall poor concept of self. If you are obsessive over something--especially a person--you have fallen into the illusion that you must have this thing to be happy. You have forgotten that you are the only one who can create this feeling of fulfillment and happiness for yourself. Identifying what it is you believe your desire will fulfill within you and creating that feeling for yourself will allow your desire to manifest in a swifter and easier manner.
How to become the ideal version of yourself: Ask yourself what that version of you looks like; What do they do? What does their life look like? Now all you must do to become that version of yourself is think like that version.
Your desires are not greater than you. You are the only one who gives your desire purpose / value. Your desire is merely a thing…an inanimate object with no life separate from you. The only reason it seems so elusive is because you have placed it on a pedestal. Take your desire it the pedestal and stop treating it as though it’s greater than you. Your desire would literally cease to exist without you…not the other way around.
Whenever you experience negative thoughts: Remember that you have free will—you can choose to counteract those negative thoughts by choosing positive, constructive thoughts instead.
Stop checking the 3D to see if it’s conforming for when you do this, you’re attempting to change your outer reality instead of persisting in your inner reality. In other words, you’re dwelling in a state of lack rather than a state of wish fulfilled (abundance).
If your desire feels unattainable: if your desire feels unattainable, it’s simply due to your predominant focus being on doubts and failure rather than faith and success. Fortunately, repetition in your desired story can fix this.
Simple way to ignore the 3D: by focusing only on what you want.
What you desire is already done / created / true in another, parallel reality. Hence, you’re not ‘creating’ anything, you’re merely shifting to the reality in which your desire is already a present fact. All you must do to align yourself with your desired reality is mentally live there now .
Stop trying to rationalize everything by worrying about the how. Think only of your end goal and trust that the ‘how’ will work itself out.
Your inner dialogue = affirmations. Affirmations aren’t always prefaced with “I am” for your inner conversations are also affirmations. The inner conversations you’re having with yourself and other people are also reflecting in your outer world.
Quantum physics states that when 2 or more particles (or people) interact, their states remain linked regardless of distance, thus disproving the illusion of separation. Thus, every affirmation regarding your SP must reach them.
If you feel your manifestation is taking too long: your predominant focus is on the lack of your desire (the 3D) rather than its presence (imagination / 4D). Persist in your desired reality within and it has no choice but to appear without.
Despite your persistence, your 3D looks the way it does as a result of the state you fell into for it is merely reflecting your old states (hence, the time lag), but without your awareness, it will cease to be. In other words, refrain from thinking or paying attention to your undesirable circumstances and they will cease to exist. Despite what your 3D may look like now, your new thoughts (state) will shortly catch up.
Because your state produces thoughts in alignment with your desires, use your thoughts as a tool to measure which state you’re predominantly occupying.
Disregard any possibility other than the one you want and believe, no matter what. As long as you allow an alternative outcome to be an option, it will always remain an option. Choose to drive anything other than what you want out of your consciousness and saturate your mind only with that which you desire.
It doesn’t matter how you feel. Keep affirming / visualizing / whichever technique you prefer and your feelings will automatically change for your thoughts create your feelings.
State = thoughts, emotions, beliefs, attitude, reactions, and impulses. To change your state, experience in imagination that which constitutes your desired state.
EIYPO - what you feel and believe to be true about yourself and others will be reflected in those around you. If you feel insignificant and unworthy, people are going to reflect that by treating you as such. This is exactly why you’re encouraged to focus on your self concept rather than SP: when you improve your self concept, everyone (including your SP) will reflect that. If you feel worthy and attractive, your SP has no choice but to reflect that by treating you as such. People are merely messengers revealing to you what you believe to be true about yourself and others. If people are pointing something out, it’s because you are heavily focused on it. Think and speak about yourself in the way you want to be perceived by others.
How to stop waiting / checking for results: Think (affirm) as though your desires were already yours. Your desired reality is the only thing you should be focused on.
The moment you have a desire, it is done. The delay in the outer world is simply the orchestration of the people, places, and things necessary for the realization of your desire.
Once you start feeling natural / nonchalant about your desire, that’s when you know it’s close.
How to get rid of a third party: simply stop thinking about them. What you remove your attention from will eventually dissipate.
Stop giving attention to things you don’t want. If you don’t want it, it doesn’t deserve your time or energy.
How to get rid of resistance: The only way to get rid of resistance is through repetition & persistence in the new story.
By expecting / assuming something, you are only perpetuating it. If you expect / assume people always leave you on read, that will continue to be the case
To change your SP: if you want your SP to change, all you must do is change the way you think of and perceive them. If you’re annoyed with the way your SP constantly ghosts you, stop focusing on the ‘fact’ that they constantly ghost you and instead, focus on the version of them that’s communicative and loving.
How to let go of the old story: stop re-affirming it and stop allowing your old thoughts to creep in.
What to do if you’re not seeing movement: If you’re not seeing any movement, you’re simply focused on the lack of movement. This is a tell-tale sign that you’re living in the 3D (physical, perceivable reality) as opposed to the 4D (imagination).
Consistent thoughts = consistent results. Inconsistent thoughts = inconsistent results.
Think and speak as though you already had your desire and saturate your mind with that story. That should be the dominant, if not only thing, playing in your mind.
As eager as you may be to vent about it, repeating your old story isn’t going to make you feel better, but changing your thoughts to that of the wish fulfilled will.
You’re not creating, attracting, wishing, or hoping for your desire to manifest—you’re simply entering the state / reality in which it’s already a present fact. Every reality already exists now and all you must do to shift to / experience your desired reality is persistently dwell there.
What happens when two people are manifesting the same thing: trust that will win every single time. Your thoughts are the only thing that can allow you to ‘lose’ your desire to someone else.
Why things go ‘backwards’ : The only reason why things may go ‘backwards’ (aka why you’re not seeing progress or why your circumstances may he even worse circumstances than they were before) is because your thoughts and focus aren’t as persistent as they once were—when you were seeing steady progress .
“Die to your former self by yielding to other (favorable) states”. In order ‘die’ to your former self, you must enter a new state of consciousness, which will inevitably result in completely new life circumstances.
Your primary goal when manifesting shouldn’t be to gain something without (the 3D) but for your mental state to be aligned with your end goal. Rather than looking towards the 3D for ‘proof’ or ‘evidence’, you should only be looking within: Are you thoughts in alignment with your end goal? Do your inner conversations match those with the state of the wish fulfilled? Is your dominant focus on your desired reality rather than your current circumstances?
Persistence is the only way to get rid of resistance.
Rather than constantly focusing on the 3D, just persist. It’s okay if you don’t believe it or if the 3D is triggering you, but you must keep going. Remember that the 3D is irrelevant for everything is conforming behind the scenes: “An assumption, though false, if persisted in will harden into fact.”
When a desire comes upon you, immediately accept that it is done. It is already yours and God is nudging you to experience it.
Because the light of God within you is so strong and overpowering, your negative thoughts dislike you as much as you dislike them.
Your negative thoughts only have power over you if you believe them. If you can remain the mere observer of those thoughts and replace them with better, more positive thoughts, they will eventually dwindle and die down. Even if they do resurface, your awareness of who you really are will be so strong that they will no longer bother you.
Persist in reminding yourself that you are God. Anytime you’re feeling down or powerless, ask yourself, “What would God be thinking right now?”, “How would God act?” and do just that. Whatever you affirm to be true for yourself is exactly how your reality will unfold. Until you create a new story for yourself, you will only perpetuate your old, undesirable reality.
What you desire is already yours and there is nothing for you to do but accept your desires. Accept and feel the joy of fulfillment. Because your desires are meant to be, there is no reason to affirm the opposite.
Through your desires, you are able to catch a glimpse into your future that starts the moment you have that desire.