𝟎 𝐄𝐅𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐓 𝐎𝐍𝐋𝐘 𝐂𝐇𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐄𝐍𝐆𝐄

If I had to give young girls 5 pieces of advice, it would be:

1.

Do not be friends with people you do not like. Evaluate your friends. Just because you’ve been with them for years, does not mean you actually like them. Think how you would think of them if you two just met. Think about how they make you feel, and if they uplift you, support you, and you have fun with them. Make sure your friends have no jealously towards you, or any nastiness. (You don’t want to hear this, but your mom is probably right about who are your true friends.)

2.

Girls under 18.. Do not get involved with boys, especially physically.. I understand hanging out, and talking. You can enjoy life and the entire high school experience, I’m not shaming ANYONE for their desicions, but be very, very selective, and very responsible if you decide to do things (physically) with anybody. You never know boys true intentions, especially ones in high school, and I would tell every young girl to save the trouble. Flirt a little, have a little crush, it’s cute, it’s fun, but anything more and you will be suffering from heartbreak, & in the end you could get a lil boy crazy. Getting in a relationship could also mess up future opportunities, and sadly, even your dreams. (Harsh reality, but you may feel too tied down to go after what you really want in life.) In a couple years, you will be very proud of yourself, and grateful that you stayed single and did not give unworthy boys your valuable time or energy.

3.

Girls still in high school, If you choose to work.. Get a part time job. Do not dedicate a ton of your time to work. You have ALL of your life to work. Find out what your true interests and hobbies really are, work on yourself, and what you love to do. Experiment with different things to find out what you really want to do. I worked 5 days a week throughout most of my time in high school, and I wish I didn’t. I wish I enjoyed being that young more, and didn’t dedicate so much of that period in my life to a job I got absolutely nothing out of. So if you can, do NOT force yourself to work a lot of hours, and if you are working, try to save at least a little bit.

4.

If you have a dream, go after it now. If you want to be a youtuber? Start now. If you want to be on tiktok? Start it now. If you want to be a doctor/nurse/vet? Start working on your grades and figuring out your plan now. There is no better time than right now, and your future self will be ETERNALLY grateful you did this! You will have a head start, that is so beneficial, and you can get so far so fast like this.

5.

Have fun. LOVE YOURSELF, a LOT. Be the it girl. Be the girl in charge, don’t let anyone tell you you arent everything and more! Try to make new friends. Do things you enjoy. Learn new things about yourself. Read more books, go to more dances at school, more games at school, kickbacks, whatever it may be. Spend a lot of time with your family and your parents, especially if you’ll be leaving after high school or going off to a different college.

I hope this was helpful! Ultimately, do whatever your heart desires, but this is what I would tell myself a couple years ago.

a limiting belief I had was that I always struggle with transportation to appointments and work and school. it sounds trivial, but it's kept me from pursuing things and it pushed me towards isolating and shutting down.

an affirmation I'm replacing that with is 'i never have to worry about how I'll get where I need to go. it always works out for me.'

a lot of y’all on loa tumblr need to work on y’all self concept. y’all deadass have the worst mindsets i’ve ever seen and y’all will sit there and complain about not getting your manifestations as if that’s anybody fault except your own. i worked on my self concept for half a day and saw improvement in my manifestations instantly & y’all talk about how you’ve been doing this for years with no result. like babe all anyone can say is work on that self concept. y’all put yourself in the victim mind space and go crying to the loa acc and it’s really annoying bc all these acc ever say is mindset is key,self concept is key & y’all ignore that and try and manifest while assuming you can’t manifest

no cus literally a lot of issues a lot of these anons have can be solved with just self concept alone which is why i always tell my followers to do it and its mentioned in almost all my posts. self concept is KEY!

a lot of yall need to start taking RESPONSIBILITY of your manifestations, you control the when/how/whatever of your manifestation. so when are you gonna start owning it? when are you gonna quit the victim mindset and start achieving what you want?

theres so many lectures, pdfs, google docs, videos, posts and blogs out there to help you but you make the final call! do you want to be the hearer or the doer? start APPLYING THE LAW!

you guys have just got to do it, stop the overthinking, stop the logically thinking, stop over-analysing every little thing, stop worrying and just APPLY & DO IT. and if it gets difficult on the journey, don’t take that as a final verdict that you cant manifest. its okay to struggle, its okay to fall down and cry, its okay to restart and try and try again. what matters is you still having that ounce of determination left to manifest what you want.

Affirm Your Desires

When we focus on what we want, when we focus on the good, when we find the feeling we desire, we start to bring more of that into our lives.

Say it out loud, everyday,

"All good things come to me"

And watch how dreams become reality.

This makes a big difference

Don’t affirm like you are affirming to bring your desires to you. This implies a separateness between you and your desire. Instead affirm like you already have your desire. Don’t make affirming a chore that you have to do in order to attain something.

Why Emotions and Actions DO NOT MATTER

The way you feel towards getting your desire(s), and the actions (or inactions) you take towards attaining them mean nothing. This also includes your preferred manifestation methods.

What matters is your state. Are you living in the end? Are you in the state of having or wanting? Are you persisting in the assumption that you already have your desires? If you think you have to do or feel a certain a way to get what you want, then you're in the state of wanting and not having. Creation is finished. Everything you want is already available to you. Allow things to unfold naturally. Visualise, affirm, rampage etc if you feel like you want to. But once you know and accept you're God and all you want is already available to you (self concept), it is done. Feel however you want and let undesirable feelings or states pass. Think to yourself "How would the version of me act or think if they had received my desire?" and embody that. We no longer chase or force things, we assume.

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