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I've seen tons of asks on here about celebrities and footballers and I wanted to share one of my own personal experiences with manifesting a man in the NFL so that you all can understand how possible it is for you.
My family is really big on football, and it was actually around this time two years ago when teams had began to start drafting players onto their teams for the new season. My family always watches the draft together and I had thought how it would be so cool to date an NFL player. My family also jokes with me how NFL players would be my type of man. So I held the desire that I wanted to be with an NFL player and I sort of had a deep knowing that I can date one and I kept affirming to myself that one of these men on the teams can be mine. I believe it was a few weeks after when a friend invited me to watch a preseason game with her and a group of girls because one of them worked on the first aid squad and got a bunch of free tickets. I agreed and before I went I dressed up as if I would be meeting these men and dressing to impress. I even told my best friend that my intent is to be getting a date with one of the players by the end of the night. I just knew that this would be the outcome to the story and I knew it was possible for me.
At the end of the game, some of the players actually were coming around to some of the seats closest to the field to sign some of the fans jersey's, and I thought that this was my opportunity to talk to one of them, but unfortunately they did not come to where my seats were and my friends thought that we lost our chance to meet any. I was expressing that I still want to be able to meet some, and my friend wanted her jersey signed. This is when a stadium worker overheard our conversation and told us that if we are fast enough, we can leave to a certain exit in which the players exit from and we can catch them before they go to the bus and get our jersey's signed. Me and my friends left to that exit and me and my best friend actually were saying affirmations to eachother like "I'm getting a football players phone number" and repeating that. We found the exit that they were coming out from and there were other fans waiting to get their jersey's signed, but honestly I held such high self concept that I knew me and my friends were such gorgeous girls that they would want to talk to us first. So my friend got her jersey signed, and I asked this one player to sign my jersey and I was making conversation with him and before he left he gave me his instagram and told me to follow him. I followed him, later that night he DM'd me and we exchanged numbers. We made plans to hangout because he was having some of his teammates over, so I brought some of my friends over too to his house and I ended up spending the night with him if you know what I mean lol. We ended up texting for a bit after that, but I actually fell for somebody else in the meanwhile and he got traded to a team across the country so me and him didn't work out, but the experience was still amazing and I love telling the story.
I think one of the most important parts of manifesting a celebrity SP is taking them off the pedestal and also putting yourself on the pedestal. When I was talking to this man, I didn't see myself as somebody who can just be ignored or just a normal fan. I saw myself as the most gorgeous and desirable woman who every NFL player wants. I also saw talking to him as easy as talking to your average Joe on the street. At the end of the day, these celebrities are just normal men, they are human. And I will be cocky and say I know this because I have manifested multiple celebrity SPs, because I am the God of my reality and so are you!! You deserve to be cocky with the things you manifest because you are powerful. I had this NFL player telling me things like "I hope you don't leave me for one of my teammates" and "I hope you have time for me when your semester starts". Yes, HE Said he hopes EYEEEE have time for HIMMMM. I was shocked, but that is the power of self concept and putting YOURSELF on the pedestal. YOU ARE THE PRIZE
can we talk about how powerful the affirmation “it is done” is oh my god.
EXACTLY and "creation is finished"
Emerald Angst - MOC!Dean
What Do you Want? Smut - Michael!Dean x Reader
Mark Smutish - MOC!Dean x Reader
He’s a weird-o Fluff Drabble - Dean x Reader
Limits Angst, Smut - Dean x Reader
Dean x Reader one shot Smut
Starry Night Fluff - Dean x Reader
We Should Stop Smut - Dean x Reader, past Sam x Reader
Promise Smut - Dean x Reader
Quiet Smut - Michael!Dean x Reader
A Dashboard Confession Angst, fluff - Dean x Reader
You’ve Had Me All Along Smutish - Dean x Reader
Stake Out Smut - Dean x Reader
Hey Handsome Angst, fluff - Dean x Reader
Can’t Get You Close Enough Angst, Smut - Dean x Reader
Hush Smut - Dean x Reader
100 Ways To Say I Love You Fluff kinda - Dean x Reader
The Night We Met Angst - Dean x Reader
My Big Baby Fluff - Dean x Reader
One More Hour Fluff, Angst kinda - Dean x Reader
Dean x Reader Drabble Smut - NSFW gif below the cut.
Tell Me Smut - Dean x Reader
Silence Smut - Dean x Reader
Confessions Fluff, Smutish - Dean x Reader
Something To Gain Fluffish - Dean x Reader
Prompt: “You’re a sight for sore eyes.” Fluffish, Smutish- Dean x Reader
Prompt: “I want you whatever way I can have you – as my girlfriend, my friend, anything! Just stay.” “Hey, can you hear me? Open your eyes.” Angst - Dean x Reader
It’s So Clear Now Smut - Dean x Reader
Focus Smut - Dean x Reader
Prompt: “You’re too hard to love.” Smutish, Angst kinda - Dean x Reader
I’d Never Leave You Angst, Smut - Brief Sam x Reader, Dean x Reader
Born to Run Angst, Smut - Dean x Reader
It’s The Same For Me Angst, Smut kinda - Dean x reader
Worth The Wait Smut - Dean x Reader
Something About Being There Angst, Smutish - Dean x Reader
Just A Quickie Smut - Dean x Reader
Habbits Of My Heart Angst, Smut - Dean x Reader
The Hook Up Smut - Dean x Reader
2 Friends 1 Bed Smut, Humor kinda - Dean x Reader
Sexual Hallucinations Smutish - Dean x Reader
Frosting Fluff - Dean x Reader
Lie To Me Angst - Dean x Reader
Home Truths General, Angst kinda - Dean, Sam, Reader
Neither Love, Lust, Nor Longing Angst kinda - Dean x Reader
Snowed In Smut - Dean x Reader
Winluster Smut - Dean x Reader
Dean’s Blue Hole Humor - Sam Winchester, Dean Winchester, Reader
Playing With Fire Smut - Demon Dean x Reader
Halloween Drinks Smut - Dean x Reader
Heart Angst, Smut - Dean x Reader
Hot Water Smut, humor kinda - Dean x Reader
Justice Humor kinda - Drunk Dean Winchester, Sam Winchester
Douchebags Humor - Drunk Dean Winchester, Sam Winchester
Wolf in lamb’s clothing Smutish, Angst - Dean Winchester & Others
Scream Angst, Smut - Demon Dean x Reader
In Our (Supernatural) Time Humor kinda - Dean Winchester, Reader
“Harmless” Flirting Humorous - Dean Winchester, Reader
Nothing to Fight For Angst - Dean Winchester, Sam Winchester
Second Chances Angst, Fluffish, General - Dean Winchester
Right Here, Forever Angst - Dean Winchester
Solitary Angst, General - Dean Winchester
How To Be Brave Part 1 Angst, Smut - Sam x reader , Dean x Reader
How To Be Brave Part 2 Angst, Smut - Sam x reader , Dean x Reader
Self Destruct Part 1 Angst, Smut - Demon!Dean x reader, Sam x reader
Free Bird (Self Destruct Part 2) Angst, Smut - Dean x reader, past Sam x reader
By definition anything done in vain is not going to give you any results. So if you are affirming and it gives you results, then you are by definition not vainly affirming. If you believe in affirming on a rampage or on a loop or all day, then your reality will prove that belief to be true to you. Because your reality is shaped by your beliefs. You are not vainly affirming if you are getting results. You are not vainly affirming if it works for you. Because by definition it cannot work if you are doing it in vain. Take this from a person with an English degree. It is contradictory to say vain affirming works because the word itself means that it does not.
Affirming on a loop with belief = NOT vain affirming
Affirming with a rampage with belief = NOT vain affirming
Affirming in any way without belief = vain affirming because you will never get results if you do not believe.
Now, you don’t have to believe in the actual phrase you are saying immediately. For example, if you want to manifest being a millionaire and you do not believe that you are one yet, your affs can still work if you believe in the method. If you believe in the power of affirmations to manifest anything you want, then it will work, and therefore it is not in vain.
Now let’s stop turning this into personal jabs because it has become very immature and childish the way that an argument as simple as this has turned into bullying, gossiping, and sending death threats. No hate should have been sent by any party in this situation.
Also remember, you don’t have to listen to everything us blogs say. We constantly change our beliefs and contradict each other because we are on our own paths as well.
This is the last thing I’ll say because it’s sad and tiring to see people I used to enjoy be so petty and nasty towards other blogs I enjoy. Having differing opinions should not be the cause to actually turn on someone and entertain hurtful things about them. I hope we can all foster a healthier and more mature environment for discussion in the future.
about to steal this affirmation and use it for myself
I manifested an expensive ass apartment in LONDON. london apartments are expensive asf and its literally so beautiful inside and its surrounded by the most beautiful goregous looking restaurants aswell as my appearance this is one my favourite things ive manifested- and it only took A WEEK! literally a week.
It’s crazy how I even found out, i was just mindlessly scrolling through tiktok and my bf messaged me saying he got an apartment (i didnt even tell him what specific one i wanted btw, we were just talking about moving into an apartment) he showed me pictures and it was the ONE I WAS THINKING OF, LITERALLY. i was scared and happy..cus wtf. it was so unexpected.
Here’s what i did..step by step!
1. Prioritised self concept.
I’m ngl i barely actually affirmed for my actual desire, I focused on my self concept. Every morning I woke up i would say my affs- repeated them till i felt like it was enough, at night I did the exact same thing. I felt so much more confident in my manifesting abilities and I KNEW that i would get my dream apartment. My favourite affirmation rn is: “i am confident in my manifesting abilities and i know my manifestation inevitable no matter what”
Thats all I DID! Your self concept brings you your desire (aswell as actually affirming for it) i truly believe that. It’s amazing what focusing on self concept can do when done properly! See how simple it was? I didnt worry nor did I stress, nor did i focus on the how/when/how long it was taking me..i mean why would i? why would on stress on something thats coming to me no matter what? its like stressing on a package. you ordered it, its coming. theres no stress involved is there. BECAUSE YOU KNOW its coming, just like manifestation!
im not even stressing when i say this apartment is expensive asf its UP IN THE MILLIONS. I dont even know ..what to even say im ecstatic and im gonna be moving in around November/December with my bf and our puppies!!!
WHATEVER YOU PUT YOUR MIND ON, YOU CAN DO TRUST ME. I STRUGGLED AT FIRST WHILST MANIFESTING THIS, NOW LOOK WHERE I AM. JUST PERSIST, HAVE FUN!!! ITS ON ITS WAY. ITS ON ITS WAY. REPEAT IT TO YOURSELF
I know you are gonna think „yeah, no shit sherlock“ but listen to me for a sec. I think the reason why so many people fail to manifest their desires is because they are constantly in this “right now I‘m trying to manifest/I‘m manifesting“- state of mind. It’s kind of like affirming that “I will have this/this is gonna happen!!“
when?
great that you are putting your whole heart into all of this but darling you have to stop thinking that you gotta reach your desire when it’s already yours!! It‘s done!
please, live in the end. this is the only thing that comes in my mind for now. live as if you already have your desire, because you do. I will repeat this over and over again.
you have your desired hair, face shape, chin, jaw, forehead, hairline, eyes, eyebrows, eyelashes, skin, nose, cheeks, lips, teeth, ears, neck, shoulders, arms, hands, fingers, nails, rib cage/upper body, breast area, stomach, waist, abs, hips, legs, knees, feet,…
you also have your desired home, friend group, job, place to live, partner, family, teachers, ppl around you, career,…
EVERYTHING YOU DESIRE IS ALREADY YOURS. THE MOMENT YOU DESIRED IT, IT WAS YOURS.
now, after you read this… "how am I gonna live in the end?". living in the end means living as if your wish is fulfilled. and I want you to see this "as if" as a fact and not as a 'pretending' act of getting what you want. there is no "fake it til you make it" because you ALREADY MADE IT. claim it. there is no need to pretend that you have your desired face. see, I‘m saying this to make this feel as natural as possible to you. having your desired anything should make you feel at ease. I don’t want you to stress whenever you think of your desire baby, I want you to love yourself and to accept yourself no matter what. even if it’s hard. yes, it’s normal to feel that way. you‘re not alone. and even if many people might say "no, I tried this so many times, I won’t do it again!"… it’s alright ♡. we all have made our mistakes trying to consciously manifest. but manifesting is something that we all do, something that we‘ve been doing all the time. you already are a master manifestor so act like it. be it. even if you feel like you‘ve never really managed to manifest something, you are a master manifestor and I don’t care if you deny that.
wanna look like your desired face? right after you wake up, I want you to imagine yourself as your df and go on your day. embody this person as clearly as possible. be that person. embody your desired character. be that character. wanna be the person that attracts all the hot guys? BE THAT PERSON. just feel like it, feel confident, think like that person and think (=affirm) that you are exactly that kinda person that gets all the boys blushing. you also wanna drive a lambo? be that person who has a lambo. know that you have that lambo. keep telling yourself how elegant your car is and how you own it, simply because you can. get used to the things you wanna be or have.
your whole life you‘ve been told to work for these things, to believe that "dreams are dreams" and that they aren’t always meant to come true. false. you can do whatever you want, get whatever you want, be whoever you want. no one can stop you. step outta that victim mindset and please BE your higher self instead of starting your day, taking a look at the mirror and thinking "ugh, when will I become my desired person?" YOU ARE YOUR DESIRED PERSON, THROUGH AND THROUGH.
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OH EMM GEE I FORGOT TO MENTION MY SINGING MANIFESTATION
(this nigga looks goofy asl, thats why i picked him LMAOOOO)
anyways i started to practice for my audition and the only thing i needed to practice was my singing. before i started i was thinking to myself “yeah im an excellent singer 😀.....” deep down i was doubting myself HEAVILY because i was in chorus last year and i couldnt sing to save my life. i was in the bg humming and shit because if i brought my rusty pipes i would ruin the entire song.
fast foward to when i started to sing (i talked about this in my last post so please look back to get more details) BITCH I WAS KILLING IT!!!! LIKE I JOKE ABOUT ME BEING MARIAH CARREY BUT DAMN I MIGHT ACTUALLY BE HER
(OMG ADMIN FACE REVEAL 😱)
but seriously about the manifesting part. i was genuinely shitty at singing and in the back of my mind i was like “girl give it up, dont audition, you cant sing” but anytime i thought that i would affirm that i am an amazing singer. so when it came time for me to sing “i love play reherasal” I WAS KILLING IT <3333
hell now that i think about it these affirmations are working so good. if i hadnt started my project i probably would have beeen depressed asl.
OMG I LOVE HOW HOT I AM. this morning i got ready to go to shoprite and i decided not to wear eyeliner (even though it takes less than a minute for me to do i still dont want to do it daily) and i only decided to wear mascara and do my brows and i really looked hot. i mean i kept looking in the mirror and i noticed that i have such model features. i have pretty big eyes, cheekbones, nice lips, everything about me looks good. anyways today was a hair day so i had to affirm about my hair and i really dont feel a difference. tbh i didn't affirm as much as i did with the raven day but i also kinda affirmed more than i did yesterday. i found a girl with the hair type i wanted and i kept affirming that my hair was like her. today is now a rich parents day and im really looking forward to it. i already talked about this in my last post so im not going to talk about it again. # livingmybestlife # dreamgirldreamlife