staring at each other’s eyes and getting lost in their gaze
staring at someone from the corner of your eyes
and quickly turning away when they return your gaze
scented candles
matching necklace and rings
random “this made me think about you”s
“uh, so i find *your favourite character* very neat…tell me more about them?”
getting your lover a flowerpot
and when they ask laughing, “why are so extra? you could have just brought a flower”
you gently reply, “i want our love to grow and blossom, not to be a temporary pleasure, beloved.”
subconsciously linking little fingers
gentle reminders about how much they love you
long letters that talk about every silly to deep topics
interest exchange <3
saving their name as “my beloved <3″
soft stares and silly grins
nuzzling your sleepy head into their chest
playing with their hair
handmade cards
pouting when they say they have to leave for the day
“Scientists know that rats like to have their bellies tickled, so they used that as basis for testing happiness in rats. They found out that the ears of rats undergoing tickling became droopier and pinker - subtle signs of being relaxed and happy“
(via)
helping your partner undress/into the shower after a night of drinking/during sickness
being the only one capable of calming your partner down during a stressful situation
sharing clothes or showers
routine kisses
dancing to some silly music at the crack of dawn
writing each other love-letters
holding hands or interlacing fingers even when it's inconvenient
helping each other deal with loss of family members (not only in the emotional-aspect)
creating a memorial for a family member
helping each other furnish or decorate each other's house if not living together
letting your partner have their own drawer/things scattered all over the place if not living together
driving through the city at night
being ok with your partner showing up at your house at 2am, for any reason, no matter how small
texting your partner late at night asking them to come over, for intimacy, or to cuddle, for comfort or to eat
using your partner's love language to make them feel loved
being really competitive during board or video games
or starting a discussion because you clearly let me win but ''it's because you'd never win otherwise''
gossiping about things you aren't supposed to tell anyone
falling asleep while cuddling on the couch
playing pranks on each other (sometimes in public)
purposely making lame jokes to try and embarrass your partner
inside jokes/innuendos at improper times
discussing marriage/kids
from @quartermera:
slapping each other's butts casually and, depending on the situation, trying not to get caught doing it
video call when you are away from each other
ranting to each other about people you dislike
cuddling while being busy with your own things (ex. watching videos, reading, gaming)
arguing about what movie to watch together
teaching each other things about each other's hobbies or cultures
watching each other do things
getting each other snacks and sharing them
studying together if you're students. and i mean it literally
discuss "Am I the Asshole?" posts
be honest if something your partner did hurt you
joke or have a serious talk about your future together
from @purlturtle
discussing what to make for lunch/dinner/what groceries to get
divvying out who does what chores, both on a general basis (i'm usually the one doing laundry, my wife usually does dishes) and on a case-by-case basis (when one of us doesn't feel like or cannot do the chore)
decorating together (and discussing if teal is a good color to paint the bedroom in)
receiving visitors together (and cleaning the place beforehand)
hanging out together, doing something together or doing something individual (but still being together in the same room because you want to be close to each other)
"you left the bedroom window open and now it's fucking freezing in there!"
negotiating different styles and wants (or even needs) for decoration, music, lighting, workplace design if one or more of them work from home etc
have date nights at home
take care of pets or kids or family members or neighbors
cuddle in bed together (but, and this is rarely depicted, not always sleeping in each other's arms or even in the same bed - my sleep is too light; I'd wake up each time someone moves close to me. other people run hot in the night and don't need other bodies in bed with them. people snore. people have different circadian rhythms.)
"have you taken your meds today? remember you wanted to stretch before bed!" (okay, this is the middle age edition, I suppose 😅)
stumbling over something you partner did around the home that you weren't aware of, or simply discarded socks lying around randomly.
breakfast in bed
witnessing your partner's hobbies and idiosyncrasies
holding hands under the table
touching your lover's thigh under the table
hiding behind a wall, pulling your lover into a kiss as they walk by
''you need to stop doing that.'' ''do what?'' ''that little eye thing you do when i walk into the room.''
leaving notes in obscure places for your lover to find
pinned against the wall in the elevator
we kissed last night but we have to pretend like nothing happened
your hand is touching mine and i can't stop myself from taking it
making eye-contact with your lover from across the room, gesturing at them to follow you outside
tracing a finger across your lover’s scar
leaning in for a kiss but pulling away last second
whispering ''i love you'' in-between kisses
smiling in-between kisses
intertwining fingers
comparing hand sizes
straddling your lover’s thighs
tying your lover’s tie
falling asleep in your lover's arms
very obviously checking each other out while undressing, trying to deny it even though it's obvious
tending to your lover's wound
kissing your lover's forehead or knuckles
scooting closer to your lover in bed
good morning/good night texts
looking into your lover's eyes, then *gaze drops to lips*
Excellent.
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creating a vivid fantasy world in twenty questions-
does this world resemble earth?
what is a defining characteristic of this world?
what creatures roam this world?
is there a magic that is used?
what languages are spoken?
what is special to this world?
what makes it fantastical?
is earth mentioned in this world?
what clothing do creatures here wear?
describe the aesthetic
is it similar to another fantasy world?
give a brief description of the history
what is the government system? is there one?
how about describing some of the diversity?
what is ideal about this world?
what is a distinct inequality in this world?
is the world a background or woven into the plot?
what is the coolest thing about this world?
what inspired this world?
what would you give to go there? why would you want to go there?
types of fantasy subgenres - writing help
high / epic fantasy - a genre of fantasy that holds its own world and creatures. examples of this could be J.R.R. Tolkien's LOTR, or C.S. Lewis' Chronicles of Narnia
low fantasy - a genre where there are regular magical happenings in "our" world—such as a magical school, or people with magical abilities. this could be found in J.K. Rowling's Harry Potter, or Studio Ghibli's Spirited Away
urban fantasy - essentially low fantasy, only it takes place in an urban setting such as a big city. an example of this is Cassandra Clare's City of Bones
sword and sorcery - fantasy that is centred around swords, magic, and witchcraft. it is a subgenre of high fantasy. a book is Robert E. Howard's Conan series
dark fantasy - fantasy elements mixed with horror. The Atlas Six, by Olivia Blake
fable - a story with a moral lesson
arthurian fantasy - anything derived from the tales of King Arthur (the Sword in the Stone, etc.)
crosswords fantasy - essentially where the main character crosses between their world and a fantasy world. an example of this could be Lewis Carroll's Alice in Wonderland
dragon fantasy - what it sounds like.
historical fantasy - a cross between the historical fiction and low fantasy subgeneres. it could be set in a royal court filled with goblins, for example, in a time that was once present on earth.
SIGNAL/NOISE
there was a shift in the universe ever since this happened
Who makes the porn bots. Where do they come from. What do they hope to achieve.
I love this video so much. I thought I was the only person who experienced these things. this made me feel normal for the first time in my life.
to any other neurodivergent people out there: you're not crazy, or deranged, or disgusting. you're not a bad person. your intrusive thoughts are not your desires. and you are not alone.
ableists don't even make eye contact with this video.
“I rescued a pregnant street dog and her babies really enjoy hiding.”
(Source)
I cant stop laughing at this
Her name is Kira Obedinskaya.
She’s 12 years old and she’s from Mariupol.
Her mom died when Kira was an infant. Her dad, Yevhen, died during the r*ussian shelling of the city on March 17. Kira was wounded while trying to leave the city and (with people she was together) forcefully deported to Donetsk - on the territory occupied by r*ussia.
It’s kidnapping.
It’s mass deportation.
It’s happening right now and I want to scream about that at the top of my lungs.
Kira has a grandfather, Oleksandr, who wants to take her home, but he’s unable to do so. Mostly because r*ssians are unwilling to negotiate. And, probably, because they sincerely enjoy torturing people.
The only thing I can do is scream about her. About her and about all the broken lives. And maybe, just maybe, if we scream loud enough we’ll be heard.
So please, scream about Kira too.
And this is exactly why I get upset when ppl downplay Storm. Sis has a number of titles and you think they just for play?!
First consider the type of betrayal you want. Will it be minor to the story or absolutely earth shattering? Will you be leaving little breadcrumbs/hints for the reader to piece together, or will it come out of no where and blindside both the reader and characters? Be careful though because the latter can feel unrealistic or make the reader feel cheated.
Here are some tips on how to write betrayals in your story:
1) Set up the betrayal in a way that isn’t obvious. Leave tiny clues, use foreshadowing, drop hints in the background. Body language and dialogue can be great places to add subtle hints.
2) Make your readers invested in your characters. If the reader doesn’t care about the protagonist or even the betrayer, they won’t feel anything when the big deception happens.
3) The betrayer needs a motivation. Why are they betraying your protagonist?
4) It has to have an effect your protagonist. Usually the betrayer is someone close to the protagonist, so when they are deceived, it hurts like crap.
5) Do some research on the craft of lying. It can be hard for a character to keep up a mask for the entire story. Google some real-life betrayals in history, or in famous literature/movies. Study how the betrayals are hinted at and effectively revealed.
6) Play around with POV. A fun way to build tension is to have certain characters know things that others do not. Or perhaps your readers know about the betrayal-to-be before the characters do. This could put them on the edge of their seats waiting for your characters to figure it out before it’s too late.
7) Betrayal isn’t black and white. I don’t think betrayal is as simple as good and bad… it can get muddy. For example, what if the betrayer is being blackmailed? Mind controlled? Manipulated? Here are a few betrayal pathways to consider:
Evil from the start to the end, was never truly a friend.
Manipulated into betraying their friends
Wants to be on the “winning side”
Is offered gold or safety of their family for the betrayal
Blackmailed or threatened into the betrayal
They’re lesser or a “loser” in the beginning and can obtain power through this betrayal
Conflicted and stuck in between— this betrayer doesn’t know which side to pick and is constantly being tormented between the choice
The betrayer feels cheated/overlooked by the protagonist and choses to switch sides.
They’re betraying the protagonist to secretly protect them
They have no choice— literally. Mind control or magically forced
They think they’re genuinely doing the right thing
A remorseful betrayer who realizes his mistake but it’s too late, he is too far gone or the damage has already been done.
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Doing Dishes
Yardwork
Tidying up for company
Making dinner
Laundry Day
Can I Wash Your Back?
Pet(s)
First Day Of Work/School
Road Trip
Long-Distance Phone Call
Dusting
Regular Maintenance
Movie Cuddles
“Us” Day
Beautification Rituals
Brushing Teeth
Hair Washing
Wash The Car/Horse/Vehicle
Wearing Each Other’s Clothes/Wearing My Shirt
Meeting The Parents
New Year’s Eve Party
Drinking at Home
Teamwork
“Kiss The Cook”/ “Mr. Good Lookin’ Is Cookin’” Apron
Backyard Barbeque
Pool Party
“I never want to lose you.”
Marriage
Reading Together
Love Makes A House A Home
Another day in the Office
hugs that last a little longer than they should
immediately looking at the other after telling/doing something funny in hope to see their smile
making playlists and mood boards for the other
trying to learn about the others interests
continuously denying others who think they are together
“no we are not together!! … at least not yet…”
finding similar fictional characters who shares the other one’s MBTI and enneagram type
trying to know little things about them by observing
always giving the utmost attention to the other if they are in a crowd
associating random things with them
getting matching key rings
hanging out together often