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Why do you always say that girls with less education can't make it into the most exclusive circles? I'm sure that at least a few women with no college education have married really rich or married up into royalty.

Here are six examples.

Emma Weymouth was head girl at her private school, graduated with honours, went on to University College London and got a degree in Art History, went on to study Art History, and was raised by a Nigerian billionaire and English socialite, is an heir to her father's estate and will be worth billions when he passes, and had a career in modelling far before she married and became the Marchioness of Bath.

Meghan Markle attended private school, graduated with honours, got accepted to Northwestern, joined Kappa Kappa Gamma, worked for the State Department, interned at the American Embassy in Buenos Aires, and graduated with a B.A. after having double majored in International Studies and Theatre.

Duchess Kate has a B.A. in Art History, she worked as an accessory buyer, she graduated with honours and was involved in a wide variety of activities and did a number of summer jobs, she fundraised for UNICEF, and she took a gap year to go on a study abroad trip. She had a career before, during, and after she met Prince William and married into the BRF. This is an absolutely indisputable fact.

Mary of Denmark graduated with a Bachelors of Commerce and a Bachelors of Laws and went on to complete a graduate program. She attended the University of Tasmania and had a successful career long before she married into the Danish Royal Family and had solid plans. She had an accomplished life.

Queen Rania has a degree from the American University in Cairo in Business Administration and worked for both Citibank and Apple before she married into the Jordanian Royal Family. She now advocates for causes like education, health, community empowerment, youth, cross-cultural dialogue and micro-finance. She was accomplished.

Queen Letizia of Spain has a B.A. in Journalism, an M.A. in Audiovisual Journalism, and partially completed her PhD. She worked for various news outlets and was extremely successful, she worked for CNN+, she broadcast from Ground Zero after 9/11, she did journalism from war zones, and she was absolutely beyond accomplished in her own right before she married into the Spanish Royal Family.

See what I'm getting at?

Flat out, It's not possible to marry an extremely wealthy and extremely high class man without higher education. It just doesn't work like that. This isn't even my opinion, this is pure knowledge. I know a Prince of the Emirates extremely well, almost in the biblical sense, he roomed at Eton with my older brother who's Saudi and one of the legitimised Grandsons of Ibn Saud. Anyway, the number one thing he always looked for in a woman was her education because he couldn't bring a woman home who didn't have an educational background. It just wasn't done, she needed to have something going on for her upstairs for her to be able to succeed in life.

It's completely delusional to assume that any man who's in certain circles or knows certain people would want to date or be able to date a woman who has no formal higher education. I mean this in the most brutal way possible, you can't be fucking stupid. Someone needed to tell you. There's a reason why all of the European sugar babies and trophy wives have degrees from like...Saint Petersburg State University and the University of Montenegro at Kotor Bay, it's because they know the facts and they want to better themselves educationally. There's nothing worse than not being able to have an educated conversation with someone because you're in different places in your journey towards education.

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Something in my gut is telling me the year is going to be filled with even more blessings.

I want to become more comfortable speaking up for myself, having audacity, and just embrace the close mouth don't get fed mentality.

Three areas of my life that I need to speak up more, is school, friends, and to be honest just in general.

My fear of being perceived as a bitch is holding me back and making me not speak up and express my mind.

I also hate confrontation which is also why it's hard for me to speak up when something goes wrong.

I will say this, my dad is a very confrontational person. It's to the point that I don't even like going to places with him because I fear he is going to cause a scene. I know I just said that I wanted to have more audacity, but he takes it too far. He's literally a male Karen (still love him). I guess its about finding that balance and becoming assertive not aggressive because as another saying goes, you get further with honey than vinegar.

Works like a charm

my favourite anti-aging methods are inner peace, forgiveness and minding my business

Good morning to all the pretty girls around the world, hope you have a good day, beautiful!

Is hypergamy inherently transactional, and if so, does it risk commodifying relationship?

It doesn't surprise me at all that somebody would view hypergamy to be something that is inherently transactional the way it's showcased on social media. When you scroll through the hypergamy tag on TikTok, all you're going to see is tons of videos by beautiful woman who seem to to live the life - taken on expensive trips and shopping sprees, spoiled like a princess by their so called boyfriends, and living an enviably luxurious lifestyle. Nine times out of ten, she’s either a SW, staging it for views and attention, or trying to sell you something—a course, a consultation, a book, or some other product.

The version of “hypergamy” often showcased on TikTok is inherently transactional. Many of the women presenting themselves as “spoiled girlfriends” are, in reality, engaging in SW. This dynamic involves exchanging physical favors for money, which is fundamentally different from hypergamy. Despite the narratives pushed by some SWs, the two concepts are not interchangeable.The lines often blur in online spaces, which I find quite weird but it’s particularly concerning for young girls who come across videos of women being showered with gifts, roses, and luxurious lifestyles without realizing that, more often than not, these women are offering certain favors in return and this lack of transparency can be dangerously misleading.

Hypergamy is not a new concept or a trend that has arisen in recent years. It has existed since the dawn of humanity and will continue to do so because most women will always be attracted to men who can provide them with a good life, much in the same way that men are attracted to beautiful woman, it’s just a fundamental aspect of human nature and rooted in biology and social conditioning. Does that mean a man will settle down with a woman just because she's beautiful or that a woman will settle down with any rich man? In most cases, that’s not the case—unless they lack discernment or are extremely desperate. Attraction and relationships are far more complex than just beauty or wealth.

You can’t build a healthy, lasting relationship on something as superficial as good looks or wealth alone. Yes, physical attraction and financial stability are very important factors but there are many other key factors at play and no man in his right mind is going to marry a woman just for her looks or in exchange for physical favors. A woman who has married well will keep her mouth shut about it and care about her privacy and reputation, you're not gonna catch her filming videos of a day in her life as a spoiled girlfriend or trophy wife, she's not going to give you tips on how to bag a man and what manipulation strategies to use because those tips don't work in the long haul unless you want to attract narcissists or unstable man.

A woman who attracted a quality man did it by becoming one herself. The most reliable way for a woman to marry well is by focusing on becoming the best version of herself—not for the purpose of attracting a wealthy partner, but for her own growth and self-worth. Women who have genuinely succeeded in hypergamy don’t make online videos or share intimate details of their lives. They know the power of privacy, dignity, and self-respect.

Women who marry well do so not just because of their looks, but because they have dedicated themselves to personal growth in every aspect of their lives. They invest in their education, build meaningful careers, and refine their skills, improve in every aspect of their life while also cultivating a strong, supportive social circle. I don’t believe in opposites attract; you attract who you are. The quality of the partner you draw into your life reflects the person you’ve worked to become.

Winter arc..

2025 is almost here so these next 2 months are important to me. I am even more motivated than ever since a certain someone is in office. I broke my goals up into different sections and I want to reflect on them this week.

Health & Fitness: This has been my strongest area so far. I have a good workout split that I have been following and it has been showing amazing results. As for diet, I have been pretty discipline in that area as well. On Monday - Thursday I do not eat refined carbs, fried foods, and no sugar. On Fridays I allow myself to a small snack that I may have been craving throughout the week or just wanted, but I still eat healthy. Saturdays and Sundays are my cheat days. I try a lot of new restaurants on the Weekends and this college town is very small and limited with healthy options so I do not even bother. I have such a big passion for medicine and when I go to the hospital and see how much weight is affecting the patients it honestly scares me. I also binge watch "My 600 lb Life" so I have been pretty turn off from unhealthy food,

Academic: This is where I struggled. I realized I am never strong in both areas. If I doing well with my health and fitness, I slack in the academic department and vice versa. For some reason I could not get off my phone so the procrastination was high. Also I was not studying the way I usually do and it showed on my tests. This week I am definitely going to lockdown for real.

Personal: I do not talk politics on this blog because I want to keep it light and fun, but honestly with him being in office it showed me how selfish I need to be because everyone else is. The self preservation is going to be at an all time HIGH.

Anyways thats all.